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My name is Senaida. I am a very opinionated lady, I believe I have been through very tough times but deffinetly not the worst. I can take a lot of crap, and I am glad to always make a friend. Best friends come from fights in the beginning, I have learned that. I love giving advice as well as receiving it.

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i'm going to a softball game with my friend amanda and my very good friend jeoe and i'm going to flurt with him but i still don't know if he has a gf b/c the last time that i talked to is sister she said that he was going out with a crazy bitch. i don'y know what to do should go for it or should i just back off, but i really likr him and i've liked him since 7th grade but i don't kno what to do so if any body can help please do?

I think you should call him before the game or something and just inch into the conversation like, "Hey, how are the ladies treating you?" or, "Well Mr.Ladies Man...." It's a lot easier to get your answer like that because he will open up without knowing you are wanting to just find out if he is dating or not.

I wish you luck. ♥



If you do not have his phone number, you should include that in your paragraph instead of giving someone a terrible rating for your own mistake.

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I'm 20/f, he's 22m, I always like opinions on this kind of thing.
Our situation's pretty complicated - we're not actually going out, but we act like it. He's also my best friend. We actually dated two years ago for seven months. We still like each other, and we're still involved.
He also hates Valentine's Day. (Though when we were going out, he picked me up from work with a card, a rose, and took me out to dinner. Sweetest thing ever.)
I was thinking about getting him something like a card - but he already knows how I feel, and reiterating it might just make him feel caged, and that's not what I want.
So I was thinking about getting him a small container of my favorite cologne - but he doesn't really wear cologne much anymore.
I've given him stuffed animals in the past (he's a sensitive sweet guy with a tough exterior =P), and a framed drawing for his last birthday...so I dunno. I love to personalize my gifts to my friends, but I'm not sure where to go with this one.
I was also thinking of suggesting we go to Melting Pot (Amazing fondue restaurant that you need reservations like a week in advance for), but I dunno how he'd take it.
What do you guys think?

I believe instead of trying to give him something tangible, you should just watch a movie with him at your house and talk. It would be nice if both of you just got together and made dinner together, not you making dinner before he came over of anything, just hang out in your place with a bunch of movies and making dinner together, not only will you have fun but it's something to look back upon, not some item that can be lost or destroyed in a house fire if you know what I mean. Also maybe a personalised picture of you and him would be nice too to remind him of the great friendship you have and how much you appreciate it.

Hope all goes well. ♥

If your place is taken up, maybe you can do it at his.

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