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me and my friend amanda have known each other for a little bit over three months. within these three months i went out with her best friend and she went out with mine. but 2 months into our friendship we fell in love with eachother. i broke up with my g/f not just cause of her but she was one of the main reasons. but anyway she is still goin out with one of my bestfriends, and me and her have already gone out on "dates" if u will and i have kissed her. but 2 weeks ago she said we cant be friends. well we became friends and fell in love again and went on a "date". she is still goin out with my friend though. she says she loves me but idk if she is just makin it up or what. me and her are always on the phone at least 2 or 3 hours a day. and i love her more than anything. i dont kno what to do about all of this. please tell me what to do. (link)
I beleive that your friend/girlfriend is undecided on what she should do. I beleive that she see's qualities in you that she desires, but she also desire's qualities in this other guy too. You have to make up your mind as to whether or not you are going to tolerate her behavior.

You mentioned that in 2 months the both of you fell in love. I want you to ask yourself this question....If she really loved you, do you think she would have ended your relationship that way that she did?




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