well miss. amanda morace,

i think you need to eat a large ice-cream sundae, watch some gilmore girls, and then look in the mirror at your tiny little self and say "i love me!"

haha, then, maybe you will be happy with yourself.

also, maybe you should stop sending me dumb, fake questions because you and the rest of the world know you are the skinniest child in minisink. hehehe.

i think you most deffinitley should talk to cici.

afterall, if she has been expressing to you how much she misses hanging out with you and how this girl emily is getting on her nerves, then obviously she is not as happy having emily as her best friend.

it sounds like you and cici have a really great friendship, and you dont want this to be ruined on a girl who would love nothing more then for your friendship with cici to be destroyed.
by giving into this, you're giving emily exactly what she wants.

but you should talk to cici. trust me. i was in a similar situation and i was so crushed by it that i just didn't do anything about it and now me and my old best friend havn't talked in about a year. if i had said something sooner we would probably still be friends. so you should really talk to her before it becomes too late.

oh boy, the egotistical friend... always fun!

yes, i have one of those. and believe me, i know it can be so difficult at times! In a situation like this I think you really need to look at your frienship with this girl and try to find the qualities in her that made you become her friend in the first place. if you find there are very many, then you should just learn to deal with her egotism, as i have with mine. however, is she is the type to constantly put others down, and has never offered much to your friendship, then it is time to let this girl know that you're tired of the way she's acting and if she can't stop, at least around you, then you will have to take a break from the friendship.

also, it could be that your friend has no idea she's acting this way. maybe if you brough it up (in a way that won't cause a fight!) she may realize how she's been acting and she'll stop.

Also, there must be a reason she thinks you're her best friend. could it be that you act as though she's your best friend while you're around her and then become annoyed with her when you think about the way she behaves and then don't consider her your best friend?

either way, good luck with this. i wouldn't dump her all-together. i would talk to her and go from there.

i went through the same thing when i was 13. i think at that age you're so self-concious that you try to find any little thing that seems to be wrong with yourself, and you believe it to be worse then it really is. If you are so skinny that your ribs stick out, DO NOT cut meals or eat very little.

If you feel as though you are over-weight, maybe try eating a little healthier. you may be eating normal meals but the content of the food may not be good for you. Also, you could do a little bit of excersising. You don't have to go crazy or anything, but maybe you could take a walk around the block, or find a sport you really love and go with that.

also, stop comparing yourself to other people. i did that all the time and it's the worst thing to do. everybody has a different body type and we can't keep comparing ourselves to people the same ages as us that may weigh less, but may have a different build. because you're so tall, your weight is most deffinitley normal and i'm sure you do not look fat at all.

i know its hard but just keep your self-esteem up and i'm sure you'll be feeling better about yourself shortly!

hmm, what is there to say about myself?

i'm very much into music, drama, reading, writing, all that good stuff.

i've been told i give good advice. i suppose you can judge for yourself!

i'll answer any question so feel free to ask!

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