well.. the guy i really like and he likes me was in colorado.. and i called him on his cell fone.. then his ex found out and got mad at me!!! i mean i didnt mean to make her mad at me! the other thing is.. that she knows he likes me??? why do u thnk she got so mad!!!
she's probably jealous--i would bet on that..she likes him still && doesn't like the fact ya'll are hooking up. i would just ignore it, unless ya'll are friends, then talk to her about it___otherwise don't sweat it! she will get over it eventually..just give it a little time.
good luck!
love--alex
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My Name is Adam Ragar. I dont if you've heard of me but ya know.. Well my question is well i was wackin off the other night and i didnt cum and i was going for like 2 hours straight and i dont know what the hell was up with my penis i mean im pretty healthy downstairs if u caatch my drift. And its not like i wasnt super hard or anything. I mean i had some help (Pornos) and all but i can't beleive it took so god damn long. Well i guess my question is what happened to me and how can i fix this problem?
umm i dont think this is adam ragar..cause we kNoW he doesnt have a problem w/ that..;-)
LoVe-CouRt&&aLeX
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i was wondering how i could last longer and climax later durng sex... please help me out
HmM..well first of all..don't play with yourself before actually DOiNG it. that helps a lot. maybe practice? if you get what i'm saying?? build your stamina up...
yeahh i really don't know what i'm talking about (neither does courtney) :D ask someone else!!
LoVe Us
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does it make you a slut if u give a guy who has a girlfriend a handjob and if u send naked pictures of your self to guys on the computer???
ummm...
not a slut but that is definately not smart to do..if you do that stuff all the time, then you're a slut..
xoxaLeX
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what are you supposed to do when your best friend drops you for someone else? it hurts and makes you feel like crap, but i still dont know what to do..
can u help???
well, i think you should talk to him or her about it...it depends if they did it like on purpose to hurt your feelings or if they didn't even know that they "dropped you"...if your friend does this a lot they're not a very good friend..if it's like their first time and they didn't do it on purpose then i would just let it go, but still, talk to them, it will make you feel better..:)
hope i helped!! LoVe, aLeX
alright..well this is a hard one..have you tried talking to them? that always helps..most of the time when this kind of thing happens they dont realize they are doing it!! and if they do realize they are doing it..well maybe they werent really that good of a friend in the first place. if you need anymore help or want to talk you can IM either of us.
alex: alextay576
court: ScHuTzE09
HOPE I HELPED-CouRt
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Hey omg i absolutly love your advice column...ok well i really need some help, how do u make a guy want to kiss you?(im pretty positive that he wants to but im not sure)! please help me!
well, just be really flirty. sometimes girls have to make the first move, and that's okay!! where your favorite lip gloss.. hehe.. i know you might be nervous but sometimes it's just best to go ahead and kiss him first. he might think YOU dont want to kiss HIM! hope i helped. ask if you need anything!!
xO- aLeX
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ok....i like this guy so much and he is like so hott, and he is really christian and he is like the best guy in school, he's smart and he would be awesome as a boyfriend if you know what i mean...there are like atleast three girls i know that like them and two of htem are my best friends!....i don't know what to do...i don't think he likes either of me or my best friends...but he is like so nice to all of us and he is hilarious you know he is like someone that can make you laugh....oh and we are also really good friends...but same with my best friends...idk what to do...how do you think i should find out who he likes??
ok well if your BeSt FrIeNdS like him then if I was you i would stay away..because that could hurt your friendship with your best friends..but if you really like him and you dont think it will hurt GO FOR IT!! flirt like mad!!! lol if you dont think he likes you..get him to! and about how to find out who he likes..AsK hIm!! and if your to scared to ask a friend to ask him!!
HoPe i hElPed!! IM me and tell me how it goes or if you need anymore advice!!
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i wish i could cook do u cook?
lol not very well...
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where dou get ur clothes
CouRt: umm..i get mine from everywhere..no certain place..
aLeX: me and court shop at like the same stores pretty much but there's like no specific place.. i really like hollister tho and forever 21 has cute accessories:-)
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alex i need you
my best friends are in a fight...its such a long story but i guess to shorten it to of my friends smoked and my other friend is mad at them. they both claim that each of them is ignoring one another and they all keep saying "well she could come talk to me but she dosent" and all that crap truth is niether of them is really trying its almost the end of school and i have a suprise for all of them on the last day but i cant give it to them if they are in a fight
i love all of them to death and i dont want this to ruin anything.....comunication right now is not an option to them when really they both just need to frikin talk! not like hi in the halls but call them or go to there house. im in the middle and i dont want to be i just want them to get a long and relize how great of frineds we all are and how much we need each other
help please
well, i think you should talk to them about how you're feeling. tell them that you love them, that you don't want to pick sides... if you guys have been best friends long enough and value eachother's friendship then they will probably realize it's hard for the people in the middle too. i know how fights get though, and sometimes, people don't realize when they do something wrong.. or they don't see the other person's point of view. maybe they just need to talk it over with eachother.
my advice is to GeNtLy bring it up, but make sure you guys all have time to talk about it. don't mention it online at 10:30 at night.. also, wait another day or two, they might cool off.
good luck, let me know how it goes!!
xoxo alex
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ok im not even alex and courtneys freinds very much i mean theyr nice and all but anyway what some of you guys are doing is ridiculus with the lesbo crap and the 'i hate u' if u dont know them shut the hell up god dang if i were courtney i would slap you she is just trying to be nice and stuff and u are meen to her grow some balls and get a life
alex
thanks! that means alot..but which alex is this? i know alot of Alex's lol!! ok well IM me or something!!!
ThAnks aGaIn!!
LoVe-CouRt
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ok i like this girl we hung out a crap load at nrh2o over her boyfreind. her boy freind is a strange one.(actually im not sure if i like her or not) so she always talks to me tells me secrets and text me on my phone to see how my baseball game went yet she still goes and with him. oh by the way i am really good freinds with the strange boyfreind.
ok..well you didnt really ask a question so i dont know what to tell you..but maybe you should tell her you like her..see if she is just being a "friend" when she is talking to you alot or she thinks of you as something more than that. i dunno IM me or something to tell me what you are asking..sorry i couldnt help!!
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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened?
uMmM..i hate to say this, but i think that it was just a *fling*.. he's a 16 year old boy! i bet he was attracted to you, and ya'll probably had a connection.. but if he didn't even have the decency to say good bye, or ask for your number or make ANY effort at all, then he's probably not worth your time sweety.
hope i helped! lovelove- aLeX
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hey.. well i like this guy.. but idk if i should like him because about a month ago, he broke up with his gf.. and told me he liked me. So i believed him and i liked him too.. well my "friend" told him that i didnt like him which was totally untrue.. and he got all mad at me.. and then i said thats not true.. but then he acted as if he liked me and we were ok but later that night.. he asked out his ex.. and she said yes! my heart was totally broken!! and idk if i wanna like him again.. what should i do?
well KaTiE is going to help me w/ this one! we think you should have a heart to heart with him, talk to him about all that he said and all that happened..tell him how you REALLY feel...and see how that goes..but if you feel it mIgHt not work..then you should probably move on..he isnt worth your time if he is going to act like that..you deserve sSOOO Much better!
HopE wE hElPeD-KaTe AND cOUrT
TALK TO US ONLINE IF U NEED ANYMORE HELP!
and katie wants to know what happens to IM her!
sunstillshinen01 - Katie
ScHuTzE09 - ME! (CouRt)
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ok, my best friend is a guy. we've been best friends for a very long time and i can be myself in front of him and tell him everything. what do i do if im starting to have feelings for him? i wouldn't want to ruin our relationship as friends if something went wrong but now im really starting to like him. i dont know what to do...what if he doesnt like me?
please help me with this one.
ahhHh! well i know like..exactly how this goes. umm, well if you say you can be yourself around him and tell him everything, i assume that he doesn't make fun of you or anything (like seriously) so i think that if you would tell him that you are starting to have *FeELiNgS* for him, that he would probably be nice about it, even if he doesn't feel the same way. i think you should go for it! be careful though, don't scare him off.. when you tell him, if he doesn't say much, he's probably just surprised, so don't feel bad (i've gone through this before lol!). if ya'll are both really comfortable around eachother then i don't see why you wouldn't have a chance! honestly, you will never know unless you tell him.
i know it can be hard, and i also know you don't wanna ruin what ya'll already have, that's why i just said be careful when you tell him.. he might not be used to thinking of you that way, but if he knows YoU like him like that, his feelings might change in a good way! GoOd LuCk! tell us how it goes!!
xoX- aLeX!
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one day i was talkin to my friend online, and she was cool and nice, then the next day she wouldnt even look at me, let alone talk to me, then when i ask her if i did anything wrong, she wont answer. when i see her she just walks away and avoids me, weve been close freinds for a few years then all of a sudden she stopped it all at once, what can i do to be friends with her again
-this ones from a guy
uhmm. well maybe you said something you didnt realize.. and maybe hurt her feelings? even if it wasn't on purpose she might not know that. next time you see/talk to her, be nicer then usual.. and ask her what's wrong! tell her you miss talking to her and hanging out with her and stuff. she might just be going through a hard time. hope i helped!!
xOx- LoVe aLeX
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I burned myself really bad on the stove and it hurts like hell. I came close to burning the house down, but i used a fire extinguisher. I was cooking Mac & Cheese. What should i do if my mom doesnt know and dont say, "Just tell her", cause i have a feeling it wouldnt be so pretty if i did.?.?.?.?.?.?
well first off..how will she not find out if u almost burnt the house down?! wouldnt she notice something like that? and secound..i think you kinda answered your own question..it might not be the rIGhT thing to do but if your super scared she is going to get ReAlLy mad at you..then just hide it..what she doesnt know wont hurt her right?
HoPe I HeLpEd!
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so there is this girl at my schooll that i like and i dn think she likes me but she flirts with me and says she likes this other guy but she never talks to him and i was wondering should i go for it
well as i girl i can tell you SoMeTiMeS girls do that! just to see your reaction! she is probably just testing you. if i were u i would go for it!!
Xo-CouRt
IM me if you need more!!
ScHuTzE09
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ok so i REALLY like this guy but it doesnt seem like he notices me. . .should i tell him i like him b/c he talks 2 /flirts w/ all the girls that he knows like him. but if he thinks im totally weird it'll be embarrasing b/c i have a locker right by him
signed- - i want him 2 like me
Ok..well do u flirt with him? cause if you dont then START! you can usually tell how a guy feels about you when you flirt with him!! and if you feel he likes you back tell him you like him! or hint it to him! you never know unless you do something about it!!!
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ok... i really really like this guy and we flirt and stuff all the time, but he keeps saying that he doesn't like me... what sould i do?
well.. i know this is hard to hear, but he probably doesn't like you.. i mean i know you really have feelings for him but right now maybe he just doesn't want a girlfriend, or he dOeS really like you and just doesn't want to admit it. if you say ya'll flirt a lot there is probably something there, but if he says he doesn't like you the way you like him, he probably doesn't wanna take it any farther than it is right now.. if you really want to kno more about it then i think you should seriously talk to him about it, like ask him why he doesn't like you, or who else he likes!
hOpE i HeLpEd, good luck!! love ya!
xOx- aLeX
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