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My bf never shuts up about his penis. His jokes center around that. He constantly tells everyone it's big. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't know why he does that so much. Is he insecure or just dirty minded 24/7? Are most guys this way?

Sadly, most guys are like that. My ex-boyfriend was like that. All big and bad around his friends, but a totally different person when it was just me and him. Is your b/f like that? Me and my ex still occasionally talk to eachother, but he's still rude and obnoxious around his guy friends...and he still is acting totally different when it is just me and him.
Let him know how you feel and tell him how much it bothers you that he does that. If he's a man and respects you enough to quit the dumb shit, stay by his side and be proud that he 'took it like a man'...And if he lashes out at you, well, you know how it should be. He's not gonna change.

Sorry that I'm so blunt, but i've been there, done that. And if he is not willing to listen to you and stop being immature, then he isn't worth your time. Trust me.

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ok so i have darkbrown hair and very white skin and darkbrown almost black eyes. i often wear black eyeliner and use blush.
but i keep having troubles with the colours of clothing i should wear since i heard that some colours suit you and some dont.
so what colours would suit my type???

Aviod dark colors. Pastels and peachy colors look best. Oh and try not to wear dark make-up. If you use eyeliner, use a light brown eyeliner color. And use a dark brown mascara...Light skin and dark make-up is a bad idea. Eye shadow is more difficult, but assuming that you already try to color coordinate your clothes, go with a neutral shade: light or dark golds for summertime, a dusty rose color for fall and pale shades for winter. I like light golds in the summer the best b/c it goes with any colour you wear! And it makes even the darkest eyes, POP!

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17/f

I really really like this guy at school. I haven't even talked to him yet coz i'm too scared haha.

I haven't dreamed in about 5 years until a little while ago and just lately I dream every night and I wake up quite frequently. Every single night I dream about him. What can this mean?

I'm In the same boat as you...I can't seem to keep my nerves from getting the best of me so i never have even talked to the guy i like!
Anyways...
Dreams are just a great big mess of thoughts that you had that day...You obviously think of him alot so of course your dreams are gonna be about him!
A dream can mean alot of things...Since you know that your too scared to talk to him, you have made up your own interpretation of what talking to him would be like. I think that dreams are a waste of thought. Although they're nice at the time, they don't accomplish anything. Be cute...flirt from across a room (smile or make eyecontact)
Or you could Try to swallow you're fear and talk to him. Even if you don't know him you can get him to talk. Ask him a question about somehting you think he'll know alot about. Remember eye contact is key and don't forget to smile!

*Abra Apocalypse*

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Well...Ive been doing drugs for the past 2 or3 years. So it makes me kinda spacey and paranoid over nothing. Well,in early march. I got messed up and had sex with my ex boyfriend. He told me he didnt nut...my friend melissa told me he didnt nut. SO im like okay i should be fine and from what i remember he didnt nut. And we only had sex off and on for about 20-30 minutes because he was drunk and high on pills,and he couldnt get hard. So its now april...ive missed my periods before...would i know if i was preganent by now? would i have grown ne? I thinks its due to stress its happened b4 ne advice is helpful =] Thanks.

Okay, seriously, I just had that prob. Are you having weird mood swings, like, really depressed one day and then super happy the next day? Eating habits changed besides the occasional "munchies"? If so, then it's just period probs. There is the possibility that you could've gotten pregnant even if he didn't get hard, but chances are still slim. So I'd say you're okay.
yeah like i said i just had that prob myself...2 months no period...OMG i freaked but I looked it up on Web MD and it's normal. Drug use not only lessens ur chance of getting pregnant, but also can screw with ur system. So you're most likely fine.

*Abra Apocalypse*

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