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Q: I like this girl that goes to my sckool and stuff we have alot of classes together we talk and stuff and she invites me to go places with her friends but i always say no because im scared to go somewere with her friends and i want to know if i should go with her or what should i just ask her out pls help me
I think you should try and get to know her friends a bit first,
because if you start going out with her then she might ask you to go out with her friends and if you say no,
then she might think you don't like her friends and it might get a bit weird. Or she might feel like she has to choose between her boyfriend and her friends.
Just try and get to know her friends a little bit and if you feel scared invite one of your mates to come along with you.

I think you should go out with her and her friends a couple of times and then when the moment seems right, just do it. Ask her out. If she says no, then you can still be friends and maybe ask her out another time.

Good luck


Q: Why do i feel so unmotivated?
im a senior in high school and i havent doing any homework or studying lately, i did all my work for the last 2 months ago but now i feel so lazy and dont feel like doing anything, i know i shouldnt do that but when i get home from school i feel so tired and just want to sleep i have a 2.4 i would like to go to community college first and go to the state college what should i do to make myself motivated and dont feel lazy at all? im so disappoited to myself but i dont know how to fix it.
everyone feels like this at times, its normal . i feel like this almost all the time.
i think if you get some tasks you should do the easier ones done first to get you started and then you should be motivated,if this doesnt help when u do feel motivated do as much as you can. and if this doesnt help try going to bed earlier or having something like coffee or redbull to wake you up or ask a friend to come over and you can study or do your homework with them ,this usually always gets me motivated and you have fun along the way .goodluck .

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Hey it's Kat and Jess.
Ask us anything, we're happy to help.
We're both 15, and even though we're young, we give pretty good advice and have experience in alot of these subjects.
Just give us a try and I'm sure you'll be pleased.

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-Kat&Jess

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