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Can someone tell me what girls wear under these so that noone seees underneath and what colour? (say under wear or thong, and what colour underneath so noone will notice and colour of bra, I hope you'll say under wear because i've never wore a thong before..)

under a white skirt (i wore white underwear underneath yet people could still see it..

colour of bra for a dress

a white shirt

and sweat pants! people always either can see the colour of underwear im wearing or see the marks but if i wear a thong then they'd prob still see arg i need to excercise!

and i think that's it thanks! (link)
As I answered in the question above yours, my wife had this problem too a couple of years ago and it really bothered me. During the summer she would always wear this thin, white, long skirt and you could always see her panties. And white panties were showing through more than any other color. I caught a lot of men staring at her bottom too when she walked. So I finally went out with her and we picked out some flesh colored, silk panties which are hardly noticable now. It looks like she's wearing nothing underneath, but I'd rather have THAT than drawing attention to her bottom by wearing panties guys can see easily.
Hope this helps.


I haven't worn skirts in years so I don't know what kind of shirt and shoes I'm supposed to wear with them (their both long skirts)

I have a white thin material one (can you suggest colour of underwear i should wear with that too? I'm scared people might see it since it's a really thin material)

and a long jean skirt

thanks so much! (link)
My wife had this problem too a couple of years ago and it really bothered me. During the summer she would always wear this thin, white, long skirt and you could always see her panties. I caught a lot of men staring at her bottom too when she walked. So I finally went out with her and we picked out some flesh colored, silk panties which are hardly noticable now. It looks like she's wearing nothing underneath, but I'd rather have THAT than drawing attention to her bottom by wearing panties guys can see easily.
Hope this helps.


we are watching hotel rwanda in history class. i dont know why but it just hits me so hard, i always feel so depressed when i'm watching it. then, i walk out of history class to go to my locker and i think of how stupid it is to worry about the smallest stuff, and how little certain things matter and how lucky we are. i dont know why it makes me feel this way because i'll look around the class room and there will be people doing other work or not paying attention, and i dont know how they can do that. anyone have any insight hahaa? (link)
The answer is simple...you're a sensitive person....you get it! Don't feel bad about that, feel bad for the kids in your class that DON'T get it. I'm so happy to hear that you can return to your locker after watching it, overhear things that other students are talking about and be able to put things into perspective. There are so many things in our culture today that are nothing but distractions and a waste of time. Be thankful that you're undestanding them early, and don't listen to anyone who criticizes you for it.
Way to go!!


ok. i'm 14/f. and i really really really need a new phone. i've had my phone for about 2 1/2 years and its soooo old and ugly. it works fine, but its just the ugliest thing in the world. soo, this question is pretty much for girls, lol, do you think this phone is kinda cute?? http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/store/controller?item=phoneFirst&action=viewPhoneDetail&selectedPhoneId=2666&changingCompletedOrder= cause i like it, but idk if it looks girlyish. because i have to get one with a 2 year contract and the phone has to be free. or is this one any cuter?? http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/store/controller?item=phoneFirst&action=viewPhoneDetail&selectedPhoneId=2425&changingCompletedOrder= just tell me what ya think of em'. thank ya much!! (link)
Wow! I wish I had that little to worry about.


Info: Ok I am 23 and he is 19. We are both artists and musicians. I am black and he is white. Question: I had a crush on this guy at work. Turns out he had a crush on me too. He asked me to date him exclusively. I said yes and we did. He told his family that we were going to be dating and they flipped out because 1/2 of them are racist. We talked about it and decided to work through it. We didn't have sex but we did make out and mess around some, shared some private goals and beliefs etc. Then he calls me after we spend the night together, the day he was supposed to talk to his family and work something out, and says that he isn't as interested as he thought he was. He says we should be friends, but then he stops calling and talking and everything. Then I hear that he was using me to get this chick at work jealous. But he doesn't seem like a malicious person like that, and I think he loves his family too much to take them through that for nothing.He also cried on my shoulder and wrote a song dude! About our relationship and situation. What do you think? What is going on? (link)
Hi,

I am a musician too, and I know what it's like to be around people who are racist, biased, stuck-up, and in-your-face because we're different. But you know what.....We're artists!!! We have free thinking minds and don't give a crap about all the bullshit that most people live their lives. I am 28 and white and I dated a black girl a few years back. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. But no one couldn't understand why me, a properly raised, white, Italian-catholic boy would do anything so stupid. I just wanted to look at them and tell them all to fuck-off!
You just do what YOU think is right for YOU hun, and if this 19 year old is too young to make up his own mind and not be influenced by his family, keep looking.....DON'T GIVE UP!! There is someone who will see you for who you truly are....a woman, a musician, and a beautiful person.

gianni




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