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17 female senior. (sorry its so long!)
Okay so i have this thing where i'm scared to mess around with guys, like i'm cool with them doing things to me, its the whole idea of me doing stuff to them. Don't get me wrong its not like i've never done anything before but i get nervous everytime that i have (which have been on rare occasions) I'm okay with sex too... it's just like handjobs and head and whatnot. But anyways, i think the reason why i get so nervous is because once when my boyfriend and i were kind of drunk i gave him head and he didn't go which i didn't really think was possible but i felt so bad and i just couldn't get him too, does this have something to do with him being under the influence or do i just suck? lol (link)
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Ya'll were both drunk sweety! It ruins both of your performances. lol. You were drunk, and had a hard time keeping up, and his intoxication ruined his focus. It's all good. Don't let one bad experience hold back the bad girl in you. :-p
♥ Ashleigh
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14 female (sry if its confusing)
1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me
Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high) (link)
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Move on hun. INDEPENDANCE.. such a beautious thing. If you're friend were telling you they didn't like him, LISTEN TO THEM. Your friends are gonna be there for you through it all, and they know best most times. They see more than you do when you're crushing on someone.. and if YOU know he's wrong for you too, then just let go. :( I know it hurts.
♥ Ashleigh
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I've been seein this guy for about 6 months now {he's 28} were not officially together {which is not the problem}, but he never asked me out like that, but I do go hang out at this house & we go places together, I've even met some of his friends. I know his last g/f really hurt him so he said he wanted to take thing's slow, which I understand. problem is, we go to the movies & he doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I'm more than a friend..not even holding hands. This has happened twice. We do kiss each other goodnite, when I leave his house, but no kissin while I'm there! lol Am i just stressin something that doesn't need to be stressed or is this just as much a issue as I think it is? {btw, I'm 22} thanks, I'll rate HIGHHH (link)
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Sheesh. It sounds like an issue to me. You obviously care deeply for this guy, and he never asked you out? Maybe that means he's afraid to commit, or even that he's with different girls constantly. Have you ever asked? I think you should just ask him straight up, "Are we together?" There are different things to consider, how does he introduce you, as his girlfriend, or friend? Bluntness is the best way to go about it. Just ask what's up. There's no need to waste your time with someone who doesn't even want to be with you full time. :-p
♥ Ashleigh
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