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Q: this is really random but when did the razor phones start coming out?

a long time ago about 2 years ago.
The newest phone is from cingular and its silver and it has a camera and the phone is so small you should look it up its called a Pantech C300
here is the website

http://onlinestorez.cingular.com/cell-phone-service/cell-phones/cell-phones.jsp?RFlow=A&WT.svl=pbt&zip=89117&q_deviceId=cdsku9870157&WT.svl=mod

Q: Hey my name is Rachel and my bofriend jesse and i are both 17 years old and the problem is that we don't have any classes together and my mom won't let me see him after school i've talked to her about it I talk to him on the phone quite alot and the only time I ever see him is about 15 minutes at breakfast before the bell rings at school what should I do?

Just have you mom sit down and tell her your serious about this guy and maybe go to the office at your school and see if you can get your classes switched or your lunch switched

Q: I just bought SunSilk, Hydra TLC Shampoo/Conditioner. Can anyone *whose actually used it* please let me know if it's good.

I have wavy hair, medium length. Its rather damaged and dried out from straightning it, so should I expect some good results from this?

im not sure about that but you should probably get a haircut or like a trim to cut of your damage hair that will make it look way more healthier

Here are some hints to help your damaged dry hair:
1) Use a thermal protector when using heat. See "thermal protectors
2) Do not blow dry the hair completely dry. Leave a little moisture in.
3) Use a conditioner with U.V. protectors built in.
4) Never brush wet or damp hair. Use a wide toothed comb.
5) On dry hair use a boars hair brush and start at the ends and work up.
6) Clarify your hair after you swim.
7) Blow dry on the "cool" setting
8) Eat protein rich foods (chicken, fish, nuts) - Eat foods rich in essential fatty acids (not from animal sources [they contain cholesterol]-only from botanical sources) -

Q: 16 female-

but ok this might be kind of long but bare with me..last night two of my friends and me went to our friend TJ's house because it was his 15th birthday and his cousin david thats my age was over there and his girlfriend and this other kid jake. well at like 1030 last night david takes my phone and starts calling people and called my good friend joe. i couldnt do anything about because i didnt even know he was talking to joe or even called him until later and he told joe that i wasnt doing so good and i was getting naked and stuff even though i WASNT. but then today i get on AIM and my friend joe i/m me and is like hey blah blah and then he is like so what happened last night missy and im like ohmygosh did someone call you from my phone and hes like yeah and they were like you werent doing so good and you were like naked and all this stuff. and im like im so sorry i didnt even know he was doing that! and then he's like yeah because you were proably f'in drunk or something and im like i swear to god i wasnt! and im like what time did he call and hes like 1030..remember when you were fucking some dude? and i was like do you really think i did anything last night and he was like i dont know you tell me and im like i know i didnt do anything but i want to know if you believe me and he was like yea i beleive you! the only thing i didnt tell you was that i am kinda crushing on joe but he has a girlfriend but we flirt like crazy still! joe doesnt know at all that i like him but do you think he was saying all this stuff because he was jealous that i might of done something with a guy or because he was worried about me or just because he was mad about the whole thing? i want your opinion on this whole thing =) by the way joe knows im not a slut ive never had a boyfriend and the farthest ive gone is making out!

you have to ideas:
1.you can either tell joe you like him more than a friend.
2.or you can get him a bit jelouse and play with his mind and say like.....yea this kids been asking me out or like.....im going to a party or something play with his mind and he might say dont or i like you and then you can take it from there

Q: Can someone help me get they lyrics to the new Akon Feat. Snoop dogg song.."Windin and Grindin"?
i love that song

sorry i couldnt find it maybe you should make sure thats what its called and then write me back

Q: Ok, i want a new screen name but i dont have ANY ideas. i was just wondering if any of you have some. Well i'm 17/f my name is Kristen. And I'm into dance. Thanks a bunch!!

here are some ides:
1.XxXxKristenXxXx
2.XoXokristenXoXo
3.XXXXkristenOOOO
4.xoxoKrIsTeNxoxo
5.dancequeen
6.hiphopkristenpop
7.gilmorekristen
8.tapgirl
9.xoxoxtapgirlxoxox

Q: I do surveys on myspace. & One question was Be honest do you play "the game" while dating. My question is what exactly is "the game" ? Thanks in advance

its just a guy thing to worry you they try to mess with you!!!Dont worry about it!!!

Q: I have this friend. well i think he's my friend.
he told me that guys at school don't like,like me
because they think i'm gay. or like girls.
what the hell. am i gonna do.
do i have to be mean to get them to like me.
cause i'm not that desperaite and i'm not gonna
make out in public unless it's someone i really like. cause just cause i don't worship the ground
they walk on.and i don't date assholes.
just because i would rather be just friends with the nice guys.i do like some of the nice guys
but i be there friends than nothing at all.
i don't date ass's I'm not gay. what should i do?

you need to come flatout and inform the boys look im not gay!!!!!!!!!!
and if they dont belive you just tell them they dont got no life if there gonna belive some stupid lie!!!!!!!!

Q: I have this friend who gets mad really easily, but you can't tell her anything. She is so untrustworthy. If she thinks you like a guy then she'll claim she's in love with them and i'm an awful friend if i try for them. She gets jelous easily also. I can't stand her anymore, but I have all my classes with her and all my friends are friends with her...:( so what should I do? She is driving me crazy. Please help. Thanks!

Okay look forget her go for what you want!!
everyones says boys will come and go but u will always need a friend!!
forget that go for the boy because shes not a true friend if she lies to you and wont let u date him!!!

Q: How can you tell if a guy is interested? What if you are shy and don't like to make the first move? Also what do guys like? Like what do they look for in girls? Lol. Thanks bunches!~!~!

Whatever you do dont tell anyone you like him espically his guyfriends because they will really tell him that you like him!!!
Guys like girls who arent big mouths and who dont lie
be honest with him

Q: ok so i know this may sound kinda weird, but does anyone knows a website that i could go to learn/improve my singing? im not the best singer, but if i can just get a few tips then i could get better. and if not a site then does anyone know singing, and some tips to improve singing..etc? im also not looking to get a singing instructer. i just want to get better at singing and improve my voice.

thanks.

Drink lots of water
and have the shower vibrate on you neck and sing while doing that
and open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in your stomach and have great posture

Q: Well, I really do need advice. This has been something that's been bothering me for so long.

I have a friend that is a boy, named David. I really really like him, you see. I asked him if I had any chance at all and he said 'sorry, no.' After this I was devastated but kept him as a good friend.

Lately it's so confusing as to whether he wants to be my friend or not! He is really mean at some points, and then he's really really nice. He even asked me to visit him at work, and go to his beach house with my friend, Molly.

Sometimes I like to think maybe I have a chance with him, and my friend insists that things can change. But I'm not even sure if he's my friend!

Help? Is he my friend or a soon to be something more?

P.S. We are both 14 years old.