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What do you think is the oldest a 16 year old could/should date?
No details, other than it would be legal. I just want to gain opinions on this. (link)
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scientifically, it's said that a three year difference where the guy is the older one is the best match up, maturity level wise, but honestly, i don't think it matters that much. i'm 16 and i've dated a 24 year old. i know a 16 year old that dated a 28 year old. it just depends on how comfortable you are with him. i wouldn't worry too much about age, it's really just a number.
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14/f (sorry this is long!)
okay. normally i'm really good with relationship advice, but apparently i can't help myself with this one. so, there's this guy at my school-we'll call him 'trevor.' so, i have liked trevor since the beginning of the school year. he had a girlfriend-let's call her 'jenny.' jenny is really nice and we talked a little bit. but anyway, i liked trevor but trevor was going out with jenny. well, we flirted a little bit and trevor and i became friends. then, we had a sadie hawkins dance at our school. i went with a guy friend. trevor went with his other friend that's a girl (she couldn't find a date, they're like bro + sis), and jenny went with one of her friends that's a guy. well, trevor had absolutely no fun with his date, while jenny flirted it up with her date. trevor breaks up with jenny. jenny comes to me and tells me everything. she says she's over him. he now flirts with me nonstop. it's just funny little things, sports things, or me making jokes (i'm the funny one =]) and him saying that i'm really funny/cute/cool. i want to go out with trevor more than any other guy. EVER. but still, i have this weird feeling that i would be betraying jenny. help ! what do i do ? (link)
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talk to her about it. true friends can work these kinds of things out. tell her that you have feeling for him, but you don't want to be betraying her. if she says its okay, and she really is over him, then its okay. if she's not okay with it, just tell her to let you know when it'll be okay. you don't wanna think back to this and wonder what if. what if you had gotten with him. and all that stuff. bottom line: talk to her. i know it's easier said than done, but theres really no other way to go about this.
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okay this isnt about me dating my friends ex or anything, i have no interest in that at all.
okay im 17/f to start off with. well i used to be best friends with this girl, we're still good friends but we just dont hang out like we used to. she met this guy over the summer, and through a series of events, they started dating. they were the perfect couple. and everytime i was with her, he was there, and i got to know him and hes really fun to hang out with. well just recently, they have fought a lot, and eventually they broke up permanently. now its really awkward when i text him, because i dont want her to get the wrong idea, that i like him or something. he is just a cool friend and he always listens if i have a problem. i kinda miss hanging out with them, and i want to again, but i dont think that will happen because they fight alot and stuff. i feel like i cant hang out with him either, because then she'll think i like him or something(if i was in her position and she started hanging out with him, i would feel the same way, you know?) so i never really see him at school, and hes a cool kid so i dont wanna lose him as a friend. i tried to get them back together, but mission failed. i really dont want her to think im sneaking around her back, because i dont mean anything by it. i just want us all to be good friends again, what do i do? (link)
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stop telling us that this is how you feel, talk to the both of them! tell her that he's a good friend of yours, just as much as she is. she can't expect you to totally forget about him after how close you guys all got while they were together. see how she feels. she can't say you're "sneaking around" if you're not even sneaking. just let her know that you want to still hang out with him and he helps you out a lot. ask her if she'd like to join in, but just as friends. talk to him about it to. see if you can get them to set their differences aside for a few playdates. it shouldn't be that big of a deal. if they havent tied up loose ends, thats their problem. your friendships shouldnt suffer because they can't figure out what their problem is. you need to make her see that he's a good friend of yours, and you can't just start ignoring him and kick him out of your life because she doesn't like him anymore. if she's a good friend, she will understand. just tell her to let you know if she starts feeling jealous or hurt because of what you are doing, and take it back a step. work it out! good luck.
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Im 13.
i do lke 100 crunches in themorning
100 crunches at night.
i dont have such a BIG belly
its jus kinda big,not rlly though but i want it flat
first question is.
what results will i see?
and if i run while doing crunches will my stomache go flaT?
and ofcourse i kno about the eating rite thing
thanks in advance.. :]
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doing crunches wrong can make your stomach bigger. i suggest sit ups. and don't get lazy doing them. make sure when you keep your abs tightened the whole time and when you go up, your shoulder blades should come up off the ground. running will definately help a lot.
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I'm not able to go to clubs for a year & a bit, but I'm curious - what is it like to go clubbing? What do you do? Do you bring/carry a purse? How much does a typical night (cover & drinks) cost? How late do people usually stay? Do you have to carry your ID with you the whole night (ie, in a purse)? I want to be prepared once I can finally go, so thanks for the insight, haha! (link)
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are you saying you can't go for a year because you're under 18 ? because if that is the situation, there are underage clubs where you can get some experience before you go to the real clubs. typically, for girls, it shouldn't cost more than 10$. most of the time anyways. club promoters will always have flyers that will get you in for 10$ before a certain hour. guys will buy you drinks in most cases, but carry an extra 5 or 10$ just in case you want to drink, and no guys buy you anything. you must carry your ID with you the whole night, but out of experience, i would say carry it in a pocket or something because bringing purses clubbing is VERY inconvenient. hope this helped(:
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how would i turn my boyfriend on
? like differnt ways other then whispering something "sexay" so if u tell me to do that then give me a line that works or where would i touch to turn him on DETAILS im begging of you its annoying me to death i mean i have before but i want it to be quick not an hour long or somethinglol ya sadly. (link)
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every guy is different, but with most guys, theres a couple things that'll work: kiss his neck, and not like just pecks, basically like make out with his neck. (i know, it sounds weird, but yeah) run your fingers through his hair. touch his chest. rub his thigh. place your hand on his knee and slowly trail it down the inside of his thigh to his uh you-know-what. good luck? haha.
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ok i have T-Mobile. im going to sell my phone on ebay because i just dont like it really. its weird. so i found a Rumor from Sprint on there. it says its unlocked.. so does that mean it can be used on any carrier? because i thought thats what i'd heard before. i asked the seller, but she said she's not entirely sure and doesnt want to tell me wrong. if it can't be used on another carrier, isn't there someway to get it unlocked so i could use it with T-Mobile? how does that work? do you have to pay for it? idk, anyone that has experience with this please let me know! (link)
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even if you can get the phone to unlock, you won't be able to use it with t-mobile. the sprint phone company doesn't use a sim card, so there would be no where to stick your sim card, and of course, all t-mobile phones use sim cards, it they don't work without one. long story short, it won't work for t-mobile.
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theres this boy whos said he liked me and i finally told him that i like him too. were not going out or anything, and today i found out that he has been talking about my boobs with his friends. i feel mad and disrespected but then on the other hand its like we are offical or anything and im the one that wanted it to be like that. (link)
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VERY big deal. word of advice: get rid of him. if he's talking about you objectively, then that's how he sees you. i know this may sound mean, but that's probably the only reason he like you. of course, i don't know the boy, so i'm not sure about this, but he's talking about your boobs for one of two reasons: 1) he's stupid and immature and wants to be cool in front of his friends. 2) he's using you and he only likes you for your boobs. he just wants to get some. if you know him really well, then you can probably tell which one it is. if not, ask someone that knows him well be that you're sure will tell you the truth. if he just likes you for your boobs, don't waste your time one him.
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