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My name is Brew I'm a stay at home mother of a wonderful boy. I. My extra time I like to read but I almost never have time. I'm engaged and plan on getting marries next year. I try not to judge but can't help it sometimes I'm only human and I like to give second chances. I give my opinion when and when I'm not asked. I do tend to be right. I'm a sore loser but a good winner. I don't compete at all. Ill try to help as much as possible but I am honest and if you want good advice I need to know the whole problem even the dirty laundry part. Hope to help. :)

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i'm 14/f around 5,0.
is 100lbs good as far as weight?
i count calories ( i try)
i try to excercise as much as i can.
is this too much ? -thanks

lol I am 15/f 4"9 and 3/4 and i am 105 lol your normal dont worrie about all that stuff you will be fine....and if our 14 you really should be out hanging with friends and worrin about everyhitng but your weight
love always funsize

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13/f
8th grade

ok so my friend Katie has been going out with this guy drew. I honestly think that the relationship is a mistake. he likes me, he lies to katie, he used her, this is their 3rd time going out, he called me a bit**, etc. ect. He is not a good boyfriend. But this is her longest relationship so she thinks that she loves him. but she says that she is not happy ( i wouldn't be either) but she refuses to break up with him. So i cant be her friend if she is going to go out with someone who treats me like crap. but i am afraid that she will choose her boyfriend over me and then they will break up and she will have no one... what should i do? and please dont say talk to her because i have already done so. any ideas?

Forgt trying to talk to her talk to him tell him that your not going to sit around and take his crap. if he says anyitng ingnor it he will hate it. The only thing you can do really is ignore him and be there for her when she needs you. A guy shouldnt be worht losing a friendship over. Do what you think is right if you dont want to kill the friend ship dont just sit it out
sorry my best advice..
love always funsize

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17/F This girl and I were best friends a few years back, but I guess that means nothing now because she is being rude to such an extreme. Trust me, I've done nothing to deserve this kind of treatment...knowing that, I can't figure out how to handle the situation. I want to be the bigger person...
She is not even worth trying to explain my feelings to. Point is: she's just trying to impress people, so she'll continue to put me down for attention from her peers. How do I keep this from getting me down?

Just ignore her...
It will bug and she will soon enough move onto another person
sorry to hear about your frinedship
hope i help
Love always Funsize

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i like guys. im definitely attracted to guys, not just looks but everything, how they feel smell, hold you, whatever, but then i hang out with this one friend(girl), i question my feelings for girls. she gets near me and i get that same tingling sensation.then after i have those thoughts about her, i wonder if i like girls in general... cause i look at others like that too.
i dont know if im bi or gay or whatever, or is its just a girl crush or a phase, gimmmie alittle insight

well most likly its a stage evergirl gose through it at some point in thier life been there.. You might acculy be falling for this girl and your bst bet would be to talk toher about your feelings. If she feels the same think about dateing it would be your best bet on knowing if you bi or not. And dont be worried about it if you are.. its easier to tell you self you are and get over it
love always Funsize

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ok so i had sex for the first time and bled i no thats normal now how long before it stops hurting ? like will it hurt if i have sex a second time?

Female

Well I know how it feels and It will hurt and it will bleed...It could bleed untill you cherry is fully poped and as for when it will stop hurting the first few ties will hurt but the more you do it (not saying go out and have sex so it wont hurt) the less it will hurt in time. Not trying to be gross but your hips might have to move and you hole streched....
Love always Funsize

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I know because Im Fourteen Im not saposed to have sex, and I dont Im still 100% virgin but everyone seems to be doing it, and its weird because I stayed back and there all younger then me and not virgins.. when is the average of losing it and Ive been offered.. a couple times with some VERY hot guys but I said no which Im very proud of but because i keep saying now am I not interested in guys?

heck no....I am 15 just turned 15 infact and I said no to many of guy untill my 15th birthday and a few days short of my 4 month aniversary...
what i mean it i waited untill i was ready and it was with the guy i really loved thats all your doing...
dont worrie i did the same thing wondering if i lliked girls or guys but you could like both
most likly your mind is just waiting and you dont relize it ^_^ its ok

and dont have sex to find out if you like a guy or a girl do it when you ready and when it time for you

love always funsize

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