Hey I'm Stephen, I'm 20, I'm pretty athletic, I have blackish hair, and brown eyes. 6'1.
Website: Thoughts of just some other guy on the earth
Gender: Male
Location: Orlando, Fl
Occupation: Student
Age: 20
Member Since: January 1, 2005
Answers: 32
Last Update: August 27, 2005
Visitors: 4004
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alright, i like this kid, because he's nice to me, but he's not very attractive and i'm afraid it won't work out because i don't think he's like oh so mondo hot. any suggestions, my dear? (link)
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Do looks matter that much to you? woah. So the only things you can say about this person, is that they're nice, and not so hott, you obviously don't know, and liking them would make no sense, but uh, I'd take nice-ness, over looks, i mean, come on.
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hey i have a bat mitzvah coming up and i dont know how to do my hair. My hair dresser is going to do it for me, but she wants me to think of some styles i like. i was wondering if anyone could help me give me some ideas or pictures, it would be a big help! i dont want anything dramatic. i have straight thin brown hair that goes a little past my shoulders. thanx! (link)
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no idea...sorry.
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i keep getting into little stupid fights with my best friend, and we are both upste about it. i dont know what to do about it though (link)
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Don't say negitive things about them behind their back, try that on for size.
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Yo stephen. ur prolly 1 of my fav advice givers. I have a ? 4 u, kk?
There's this 1 grl who I c like everyday, and, u know, she's oretty good looking n all, n I don't really know how to go up and talk to her since we dnt have ne classes together. Just based on a hunch, I thnk she might like me, but I cldnt rly say just from passing eachother a few times. I mean, I cld just wlk up and tlk to her, but that would be 2 goofy n awkward. Ne ideas oh great advice giver?
-Nobody in particular. (link)
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I wanted to tell you that giving me praise, deffinately makes you awesome...whoever you are. This one's a tuffy though, and if you're trying to spell things weird so i don't recognise you or anything, and you just spell like that...please do us all a favor and stop, lol, but you're awesome because you called me "great." well, if your hunch is right, and you're really starting to feel that she likes you too, then there's nothing wrong with going up to her, i mean, if she likes you, then you won't look like an idiot in her eyes. If you could get a screenname or somethig then you could get to communicating with her until, it'd be perfectly okay to just go up and talk to her. but then again...you'd have to talk to her to get her screenname...idk, i feel stupid now...anyhoo, first incounters are really different, I don't know who you are, but eh, just try to be laid back, notice something in common, and i know it's difficult, but talk to her about it, i don't know who she is either, but, if she wears band shirts, stop her and talk about the bad or something, having no classes is hard, but if you have lunch, you could talk to her then. thinking someone likes you, by only passing each other a few times in the hall is kinda weird tho...but uh, i hope i helpsed just a bit.
Here's looking to you kid,
Stephen.
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hey stephen,
there's this girl i like at school, and we used to be really good friends, and talked all the time
but now she seems to be ignoring me all the time and i don't know why
any ideas on why and what to do? (link)
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hmm, it really depends on the person, but in general, just try to spend more time with them, and try to rekindle the flame of your friendship. uf she's ignoring you, maybe you need to step up your engagements with her to let her know you want what you used to have. but, eh, hold the phone....you like her?......whoops. umm...replace "friendship" with "relationship" but go for the friendship part first, i think you should only go out with someone that you're good friends with first. having a girlfriend is like having a best friend with romantic intrists, that all, at least that's what i think, but, try to hang around her more, start up conversations, try to engage her more to get the point across, that's really all i can say
caio
Stephen.
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i feel so lonley with out a boyfriend..i miss having someone here to cuddle with and talk to and shit..is that wrong? (link)
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of course not, you'll find one. or get a puppy!
Stephen
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Hi steven, I found out the other day that i was gay because I was watching gay porn alone and I got this huge boner. OMG I was so confused and ashamed, should I start dating guys? I have this great girl right now but I don't want her anymore after I saw what guys can do plz help. (link)
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My immediate thought is, wow, i don't want to deal with this. my second is, is he serious, but saying you are serious, go for the guys, or be bi. that's all i gotta say.
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Hi, I have a little bit of a problem. Well, I like this guy a lot, but the thing is, is that he doesn’t know I like him... Or he does, but he doesn't know how much. He thinks I like someone else... And I'm really upset because I know he would never ask me out, 1 because he doesn't think he knows me very well, and he is probably right, two the guy he thinks I like (which I do but not as much as him) is his friend... And I didn't even realize how much I liked him until my other friend that likes him was talking about him... And all I could think about was him and how much I wish I could see him and give him like a big hug... And I actually started to get a little jealous... So, what do I do? (link)
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Well you obviously have to come out and tell the guy how you really feel, because if you're saying that he thinks you like someother more then him, or thinks you like him a lot less then you do, then you have to set your feelings straight with him, and the best way, if he's an understanding individual, is to just sit him down and talk to him about it. I mean, really talk to him about it. that's really all I can say bout that one.
Hope I helped
~Stephen
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hi i got out of a relationship that lasted about a 5weeks and my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. we dont talk anymore and barely look at eachother. i may still have feelings for him but i dont know how to get rid of them and i dont know if he still has feelings for me, i mean i can feel him watching me when we pass in the hallways and hes now depressed everyday and hardly talks to anyone. i dont know what to do with the feelings that i have left for him....plz help. -lost and confused- (link)
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Okay, no offence, but a 5 week relationship, that's nothing to get really upset about. It's that if you do have feelings for him, that you want to get rid of them. and that you don't knoe if he has feelings for you. well by saying that you "don't want" feelings for him pretty much, it leads me to belive that you arn't even considering anything between you in the future. I don't know the depth of your guys's relationship, but if someone gets really depressed, and stops talking to their friends, maybe they arn't very emotionally stable. You don't know what to do with the feelings you have for him? it sounds to me that you've already made up your mind to get rid of them...hoqw to do that, differs for different people, but try talking to friends about it and stuff, and don't get involved in his depressed-ness because he might think you're still interested even if you arn't.
hope i put a dent in your perivial brick wall,
~stevo
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hmm hey steven, im with someone and i thought before that i had feelings for some guy but it turns out i was just interested in how he was i wanted to learn more about him and i would like to tell him that i dont like him, and i also want for other guys to stop complimenting me and telling me about my looks, i really cant stand when a guy is like oh yeah you rack blah blah... what should I do? (link)
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okay, guys complimenting you, you're never going to get away from it, if you're beautiful, you're beautiful, and people are going to let you know...if anyone says you have a nice rack, they're an asshole. that's completely against everything that I personally stand for...you do have to take into account though, that when a person first sees you, it's looks they see. it's horrible i know, but that's what they see until they get to know you. so until these people get to know your personality, it's probably going to just be looks that they're commenting on. I'm sorry, but that's the way it goes. It's your fault for being pretty. lol, anyways, umm...i didn't exactly understand the first part of the question, but here goes nothing. okay, so you're with guy 1 right now, and you thought you had feelings for guy 2...or...you're with guy 1, and you thought you had feelings for guy 1, but actually you just wanted to get to know him. it's one of the two, or else I'm an idiot...so i guess i have to cover both. lets start with being with guy 1, and not liking him. Okay, so you just wanted to get to know the guy, no harm in that, but it turns out you don't like him, okay, tell him. you have to communicate, it's the basis of everything, that's why humans are smarter then dogs. you should tell him that you just wanted to get to know him better, and that you got caught up in the excitement of it all, and that you really just want to be friends. it's hard to tell someone, but it should come out the best that way. now, if you're with guy 1, and you thought you liked a guy 2, then you have to sent the message to guy 2 that you're happy with guy 1, and stop leading him on(if you were) it's torture to do that.
hope this helps,
~Stevo.
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I am really in love with this guy who lives over 1ooo miles away from me. We talk more than anyone else i talk with, and we both love each other very much. Im 14, and he's 16, but we dont care about age. He is already making plans to move to florida when he's older and our relationship is pretty serious. I love this guy, but i want to know if it's right to be going out with someone so far away? Please help?? (link)
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so he plans to move to florida when he's older, how much older. a year, i'd say that's possible, but if you're wating 3-4 years for this guy to move down here, and you see him, maybe 6 times a year..talking on the phone and aim is great, but you need physical contact, and real situations for the relationship to survive. it seems pointless to save yourself for someone so far away, when new situations present themselves every day.I don't belive in love at first sight or anything, but if you really love this guy...and even though you've only been on earth for 1/5 of you life, if you think you've found your true love, hold out for him. otherwise...it's pointless.
~Stevo.
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Hello. I recently have run a mighty fine relationship into the ground. It was great and now it's in shambles. I was very active with this girl, seeing her a lot, a great phsyical and mental attraction, I felt on the same level and that things were going great. Well she dumped me. My friend almost got serious with her but didn't of behalf of me. Well now there is another girl that I like. I'm not positive how serious it is. I don't know if it is just a fling or the real thing. I still have active feelings for both girls, it's just nothing can happen with the first one so why bother? I just can't help it. I'm not sure what to do? Can you help? Thanks,
-Anonymous (link)
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About the second relationship, the more current one, if things have gone between you in the past, and you've liked each other before, I'd say that it isn't a fling, because it's happened more than once over a period of time, about the one you ruined, since you said nothing can happen, it obvious nothing can happen, so just get it out of your system. don't use girl 1 to get girl 2 out of your system, that's horrible, and I'd have to call the "you're a horrible person police" just don't do it. I'd spend more time with girl 1, if your feelings grow everytime you're with her, and you and her have shared similar feelings in the past, then I'd say it would be a safe bet to start prosuing a more serious relationship. However, do no prosue a relationship with girl 1 if your feelings for girl 2 are still strong enough to even begin to rival those with girl 1, if it's like a 35-65, i smell disaster. girl 2 below 15, at least.
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