Member Since: September 22, 2007 Answers: 25 Last Update: September 25, 2007 Visitors: 1817
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well theres this kidd hes 16 &hes a jr in highschool nd im 15 nd a freshmann i met him because he came into my class and my friend needed help on her math homework so he helped her then that day i told him to sit with us at lunch tomororow and he did he sat next to me then my other friend didnt want to be alone on that side of the table so he moved over there like he sees me in the hall he says hiiii i say it back then he somehow knows my schudulee like he came into my class today and yesterday and one day he sat down and helped my friend again on work because she didnt knwo what she was doin like he sorta explained it then he was talkin to me a lil then todayy he came in again sat on a chair i looked at him and he looked up then he moved near us again and when i was about to leave class he was standing up and i stared him in the eyes and he stared back for like 10-20secs please helpp !!!!
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it sounds to me like this could possibly be a crush.. However, you dont want to act upon it too soon since it just began. Sometimes if you confront people about them likeing you it can make them uneasy if all they were trying to do was be your friend- then you could possibly lose a great friendship. I would suggest maybe getting a group of kids together and go to dinner or the movies (something laid back and causual). I want to say that it does sound like he likes you but since i dont know him and his personality- he could just be out to make some new friends. Talk to him a little more and get to know him better, and if he still seems interested (which he seems now), and your willing- hang out with him and see what happens. It could either lead to something or not, but there will be PLENTY of boys in and out of your life.. Hope it helped =]
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This guy and i have liked eachother for like 9 months now. He is getting mad at me because i won't go out with him but i dont want to because of how he ahs treated his other gfs and he isnt treating me too well right now. Well I found out today he kind of likes this other girl and I am so upset! But then i am so sick of everything he is doing to me(like things like this) and it's like i don't even know if i like him. I almost don't want to. I still have feelings for him and I want him. What should I do? (link)
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face it.. every girl loves being liked, even if it is by the creepy guy in the back of your math class (well, maybe not to that extreme). Its nice knowing that somebody thinks about you and takes time out to notice you. Sounds to me like you are upset because you expect him to wait for you forever, and things arent like that. Guys are human and if we cant get what we want, we find an alternative. Dont base anything off of how he treats his other girlfriends though because your not like his other girlfriends, your you. Give him a chance, if your getting jealous over this then there is some feelings there. You'll probably end up regretting it if you dont give him a chance. Who knows.. he could be the one! Whats the worst that can happen? You find out he is a dick? Move on then, im sure your young and there will be plenty boys that will be in and out of your life. Hope i helped.. :)
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15/f Well, I'm a very shy girl. I'm not high on confidence. And I wouldn't consider myself the ugliest thing alive (lol) Generally, people tell me I'm good-looking. (Whatever XD). But yeah. I like this guy. He sits like across from me. I barely know him, but I know his name. And I think he's really cute. He knows my name, I think. But we never even talked. How can I like...you know...make this "work out"? lol..=/ unless it's impossible. Should I like try flirting? X_X (link)
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Its always hard "making the move" to talk to someone new, trust me. Im in college now and making new friends or even talking to people is hard- but i know having feelings for someone can make it seem nearly impossible. I make friends by bringing up something that happened in class- maybe something funny, or maybe you dont understand something. Im not saying go be a ditz around him, but if you dont understand something the teacher is explaining its a perfect oppurtunity to ask him if he knows whats going on. If he doesnt talk back the first time, dont give up. He could just be shy. Just be yourself and if he doesnt appreciate that, so be it.. your 15 and there are going to be SO many boys moving in and out of your life. Hope I helped.. :)
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basically i'm trying to lose some pounds but i keep not doing it i mean i really want to lose a few pounds but i jsut cant seem to do it and i keep thinking about just puking after every meal i eat and what not and i know i shouldnt do that and it's bad but i still keeping thinking about it and i tried it once but i couldnt go through with it what am i supposed to do and dont tell me to talk to somebody i just want advice ok (link)
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Losing weight is extremely hard for some people to do, but puking is deffinately the coward's way out. have you tried a healthy diet or some excersize? It sounds to me that you aren't that unhappy with yourself because you arent taking steps to fix it. Take it slow, and start out with walking for about a half an hour a day, then build up to running or ab work. Put yourself on a healthy diet and things will then fall into place. You cant expect things to just come easily and the weight to just fall off, you need to work for it. If you want it bad enough you will take the necessary steps to make yourself feel better. Hope it helped... :)
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okay so i just lost my virginity two days ago and i felt so useless...he was alot more experianed then me and it was terrible. I had to idea how to blow him or ride him or massage him. And when he was ontop of me he wasn't going fast enough cuz the thought i was sensitive.. I feel weird like moaning his name and saying faster or harder or whatever. Oh and when he did go harder i guess i made a weird face or something....how do u be more sexy??? (link)
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First times are always some awkward especially if you are losing it to somebody that has already had sex. You can't be sexy with anybody unless you are comfortable and the impression I am getting from this is that you weren't comfortable. It sounds like it was an "in the moment thing" and thats exactly how I lost mine as well. I want to say practice makes perfect but I dont want you going out and screwing every guy just to make yourself more "Sexy". Wait until you are with someone and take it slow, you will learn certain things that will either make you comfortable or not. Comfort is the number one thing that leads to you being "Sexy"... so find a guy that you can be yourself in front of, and you will be suprised of how "sexy" you can be later on. Hope it helped... :)
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