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My friend Amber and i have a crush on the same guy. I love Amber to death and everything but i really like this guy. Amber and him compeltely flirt and i dont want to tell her i like him because i wouldn't be able to stand having her mad at me. I dont want me liking her to influence her to not go out with him because im all for their happiness together. People say he's just a big flirt get over him but when i talk to him i get happy inside. In chorus he actually acknoledged my piano playing which no one else does. He ran up to me and started singing with me. I just dont know what to do.

me and my best friend are like that we like the same guys but we both agree to not go out with them because it wouldnt be fair really and i now u dont want your friend to get mad at you so just nicely talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you dont want her to be upset with you over a boy adn i think both of you should forget about him

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i'm 17, and i like this guy who is 27. usually i like guys who are within my age range.. but i suppose you can't help who you fall for. he's very quiet and seems very lonely.. hes doing law so he spends a lot of time studying and doesn't go out too much. he always jumps at the opportunity to speak to me when we see each other. well, i'm not sure what to do about this. 17 is legal for consent and all where i live (so its not a legality thing) but i guess it does sound kinda bad that hes 10 years older than me. i'm wondering whether i should just try and forget about him or whether i should try for this. i don't really care about age, but he might feel differently, and society always views these kind of things as unacceptable. so just curious what everyone thinks of the age gap, and whether it's worth pursuing or not.....?

thanks.

i had this problem aswell but i couldnt go out wiht him because it was illegal but in your case seeing as its not i think you should give it a shot try speaking with him and see maybe he likes you aswell adn i dont think age matters love is love and that doesnt change

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so a little while ago was rapped..and i missed my period..im with the most amazing guy and if i tell him i know hes going to think im crazy (it was his best friend..who rapped me) and i dont know how to tell him..and i think im pregnat.my parents will kill me because they wont think i was rapped they'll think its an excuse BUT IM NOT LIEING!.but i cant be..im only 14..just turned 14 (the day i was rapped was my 14th bday..Jan 27th)

firstly u hav GOT to tell your parents no matter what tell them you did get graped but before that go take a test and see if you are pregnant after you tell your parents you tell your boy friend what his friend done to you he will NOT think your crazy if he loves you

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first of all sorry this is so long!!!

i really like boys to answer this cause they know how other boys are thinking cause boys are a soo weird sometimes :-)

well i really really like this guy and uhm lets call him D :-) so i am a new kid in this school (i kinda really hate) but never mind that! uhm so i really often looked at D but not because i liked him or something just because he was interesting and always so funny and hyper so i think he took it like she loves me or something! and then once he talked to me and well then i started to like him but i was really shocked and answered weird when he asked me something and he was like: why are you so mean to me? so than he asked me if we should be friends or something and then he got interrupted and than my busstop (this whole conversation was on the bus :-) came so i never answered that question! then i kinda ignored him even if i loved him and then he told me he loves me and i was so shocked i was like: uhm 2 bad! or something AAHH i felt really bad than so i called him about 3 weeks later because im just shy with boys! and i said im sorry and all he said was like: uhuh or yeah and since than he always ignored me and sometimes he looks at me but only when im not looking (but hes not smyling or anything)and i dont know what to do anymore! i wanna talk to him but im scared that he wont answer again and everything! and by the way does he still like me? what is he thinking? cause i know he really loved me once you could see it the way he smiled at me....... and is he like over me now or something? hes always ignoring me and that hurts! but i really love him! what is he thinking????

firtly you shouldnt have replied by saying to bad like you did when he said he loved you if you loved him you should have said i think the best thing to do is to talk to him start up a conversation tell him you think hes avoiding you and then tell him what you said was a mistake and that your just shy and you love him a lot!!

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i dont want this to sound really pathetic but i dont have any friends! at the start of this year i went off to college without all my old mates and now they dont talk to me and i havent made any new ones.. i have tried to make new friends but it hasnt worked. im not very confident and i am really shy, has anyone got any tips on how to 'fit in' a bit more and make new friends? thanks x

its not about fitting in i think you should smile at people and wait maybe someone else will come and talk to you or maybe just find someone you think you would get along with and start of by sayin hi

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Hello. Well my boyfriend dumped me, we went out for 3 months. And he stares at me in class and i try not to give him the satisfaction of glaring back at him..But i still love him..Last week my friend was talking to him and shes like "Well everyone has a girlfriend except you..so maybe you and Ana..." (Im Ana) and before she could finish he straight away goes "No" and then she goes "But.." and hes like "NO". And my friend thinks that he still likes me but is too ashamed to tell anyone..i need help because ive been really sad lately. I cant ask him straight up if he likes me or not because im scared and i dont want to face embarrasment.
Thanks, Ana

i really advise you to go up to him when hes alone and so are you and ask how hes been and calmly ask him why he left you and what went wrong and ask him if he still has any feeling for you or not and tell him to be honest and straight forward

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