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My name is Marissa but you can call mr Mari, Mars, Mey, Ms, M, Chubacka or Carlito. I find books intresting and most rock. No not FOB or Greenday but those geeky bands like Cartel =). Well, I must say this and say it loud.
SARAH: Holy shit, 11 years chuba chuba xD! I mean seriously, what could be better than having 11 years with me. I always almost get hit by cars, and the occasional guys honking and staring *lol* we so sexiifull =D. I remmeber when you ran over my house on roller blades and when I fell you laughed. Then you fell and we were both cracking up. jaja BFFLAE!
GEHANE: WOWZERS! Can you say "nanan" Detective Gaget. Lmao seriously, we take too many pics at the movies then lose them. Sausage lumps, one time when we went to Old Navy I put my head down and laughed at something you said, and the next thing I know I crash into a wall... thanks for beating that bitch up for me. Bfflae!
BRIANA*bwe bear*: I didn't know you that long, since 6th grade, but that doesn't mean a thing! We had the craziest times. Like truth or dare in the hot tub ;], me making you hump you cousin, the "I can't control my tounge phase", throwing sah the surprise party, andof coarse that machine we found at your dads lolx! I would jump off a balcony... you would grab my hand and die with me and sah would be theree like WAIT FOR ME! Gehane would be down their waiting to be crushed xD. Your my Italian bish for life, bfflae!
Oh yes, I mustn't forget my school biffle, My chinese sisters Meriam and Millene *marvin* lmao, Sadiya Aaliya and Dahiana, without them my school year would have been so long. Do you remember when you guys asked out Pinky and The Blaze (secret names ;]) I can't believe they rejected you guys. Their loss, they will come begging for you to date them xD. Ok I use to think Miller light *mills* Was a snob and she thought I was but hey we both are crazy dorks! Like how about our snorting when we laugh, or looking at guys buts ;]].Dude *Meriam*came this year and is now a homey! Even if she is absent too much *cough* xD! Yo quireo tu bano! Ajaj like I am spanish! Do I scare you with my laugh lolx.Aaliya *Alahandro*I knew you since 6th grade, homey don't think I am mean anymore lolx. I really can't believe you thought I was mean in 6th grade, well I kinda was TOO MATUREE then xD! Now we can play Speed like in Mr. Mattera's class. I miss the good o'days.Sadiya*boy crazy =)* You keep us laughing with your love for the guys. I remmber when you kissed gabe and pushed him down! Or maybe the time when we were getting water and I chuged it all down and your like :O HOLY SHIT lmao. Well, I know you think Zac Efron is hot at heart so I won't say anything! Dahiana! *tweety* you are one crazed biznitch lol but your very cool and funny. Like last year when we were eating all the starburst in class and no one found out. Jaja I just hope your hand isn't as flexible as before! THOSE PEOPLE MADE SCHOOL GO BY SO FAST, I REMEBER WHAT I WORE THE FIRST DAY...
I like to swim but i gotsa sun burn, *cry*.

Me and my best friend Sah: *is LipstiksHardcore lmao*

Scorpiogirl12345 [4:53 PM]: you farted fireworks
LipstiksHardcore [4:53 PM]: u farted my fireworks
Scorpiogirl12345 [4:54 PM]: you farted your firworks out your ass for thefourth of july.
LipstiksHardcore [4:54 PM]: You farted the fireworks you thought I farted out my ass on the fourth of July
Scorpiogirl12345 [4:54 PM]: lmao
Scorpiogirl12345 [4:55 PM]: you farted fire out your ass with my dad's lighter
LipstiksHardcore [4:55 PM]: you farted your dads lighter out of ur ass
Scorpiogirl12345 [4:55 PM]: haha
LipstiksHardcore [4:56 PM]: :D

Me and Bre

Hollax0ster: happy fathers day husband
Hollax0ster: ROFL
LipstiksHardcore: ;o
LipstiksHardcore: Happy father day
LipstiksHardcore: wife
LipstiksHardcore: !
Hollax0ster: boobsex?
LipstiksHardcore: bellybuttonsex
Hollax0ster: we are dorks!
LipstiksHardcore: LMAO but we are the dorks that get stuffed into lockers
LipstiksHardcore: not the smart ones xD

Website: Marissah
E-mail: Brunettem51@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusettes
Occupation: single
Age: 14
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Member Since: November 4, 2004
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Last Update: November 3, 2007
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I have a new boyfriend at university, but I find myself keeping this news from my friends at home because I don't want it to get back to my ex-boyfriend, becase he is in a very fragile place at the moment and it would really hurt him to find out that I've moved on to somebody else. What I'm trying to do is protect my ex-boyfriend, because I still care about him and don't want to hurt him any more than is necessary, but I feel bad for misleading him and my other friends. Would it be better to just come clean, even if it hurts him in the short term, or should I wait until he's in a better place until I break the news? (link)
ouch hard one. Listen girl not tellig your friends could mean loosing your friends or even your new boyfriend. This old boyfriend may have moved on 2 just not tellling any one. You can do it have strength. If you need any more help u can e-mail me or im anyhting i am all ears.


My best friend I and both like the same guy. He recently asked her out, and now everyone thinks that I'm mad at her; and I'm not!! I think that she might belive what thery're saying, and I don't want our friendship to fall apart. PLEASE RESPOND ASAP!

~Liz (link)
Listen talk to your friend. She will understand face to face what you are saying rather than a nasty rumors. If time goes by and she still doesn't believe you she isn't being a good friend. send us what happens :).


i feel like im so clueless all the time i dont know whats going on ever with my freinds and i kinda feel like im invisible and sometimes i feel like my freinds arent really my friends and im just there with them and not really freinds i dont have a best freind i thought all my friends were my best freinds but i dont think so what do i do? i feel like moving to another school but that wont do anything so ive just decided to be miserable.... (link)
Never never do that. Talk to them. Have conversations with other people too. Be yorself. If someone doesn't like you for some reason and you dun no y they aren't worth it. stay strong XD


this guy and i have been liking eachother for over a year and things are starting to happen. he has slept with 6 girls ao i guess he might be considered a "whore" im a virgin and he knows that and he told me that he liked me enough not to have sex with me. the thing is that i want to have sex with him. i think im ready and i trust him completely. i just dont know if im too young or if i might regret it so i kind of need some help. by the way im 16 if that helps at all.. (link)
Listen this guy seems suspitious. get to know him for a few more years *use a condom if u decide to tho*. When you reely i meen really think you are old enough *plz be at least at least 18 or 19* then have sex with him. remember he could be wanting tooo much of simething if he dumped 6 other girls =D ur smart girl i no u will do the rite thing


I think my best friend might be in an abusive relationship. Sorry if this is long, but I really need some advice... Its really important

Last year around this time, my friend met a guy. She had been in other realtionshops before, but this one was "different". She actually told me she loved him, and she lost her virginity to him also. They spent absolutley every minute together, and he would go with us everywhere...even when the girls went out for my birthday...he HAD to come. He showed up, on my birthday, at my house, with a rose. I thought you know, how nice of him...to bring me a rose in my birthday. But he gave me a dirty look, and told me "no, its for meg". He's not really social, and honestly, doesn't have any friends. All winter was like this. total obsession, sickening. So around the beginning of june, me and the girls took her out...and we got a little drunk. She kissed a guy, but only a peck. She felt guilty and immedatley told "him", who in return, flipped out completley. Dispite my harsh feelings for this guy, me and my friend would talk to him online and treat him as if he were our friends, even if it meant telling him how meg was decieving him...because, after all, she was cheating on him. So during the summer, she had a party. They had broken up for the summer, of course another meg thing to do, break it off so she could do whatever she wanted all summer. This night, though, was different. She was still telling him she loved him, and that they would get togheter, and the night before, they went to a concert togheter and he claimed it was the greatest day they had shared. Meg threw a party at her house, and her old boyfriend showed up. Jon found out and walked 2 miles to her house, knocked on her door and he answered. He flipped out, and punched him. He also punched a wall and shattered his knuckle. The first person he called was me, because i,at this time, did feel bad. He came in my house, around 1am...and i bandaged up his hand, which was completley out of line. I didn't want to attend this party because I didnt want to be involved with the concequences, but actually i was at the bitter end. Meg got drunk and had sex with her ex. Me and my friend dana didn't know what to do, at this time we were both good friends with jon, and we hated to see him hurt. So, we told him, adh he swore to secrecy he wouldnt tell. And he didn't, he lied that he found out another way. But they got back togheter, after all this, i can't even explain. Now that school started again, he doenst even talk to me, he igonres me and my friend totaly. He leaves her 10 messages on her voicemail a day. They are always together...still...despite all this. He throws chairs and gets mad and yells at her and they are still together. At first we thought it was cute, now its just turned in to this obsession. I dont even think he cares about her ..he just needs to feel secure. So this is where we stand. Our health class teacher told us these are all signs of an abusive relationship...but she won't listen. I need to do something...but what? Ive tried everything...please help me and thank you SO MUCH for reading this.


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I am so sad about what happened to your friend =:(. You should see if you notice anything rong with her. After ask her. if you really really think she is being abused go to the authoriticy say this is confidential and tell them.


My cousin is expecting a little girl in March and she's decided to name the baby either Cecilia or Cecilie. (Pronounced Siseelia or Sisilee). She has asked me to search for middle names that will flow easy with her first name and last name. The last name is Walsh if that helps any. I hope you can help! Thanks in advance. (link)
I think her name is so so so so cute =D! well here are a few ideas ;) Cecilie Ash Walsh, steph, lulu, bridget, camedon, kiki lol hope i helped ya! =DDD


Does anyone know any good websites where you can pretend to be someone and interact with people or just talk to people like avatar high? if you fo please answer back.
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I noe a few but just noe u need to down load =). to http://www.thepalace.com www.dolliegirl.com
www.dollieden.com www.preteenchat.com www.teenchat.com. those are a few. all of them are safe, exept palace a lil swearing and well be careful!


ok heres the situation: I have a major crush on this guy n i told my friend bout it and now it seems like she likes him 2 she flirts w. him non stop n when i talk 2 her she denies doin ne of the things and idk wut 2 do because i really like this kid n she likes 2 put me down in front of him and i just dont know wut 2 do..ne ideas i NEED UR GUYZ HELP! (link)
Phew smell that, smells like something rotton. Listen girl this so called "friend" is not being good enough to you. You should confront her. Be like I NO WHAT YOU'VE BEEN DOING. Don't let HER change YOUR mind. You like this guyb ask him out! Show her u can do anything without showing hurt!


Okay so a few things happened and someway or another I ended up not spending enough time with my old friends and more time with my boyfriend and a new group of friends. It's come to a climax and now I have to choose. My best friends or my boyfriend. I love my boyfriend more than anything on this planet and he makes me the happiest alive. No amount of: friend's come first will change that. I don't know what to do. (link)
OK here is goes. You are 13. You can love many many people as friends or more. Whoever said you need to choose really isn't being a good friend/soulmate. Just follow yor heart. You can never be denied following your heart


How do you fall OUT of love with someone you do not want to be in love with??? And how do you do that when you have to be around that person alot? (link)
Love is a hard hard thing to understand. To get out of love... well reelt there is no way. You need to follow your heart. If you reely reely can't handle it do what i do, look for some one else to like! Toughy, when u need to be around that person act like they r your friends nothing more. Just invite some one you like more and you won't even care about Mr. Lovely. Hope i helped!




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