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in your opinion, what do you think the best sex position is?? (link)
i wouldnt knowwww ive NEVER HAD SEXXXX. but i heard doggys best for the girl. hmmmmmmmmn ;P


how far u went wit a guy? (link)
everything but all the way


Does size matter?? (link)
yessss


would u ever date a black guy? (link)
uhmm i don't think so.. but ya never know.


where did u get that bikini that was white with the red on it?? u were wearing it with lights around u (link)
i got it a pacsun last summer. i dont think they have it any more tho. but u can find a really cute one there


thats exactly wut i was thinkin. if she ditched someone for me, shed probly ditch me for someone. so ive got no idea what i should do. she flirts with me ALOT. thanks jackie. (link)
no problem


Here's the deal. The girl I was talkin about earlier flirts alot w/ me. i dunno.... i just cant seem to push her aside and keep back. and yeah, i also thought "if she would ditch someone for me, shed probably ditch me for someone." you never cease to amaze me with how similar you think. i love that cause i can relate to you much better because of it. (link)
i wish i could tell you what to do but honestly idk. she could ditch you, but i mean theres a chance that she won't too. idk it's hard to say when you don't know the girl and dk how she is usually. sorry but this is all i can do for now =\


i'm going out with this guy, and i really like him and he's really cute and stuff but he's waaaayyyy to into me. he ALWAYS wants to go to the movies ALWAYS wants to hangout he writes songs about me and puts them in my profile..this might sound really sweet but to me its reallyyyy annoying!! im not sure if i wanna break up with him, but if i do i dont wanna make him feel bad.. what should i do? (link)
haha wow flash back to a guy i dated. same situation. i broke it off with him but there were oher factors too but that was a major one. it's kinda hard not to make a breakup hurt someone if its not mutual. he was hurt and we stopped talkin for a while but we're cool now. try to talk to him, and be like i really like you and you like me buuuuut we don't need to be with each other ever freakin second haha. if u feel like talkin to him won't help fix the problem then maybe that's the only way to go right now.


Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...

Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.

He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!

I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...

Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
ahh that sucks. guys are dumb at times. haha i've kicked my ex-boyfriends ASS at volleyball. and i've beaten a few of my guy friends when i was playin bball with them. they're cool with it, and your boyfriend should be cool with u winning too. you're good at things and so is he.


hey...i think ur hot, am i crazy?

p.s....try and figure out who this is! HAH!! (link)
haha thanks and idk who it is


why are you a toxic whore? lol.. not the question. theres a girl a few gurls i like, one imparticular. shes a big flirt and does all kindsa things that lead me and her friends to believe she likes me. ive asked her before and shes said she doesnt like me more than a friend, yet she tells other friends that if id asked her out, she woulda dumped her past b/f (though i wouldnt feel right doin that to the poor guy). there are girls i like as much as her, but i find myself thinkin of her alot. what should i do about her? (link)
haha i'm a toxic whore bcuz i wanna be. but about this chick...i know a lot of girls like that. they lead you on and then they're like nah i never liked you in the firt place. uhmmm honestly if she's willing to dump her boyfriend to go out with you what makes you think she wont do the same to you with some other guy? i dont wanna discourage you or anything. but if there are girls you like just as much as her that aren't like that, then try focusing on one of them for a while. and if you still can't stop thinking about this chick, then go for it dude.


i liek this guy...but he's like...so innocent. and oblivious to things. and im trying to get him to do stuff w/ me w. like group friends...bc i def. kno that he might not iffffffff his friends arent there. i mean, he may. but i doubt it bc idk him THAT well but im gettin to kno him. LMAO and i KNOWWWW you know who this is lol. I love you Jackie! (link)
haha yah i do. uhmm basically if u think that he's so out of it when he's alone with you then def try to get him to do group stuff so he can get to kno u better. then maybe he'll loosen up a little bit and have some fun :) it always worked for me


Some s say I'm a good guy, and good looking, but none like me. Whats wrong with me? How can I find a to like me? (link)
hmmm. all i can tell you is that just be patient. i mean i've been single for like 6 months and theres nothing wrong with me. it'll come along. but meanwhile u hafta go look for it. it doesnt always fall in your lap


theres this boy i like, but im not sure if he likes me back. were good friends and weve kinda hooked up before but im still not sure. he always acts so buddy-buddy with me. how could i get to notice me as more than just a friend?

--CONfUSEd... (link)
the truth is, most guys atlest ONCE have pictured their good friends as more than jsut a friend. they're curious too you know. so i don't doubt he hasnt thought of u that way. dont go right out n say it but just be more open with your intentions. invite him to do stuff with you one on one. he should get the peoint eventually. lol


when will someone good come along? lol (link)
eventually. trust me, you'll find someone and then you'll realize why it never worked out before. very dumb sounding i kno but i think it's true. don't worry too much about it.




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