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i'm fifteen. i'm shy & i keep to myself. i hate it. i can't solve my own problems, actually, i can't really solve anybody's problems... but i can try! haha.

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Gender: Female
Location: vermont
Age: 15
Member Since: January 28, 2006
Answers: 26
Last Update: January 19, 2009
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ok well i was w/ my boy for a couple months but he lives so far away we never get to see eachother. so even though we both (really) love eachother, we knew that at least for now until high school was over we'd have to break up. but ever since not much has really changed. like since we both still love eachother we still act like we're going out. and now i'm like so excited cause he got accepted to the same camp i signed up for this summer, so we're gonna see eachother there. i know things are gonna happen between us..i'm just asking that even though we arent together anymore, its only because we cant' be. so since we still love eachother so much and plan on getting back together later, is it ok for us to do..those things (we'll be safe) this summer???? thank you i'll rate high for good answers!!! (link)
if you're ready for something like that with this guy, and you both honestly love ecahother, i'd say it's okay. only do it if you want to and if you have feelings for him. don't do something that you'll regret.


My family and I own, 3 dogs. None of them have ever bothered this woman, nor her animals. Our past dogs might have, but not these.

A few minutes ago I herd someone shooting. So I walked out on porch and sure enough there she was aiming at our dogs or at least trying to scare them away. This has happened numerous times and since we live in a very rural area, there is no animal control. Nor, do the police care.

I went back in the house and told my parents. After that I walked back out on the porch and herd her say, "Next time you come in my yard, you'll be a dead dog!!". I mean, this woman is in her 70's. She has about two dozen cats and god knows that our dogs would NEVER bother them.

The last real problem we had out of her (or at least suspected her) was 4 of our dogs died. They were antifreeze poisoned and we strongly believed and still believe that it was her. This is beginning to be a problem and I, myself, can't solve it. Does anyone have any suggestions? It would be much appreciated.

Also- The gun she was shooting with was not a BB-gun. (link)
that's horrible. and i'm really, really sorry. but like the other person who responded said, the police might care about the woman's mental health if they don't care about your dogs.


What are some really good quotes?? Thanks a bunch! (link)
"our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure" sort of cheesy, but i really like that quote. not sure who it's by.


ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one? (link)
my answer is probably incredibly lame, and not what you're looking for either... but, what about your friends' boyfriends? they probably have friends. have your friends set you up on a blind date with some of them or something. the only thing i can really think of is having people that you trust set you up with someone, and see if it works out.


Recently, the guy that I really liked told me that he felt the same way too. Right now we are getting to know each other by talking to each other. He keeps telling my friend all of this negative stuff and saying what doesn't like about me. He said that he doesn't like the fact that I'm too serious, I'm bad at giving advice, I have a low self esteem, no confidence, and I don't enjoy drinking or partying. That makes me feel like I have to change everything myself so he'll like me. so I'm really confused and I don't know what to do. (link)
do not change yourself fo ranybody. it's something you hear over, and over again, but honestly, do not. if he doesn't like you for who you are, he is NOT, i repeat NOT, worth your time. find somebody who the real you can get along with. he might just be insecure, and be nitpicking, incase you find negative things about him.


Alright there's this guy in my French class (he was in a few of my classes last year too). He;s kinda popular and well, I don't know what I am. I'm not exactly unpopular or popular. Like I have alot of friends and I get along with alot of people, but I'm not like a prep. Well, anyway. Theguy is kinda hot, but sorta like a jerk sometimes. He'll boss this one kid around and tell him what to do and he does it. And sometimes I can't help but laugh because of the idiocy of it. And then he (the guy I was talking about)will like catch my eye and smile. He also acts like an ego-maniac when he knows it gets on my nerves. It's like he's trying to get attention or something. I usually just ignore him (we sit at the same table).

I don't necessarily think he likes me, but I don't know what it is. It's not like I did anything to annoy him, so there's no reason for him to try and annoy me to get back at me or anything. If you have any idea of why he does it or how to get him to STOP please tell me. (link)
he might like you, he may not. there's also the psossibility that he does, and you're just over-looking the situation. try to become closer with him, figure him out. this probably isn't a very informative answer, i'm sorry. but i'm very sleepy. anyways, if he catches your eye and smiles when you laugh at his jokes, something must be going through his head.




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