Ok, I have a lot of guy friends so if you need friendship with guy help I can easily do that. Sorry but Im not really into the sex topic since im at a young age so I cant really give good advice. Yes I do ask for advice for what im giving advice but thats because its...... I dunno has to do with one main guy and everyones reaction to him. But if you need tips for getting guy friends ask me. I only have tons of girl friends and about 17 guy friends.
I can help with popularity questions too. But for all you people facinated with this topic popularity actually isnt the greatest thing ever and can sometimes be very upsetting.
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who sings this????: fifteen there's still time for you, time to......
theres never a wish better than this when youve ony got a hundred years to live
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haha im positive this song is not emo by the way. Ive heard it on my dad's radio station. Its by a band called "Five For Fighting" and the song is "100 Years" these are the lyrics lol:
I'm 15 for a moment
Caught in between 10 and 20
And I'm just dreaming
Counting the ways to where you are
I'm 22 for a moment
She feels better than ever
And we're on fire
Making our way back from Mars
15 there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to lose
15, there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live
I'm 33 for a moment
Still the man, but you see I'm a they
A kid on the way
A family on my mind
I'm 45 for a moment
The sea is high
And I'm heading into a crisis
Chasing the years of my life
15 there's still time for you
Time to buy, Time to lose yourself
Within a morning star
15 I'm all right with you
15, there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live
Half time goes by
Suddenly you’re wise
Another blink of an eye
67 is gone
The sun is getting high
We're moving on...
I'm 99 for a moment
Dying for just another moment
And I'm just dreaming
Counting the ways to where you are
15 there's still time for you
22 I feel her too
33 you’re on your way
Every day's a new day...
15 there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to choose
Hey 15, there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live
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14/f, and i get REALLY scared, and im not good with blood.
okay well let me start out with, i have only seen saw. i havent seen the other 2. i agreed with my boyfriend that i would watch the second 2 with him. so can somebody tell me all the torture situations in the last two movies, and also tell me if they live, and on a scale of 1-10 how gory.
sorry thats kinda alot to ask for. but none of my friends have seen it. and he wont tell me.
and i get nausious (SP?) over blood and stuff, but idont know. help please. thank you. (link)
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I have not seen saw 2 but saw 3 is very gory in my opinion. Umm im warning you now its not very pretty but u want the situations so here:
One man pulls chains out of his skin and he ends up having his guts pulled apart.
umm i cant remember much at the beggining but there are 3 challenges.
A naked girl gets sprayed with water and completely frozen.
A judge gets pig guts sprayed on him until he almost dies.
A guys head, feet and arms get completely twisted around.
A girl also performs surgery. It is very gory but at least your bf will be there to keep you company. Have fun and hope I helped
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Can someone tell me what type of dress most girls wore on their grade 8 grad?
http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewInCat.asp?CatID=113
Like the green one in the second row, or someone simple, or something cute but simple but special material like the two poka dotted ones on the 2nd row?
Because Everyone last year wore like the green one but I was wondering if it's ok to wear like the poka dotted ones, I don't want to be dresing disrespectful or anything.
And what style did most girls have their hair? Leave it normal, striahgt down, Curled down, or tied in a half pony tail and curled?
Oh and I'm taking my friend too so what dress would look good on an asian? (link)
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I like the green dress. I think it should be a bit more formal then the polka dotted ones but dont make it overly formal. It shouldnt matter wether or not your friend is asian. Race has absolutely no impact on how you look in a dress. (Im asian so i find that slightly insulting...no offence)I think you should do your hair special. Not how you regulary have it. I hope I helped
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Is it possible to get pregnant through clothes? i dont just mean underwear, but through our underdwear, jeans, and his pants. my period wont come also, and im really nervous. but thats as far as he and i have gone. please answer men asap because im terrified.
18/f (link)
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it is not possible to pregnant through your cloths the guy has to like enter your vagina because the spearn has to go into you so you can get pregnant but the only way you can get pregnant when his cloths and ur cloths are off because spearm only stays alive for two hours but u have to be near eachother. Clothes would create a barrier.
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Hey. I want to make my own website using something such as freewebs.com but the problem is that I don't want everyone to be able to see it. I just want to have a private website in which only people I allow to, can see my website. I don't think freewebs has this option so my question is, does anyone have any idea where I can find a website that allows you to do this option? Help is greatly appreciated, thanks so much in advance! =) (link)
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If you make a piczo website (www.piczo.com) they can let you password protect the page so only people who know the password can view it. Its very good. I hope I helped
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There is this guy who I'm pretty sure likes me,
but the thing is, I really LIKE him.
He makes me nervous and in a good way.
I usually know what to say, and am a veryopen person to people, but not him.
How can I show him I like him without flat out saying it? (link)
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Just flirt. Maybe even joke around sometimes and say your practically going out. Give him ideas amd flirt alot. He should get it. Always smile around him and be cheery and he should get the point. Good luck and I hope you two get together :)
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Anyone know any good songs that talk about letting go of someone you love but you know doesnt love you back. and regreting letting them go? Anything but heavy metal works. It's alright if it' really sad..preferably slow songs.
please & thnks :] (link)
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LMAO This is the exact question I asked well to start off here are all the songs people gave me:
Sending Postcards From A Plane Crash (Wish You Were Here)-fallout boy
until the day i die-story of the year
this broken heart-something corporate
screaming infedelities-dashboard confessional
car underwater-armor for sleep
youre so last summer-taking back sunday
nothing better-the postal service
seventy times 7-brand new
all hail the heartbreaker-the spill canvas
every man has a molly-say anything
she got away-say anything
last straw-jack's manneqinn
dog eared page-the matches
my eyes burn-matchbook romance
teasing to please-cute is what we aim for
stop crying your heart out-oasis
let me go- ashley parker angel
*without you- rosario dawson
*where is your heart- kelly clarkson
*when there was me and you- vanessa ann hudgens
*when it all falls apart- the veronicas
*very last moment in time- lindsay lohan
*underneath this smile- hilary duff
*true- ryan cabrera
*something i never had- lindsay lohan
*she will be loved- maroon 5
*perfectly- pixel perfect [movie]
*outside looking in- nick lachey
*notice me- pixel perfect [movie]
*if your gone- matchbox twenty
*if i aint got you- alicia keys.
Ok Have You Ever Loved Somebody - Jessica Simpson is reealy good it is perfect for the situation. :)
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I am absolutly serious about this. Is there any way what-so-ever, to get my period for the first time earlier? I just want to get it over with, and I want it to come. Only serious answers please, I really want/need this. (link)
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A couple months ago I really wanted my period but im telling you know the longer you go without it the better. It is messy and gets in the way alot. I dont think you can speed up the process and you really shouldn't want it. Trust me. You say you want to get it over with but once its there you have it every month for most of your life. Trust me there is very few pros to having your period. Be happy it hasn't come yet.
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my bff is a guy~wev ben bffs since 5th grade~my friend told him i liked him and he likes me to~im gothic but i hug every1 even him so his mom wont let him see me or even talk~she doesnt want girls huggin him and she hates anyone who wears black now~i dyed my hair brown~i had red streaks w/ black hair~i havent been wearin as much black clothes and i never even wore tht much black~so i still cant even see or talk to him~she hates everything about me now tht she found out i like him and he likes me~she never used to~now she hates my clothes hair music jewelery and my personality (link)
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ouch. well somehow you have to talk to his mom and tell her how you guys are best friends and how she shouldn't try to take him away from you. If your worried about it maybe ask your mom to talk to her for you. Mom's tend to agree and this way his mother is talking to someone she respects to some degree. If she still rejects you then maybe meet up with him privately like at school or the mall like you do. I really think you should try to get on his mother's good side. Maybe your bff can tell you something that you have in common with his mother for you to strike up a positive conversation. Then gradually go to the point of how you think its unfair for her to judge you and how you have been bff's for a very long time. If shes soo worried about hugging dont hug him infront of the woman. I hug everyone too but never a guy im not going out with infront of a parent. You really need to get this woman to listen!
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yeah like im grounded so i cant just go out and get a new pads and like underwear you know. so like that kinda stinks. my mom doesnt even believe me that im getting it and i had to talk her into getting me new pads. im so anyoyed. i really need some good pads and stuff. and liek how am i suppose to change it because like i cant just put pads in my pencil case. argh. this is really stresfful. and liek what if i get my underwear stained at school? i cant just wash it there =[. please any more advice. (link)
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ok. umm you have to get your mother to believe you. This way she can get them for you. I remember when I first got it how shy I was to go and buy some. She should believe you though. Dont put them in your pencil case. Do you have a purse or something? That is a good place to put them since if you went to the bathroom with your purse that would look perfectly normal cause all girls do it (to like change makeup or something). They should be safe there because NOONE should go through a girl's purse. If you dont use a purse find a spot to hide it in your schoolbag or maybe where an outfit with pockets so u can put the pads inside. Pockets that zip or button up are the best because that way theres no chance of people accidently seeing whats in your pocket! Maybe even hide an extra pair of underwear in your bag as well. You need to make sure that your pads work well before you go to school with them. Dont wear thongs to school while having your period because its very annoying and they is the scary possibility you would leak onto your jeans instead and people could see the blood. Dont panic if your underwear gets stained at school. Noone can tell. If you wear a pad the stains would only be light anyway and nothing noticible to anyone else. If your really worried maybe wear 2 pairs of underwear or thick pants. You can also get those flushable wipes to to make yourself feel clean. There are also flushable pads as well, I think they are called flushed away or something. In case you get a stain put a sweater in your locker so you could wrap it around your waist and it would look fashionable. It easy to hide pads in your purse, bag, or locker so try it. If you start smelling it at school then you know the pads been there too long and you need to have "a bathroom break". Dark underwear could help as well. You can also get this special type of underwear with a built in pad. But you have to wash it which is kind of digusting. Dont worry too much just act normal, noone can tell :)
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did u get your period yet.
&& if you did like help me out because i got mine yesturday and i didnt go to school. like its the grosseisttt thingg everr and like.. i have like a really heavy flow. its the most like disgusting thing ever. my mom got me these pads which are okay but liek.. i wish there was something better to use (the pads are carefree original). but the thing is like im down to like three or two pairs of underwear because all of them are getting stained. ITS SICK.
any advice.
and like what am i suppose to do at school??!! (link)
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ok yes ive had my period for almost a year now. I know what you mean cause I also have a heavy flow. Use heavy duty pads at first. Peroxide gets the blood out also wash them as soon as you see stains and itll come out very easy. Try using pads with the wings. When your ready try using tampons with a pantiliner. This way if for some reason the blood leaks a bit the pantiliner will catch it...saving your underwear. I know its sick. Just be normal at school. Noone can tell when your having your period. Its best to take a quick shower in the morning before school when your having your period as well. It makes you feel somewhat cleaner. Always bring extra pads/tampons! Hide it somwhere in your backpack or gymbag. If you have gym and your using pads (which since you just got it youll probally use) then before you go change into your gym clothes go to the bathroom and change your pad. This way you dont smell like the blood as much during gym. Just throw out the other pad by wrapping it in toilet paper. If it smells bad with the new pad before gym maybe somehow rinse yourself quickly "down there". The blood stops flowing as much when that area comes in contact with water. This can temporarily stop the heavy flow. I hope I helped! Any more questions?
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questions for you =]
a) how do i become popular- when your shy but i know i have it in me to be popular. like for other towns i know everyone- but for the school i go to i have like no friends
b)how do i become effortlessly popular
c) how do i get a bf quick
and yeah =] thanks (link)
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a.) Ok this is going to be long. Well being outgoing is key. This might seem very difficult but if you try harder it gets easier. Find something you and someone popular is interested in. This will make the conversation easier. Guys and Girls like someone they can talk to and joke around with. Dont get all shy and flustered when you try to talk to them that makes your "image" pretty low in their eyes. At first you'll probally get upset because most popular cliques are not accepting to other people expecially if you have a bad reputation. The easiest way is to find the kindest "popular" girl in the school and become friends with her. Talk to her alot and once you guys get close she'll introduce you to the other girls. Some will probally still dislike you for a time but if you talk to them and joke around and just be positive that dislike will dissapear. Also, you shouldnt be afraid to try new things. Umm try to find an interest that you share with them. At my school most of the girls that are popular are fantastic at sports. I was terrible. I found a sport, volleyball, and practiced it. When try outs came I practiced with them and they taught me and we got to know eachother. I made the team and that gave them a higher respect for me. What are these girls good at? Are they athletes or fashion lovers? For fashion lovers figure out what is "in" right now and try it. I buy ALL my clothes from Garage and am constantly complimented. You need to be more positive and think yourself pretty. The more you think up to yourself the better image you give off. This may take a while depending how bad you want it. I was the biggest freak in school two years ago. Everyone hated me. Then I met one of the girls and was introduced to the others. I learned fashion ways and got good at sports. I also became outgoing. Now im in the top 3 girls, know ALL the guys, and have alot of fun but in my opinion the best thing is IM NOT A BITCH. These girls may seem like bitches but they arent really. If you do climb the social ladder dont forget who you were because if you dont like it if they bug you or look down on you you shouldn't do the same. I am friends with every single person in my grade. Dont forget who you are interilly. If your smart stay smart but don't try to show off it same with if your not too bright. Remember to be outgoing because its key. Show you are pretty and fun by smiling alot, and wearing clothes that compliment you.
You really need to try to make friends it is key lol.
b.) hate to break it to you but it is practically impossible to be effortlessly popular. Once you are popular then no effort is really required you just are. It looks effortless because the girls are usually naturally outgoing. You should try to make talking a second nature (but dont just blabber on ALL day)
c.) flirt. Its best to become friends with a guy first. Then as you guys meet eachother you flirt more and its fun. If you really like him flirting should be easy.
I hope I helped!
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msn...?
What is the verdict on msn? I keep hearing people say horrible things about msn and yet others praise it like their lives depend on it. What do you guys think? (link)
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I dont like msn news and search. Googles perfectly good. But I loove msn messenger. I go on it all the time. I dont really like Windows Live Messenger but I think messengers really good if your a talkative person like myself and like to talk to your friends anytime.
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what do you think is the biggest problem that faces teens today? like in the early teens or so.. from ages 12-15ish i guess, or it could count for everything in general i guess. its for this research paper thingy in my 7th grade literacy class and i dunno what topic to choose! i thought of sports cuz sometimes you get rejected and you have to try real hard but i couldnt really think of alot of ideas for that.. it has to be 1 specific thing. cant be like "family problems" has to be specific like "divorce". so whats your opinion? i'll use the best one here. thanks! (link)
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wanting to fit in. become popular. many teens want to be popular or feel small about themselves because of peer pressure
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alright but like one thing is i have this friend. like we are BEST friends. but problem is, she like doesnt stop following me. like i can be standing there talking to someone and then she'll come up and stand next to me and just like wait for me to be done talking to them and if i dont, she'll like tap me on the shoulder. im like her only REAL friend. like serosuily. she'll ask if i can hang out all the time and hey like why not but like she'll get all jelous over everything. like one time i was doing a sport "JACKIE" and she got all mad at me because i didnt ask her and i didnt tell her. and then she asked if i could hang out one day and i told her i had plans and shes like with who (shes so nossy and like, serosuily, omg) and im like "JACKIE" and then shes like oh and later she starts crying about how she thinks shes losing me as a friend because i didnt hang out with her ONE TIME. pretty much, shes a shawdow and kinda like .... ruins my chances making new friends and kinda excludes me from everyone else because she'll get all mad if im not paying attention or anything with out her. SHES MY SHAWDOW AND LIKE, PRETTY MUCH HATES WHEN I TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE AND LIKE.. its anyoying... how am i suppose to make friends if she gets mad or anyoyed if i dont talk to her. its gay. and like the thing is i have a hard time doing things on my own. so like i wanna do this one sport after school and i dont know anyone in it. like no friends in it (its guy and girl) and like... my friend was ganna do it but she tottally bailed on me. and so i skipped it twice because im scared to go in there and do it on my own and like meet new people. like i dont know if popular kids or w.e. are doing it but what ever its new people. and like yeah.. my dad wants me to do it to but i really dont know. im not all that amazing at the sport but im OKAY. any adviceee? =] (link)
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Ok I know how you feel about this girl. I have a like "shadow girl" named Olivia. She was slitting her wrists at the time and I like became her friend and stopped her. Now she follows me everywhere and yea. If you really want to get rid of this girl then try introducing her to other people. This way if she meets other girls she may stop following you. If she doesnt then tell her straight out you need some space. I think you should stay her friend because she definately likes you but try to distance yourselves. Seriously try to get her more friends. My girl Olivia has like 4 other ones now so if I want time alone ill tell her and she'll see one of them. I can see why she's nosy cause she doesnt want to loose you but you cant let her ruin your chances to make new friends. Dont let her exclude you from other people because she wont be there forever so you need to have more friends. Many people have "shadows" and in a way you should be flattered because that means someone really looks up to you. Let her get mad. She needs to get over her jealousy because a true friend doesnt get jealous like that. You really need to explain to her that you want to meet new people and she should be happy for you.
Also with the sport thing: I think you should join it. Sports are a very good way to meet new people. As you stregthen as a team you'll become closer as friends. If you really enjoy this sport then it is definately one thing that you have in common with these girls and guys. Its a good way to meet guys too cause many guys like athletic girls. You dont have to be amazing. Maybe practice more but if your ok youll be fine. It will seem acward at first since you dont know anyone but all you have to do is first stay focused on the sport and maybe while your practicing with some girl you an start up a conversation. Same thing with guys. I definately think you should go for it and dont skip any more practices :P! Ok I hope I helped and dont be sorry your asking me questions I dont mind it at all. You could ask me 50 questions and I wouldnt mind. so to sum up my advice:
1.) Get some space between you and the girl
2.) JOIN JACKIE!!
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yeah okay so how do i become popularrr and all that
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thanksssss (link)
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Ok this is going to be long. Well like I said being outgoing is key. Guys and Girls like someone they can talk to and joke around with. Dont get all shy and flustered when you try to talk to them that makes your "image" pretty low in their eyes. At first you'll probally get upset because most popular cliques are not accepting to other people expecially if you have a bad reputation. The easiest way is to find the kindest "popular" girl in the school and become friends with her. Talk to her alot and once you guys get close she'll introduce you to the other girls. Some will probally still dislike you for a time but if you talk to them and joke around and just be positive that dislike will dissapear. Also, you should try never to get on their bad side or else your life will be very tough. Also, you shouldnt be afraid to try new things. Umm try to find an interest that you share with them. At my school most of the girls that are popular are fantastic at sports. I was terrible. I found a sport, volleyball, and practiced it. When try outs came I practiced with them and they taught me and we got to know eachother. I made the team and that gave them a higher respect for me. What are these girls good at? Are they athletes or fashion lovers? For fashion lovers figure out what is "in" right now and try it. I buy ALL my clothes from Garage and am constantly complimented. You need to be more positive and think yourself pretty. The more you think up to yourself the better image you give off. This may take a while depending how bad you want it. I was the biggest freak in school two years ago. Everyone hated me. Then I met one of the girls and was introduced to the others. I learned fashion ways and got good at sports. I also became outgoing. Now im in the top 3 girls, know ALL the guys, and have alot of fun but in my opinion the best thing is IM NOT A BITCH. These girls may seem like bitches but they arent really. If you do climb the social ladder dont forget who you were because if you dont like it if they bug you or look down on you you shouldn't do the same. I am friends with every single person in my grade. Dont forget who you are interilly. If your smart stay smart but don't try to show off it same with if your not too bright. Remember to be outgoing because its key. You say your really pretty so show you are by smiling alot, and wearing clothes that compliment you. I have written alot here. If you have any other more "specific" questions on this topic inbox me. I hope I helped!
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is it true if a boy bugs you in a playful way he likes you? cause this boy always bugs me and make me laugh and when im working with my friend and he just came over and got closer to me and on thursday he just came running and like hug tackled me he just does stuff to me to get my attenion everyday does that mean he likes me (link)
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It usually does depending on your age group. He either likes you and wants you to notice him or he just thinks of you as a really good friend. hope I helped.
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heres the question.
HOW DO I BECOME POPULAR?
like how do i have tons of friends, people love me, and i look AMAZING (im pretty now, but at school im not at pretty because like, idk why. im just pretter at home. like i look like i came back from the ocean with like long wavy blonde hair and blue eyes and crapp) . i will rate good if you give a good answer. im talking like everything here. i wanna become popular with the GUYS and the GIRLS. so tell me anything you can so that i can become popularrr. =] oh and i wanna become popular FAST. but problem is i can be shy and when talking to someone popular, i tend to not act like myself.. like i'll get all weirdish and shy and not know what i should say like would they laugh if i did this or like think im weird. && i dont have many friends but i have a "shawdow" friend, like where they follow you around. im not saying that i dont have any friends at all, just like not many. lets say theres like THREE tops that i hang outside of school with or w.e. and the other people are just from other towns. one more thing (thanks for actually like reading this) but i feel like not as pretty when im with other girls who are pretty. even if im the most prettiest girl, i feel like ugly. idk. HELPP PAHLEASEE (link)
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Ok, one thing popularity is very very hard to acheive. One thing you definately need to work on is being outgoing. If you stay shy all the time then (not trying to be rude) its practically impossible. Also you need to learn how to be yourself. You cant look down on yourself because it really does show. The "popular" girls usually have a very high self esteem or give the "appearence" that they do. You really cant just be a wallflower you need to stand out. If you really want to know what in a way makes people popular inbox me. Ill tell you everything I did to turn from the school looser to the top 3 girls. I know this sounds conceited but yea. Also, you might want to rethink your goals because being "popular" actually isnt as fun as most people believe....
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I really just need someone to talk to, my best friends mad at me and I sadly, have no one else to talk to. I'm under a world of stress. I don't know what to do. (link)
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just inbox me your problems ill talk to you i know what your going through
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13/f
ok so theres this guy that ive been friends with for about 5-6months+! we can tell each other ANYTHING. but anyway...hes the sweetest guy but lately hes been acting a little different. everytime i talk to him it's "ooohh please dont fuck me like u did last night" but hes only kidding bcuz i never had sex. im a virgin. but then he started immitating all the moans and noises i would make if we did have sex...does it sound like he wants to have sex with me? but then the confusing part is he'll turn around and act normal again...off and on. should i be worried about him wanting sex from me? i mean...he just hit puberty so...can't really blame the guy for being curious right?
and i wanna have sex with him...dont get me wrong im not a slut!
...but should i do it?
thanks in advance (link)
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guys always do that. I am also 13/F and all the guys at some point do stuff like that, it is just their hormones. Dont have sex with him you are only 13! He's just saying that as a joke a doubt he actually wants to have sex with you...
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