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Hey, you can call me Blue if you like! My column is jus for anyone who needs any general advise about anything really. I decided to help others because my friends are always telling me that I give great advise. So here I am, i'm just willing to help whatever the situation!
Thanks, and remember: expressing a problem is the first step to solving it! :-)
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i have heard different things and i could use some good strong opinions (not flames, dont leave me bruised and battered) on bisexuality from a christian standpoint. i fear i may actually have to read the WHOLE Bible (LONG!) to form my own opinion to be honest. i just know alot of ppl interpret the Bible differently.
thanks in advance
I don't know any specific bible readings on bisexuality, however there are a few that you can look up that are directed at homosexuality and can be applied to the christians teachings of both bisexuality and homosexuality:
Genisis 19 - Homosexuality brought death...
Leviticus 18:22 - God forbids homosexual realationships...
Romans 1:18-32 - The penalty for homosexual relationships...
I hope these readings enlighten you on how bisexuality and homosexuality is perceived in the bible, and i'm sure the messages are perfectly clear and apparent.
Hey! Does anyone have any advice on how to successfully make out? What exactly do you do? I rate! Thanks so much for any answers!
Here's a webpage that tells you the basics step by step, check it out:
http://www.enoma.org/r/1/19.htm
Hope this helps! :-)
my brothers best friend is going to college, and well I really like him and I hang on him a lot whenever he's around. but all of his friends including my brothers think he's gay and idk what to do... like i know he's not gay but should i tell him i like him?
Ifyou really like him then I say go for it! And if he doesn't feel the same way or he is gay, then don't worry about it because there's plenty more fish out there!
Hope this helps! :-)
Ok so i posted something yesterday about how my crush just found out i like him, well he texted me and said we'd talk tomorrow. So i'm just wondering if he likes me. I mean we don't get to see eachother that much right now because school is out but we still talk a lot. And when we do see eachother i can see him staring at me. i look at him he holds his gaze for a second and looks away. it drives me crazy! i want to like walk over and be like i like you! anyways when we see eachother it seems like he can't stand when we're in the same place and we aren't hanging out together. Like he was at my brothers wedding (his cousin married my brother...i knowit seems weird but we have been friends for way longer than that, and we're not blood related...lol just had to clear that up) anyways he was at my brothers wedding and we had a hummer limo no one else was in there yet but instead of sitting somewhere else he sat really lose to me, like really really close. He was always offering me a drink from his beer, and he wanted to dance with me the entire time. He's a grade older than me so we don't een see eachother that much but he always comes by locker after school and talks to me. Does he just want to be best friends or does he want more too? I rate all 5's for good advice!
It seems to me like he does have interest in you. However it is not totally clear whether he really likes you or whether he's just being friendly.
My advice is that now that he knows you like him, there should be no stopping you from talking to him about it to find out whether he feels the same way.
I know that it's easier said than done, but if he sent you a text saying that you guys will talk tomorrow then I suggest you take that opportunity to discuss the situation. If not then you'll end up driving yourself crazy by constantly wondering if he likes you or not.
After all there's no point trying to read someone's actions if your confused about what they mean,so isn't it just easier to find out for sure?
Hope this helps! :-)
I started using Acne Free about 5 days ago, and since then my face has been itching like a beast. Has this happened to anyone else? It's started clearing my face us, but it itches so bad and dry patches are forming! My moms making me stop using it, is there anything else thats just as good? (Not ProActive, we can`t afford it)
Something similar like that happened to me aswell. You can try using another product like Clearasil (that helped me) but also if it starts happening again, then don't use the product everyday as this dries out the skin more. Using it once every other day should clear up your face and stop the icthyness.
You should also try using a moisturing face cream after aswell just to reduce the risk of dryness even further.
Hope this helps! :-)
i know this is a stupid question but where do they sell the white pearl necklaces? everyone has them and they look sooo cute but i can't find them anywhere! i don't need expensive ones but just cute ones. if you could send me the website of the store that would be nice!
If your looking for ones that aren't too expensive, try searching on ebay, it always helps me find what ever I need at an ok price.
Here's a link for when I searched for pearls:
http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?ht=1&from=R4&satitle=pearls&sacat=281%26catref%3DC6
Hope this helps! :-)
Hello,
I was just wondering if anyone has experienced having a friends husband attracted to you? See, there are all kinds of websites that tell you the signs of flirting or how to know if someone likes you, but, can anyone tell me what the signs are if your friends husband is flirting? Because they have to be more discreet about it if they are interested in you. I just need to know. I will rate high for serious answers. Thankyou.
If he starts hitting on you...like telling you "sweet things". If he touches you is another sign. Or even some playful behaviour can be another sign.
Hope this helped! :-)
I'm at home right now because my mom left me here. She woke me up, gave me 5 minutes to get ready and left! Keep in mind i'm a 15 year old girl and i need like an hour to get ready. So i like threw on clothes and i was running around trying to get ready really fast but she just left. And guess where she was going? My grandma's house. She's always like this and she goes like psyco on my brother a lot too. She's not like abusive or anything but she scares me. Is this normal mom behavior? By the way i'm her 5th kid and she didn't act this way with the other 3. My brother gets so upset about it sometimes that he turns to drugs and i'm starting to get into it too. It's like we need to get away from her but to the rest of the world she's the perfect mother because around other people she's always so nice.
There may be several reasons for your mom to be acting like this; perhaps she's been under alot of stress lately (maybe from work or something else).
Sometimes mothers act like this because they can't cope with certain stresses of life. Try asking her if there is anything bothering her. However if she is starting to scare you then I suggest that you tell another adult about the ways she treats you and your brother, like someone who you trust (another relative or even a school teacher).
The worst thing you could possibly do is to get yourself mixed up with drugs. And if you feel that your becoming addicted you should definately tell someone so that you can receive help before you hurt yourself.
Talk to your brother aswell and explain to him that drugs is not the answer (for either of you).
Whatever you decide to do, bottling up your feelings is not the answer, eventhough you may find it difficult to be around your mom right now, maybe if she knows how you feel, she'll think about changing.
I hope this helps :-)
okay me and my boyfriend has been dating for 3 months now. but we spend everyday together baicually we see each other at least 2 days or more.. so it feel like from both of our point of veiws we have been going out for at least 6
but we havent and we have kinda been you know moving fast in the sexual area i have liked him for 3 years and..and we kissed b.c we went out not make out kiss. but pecks and he went on some dates b4 we went out and now that we go out.. we have been going fast..... we are to the point that we are thinking bout ORAL!??!!
so is that bad can and relationship have too much lust me and him has talked about it he gets kinda annoyed everytime i bring it up because he says at least 3 times a day i love you more than anything/with all my heart... and.. i dont know
its the the oral that bugs me its the time period we have been dating. i mean its been 3 months it feel like forever....
is that good or bad?
and too much lust ruin out relationship
he says i can stop it if i want to.....
ILL RATE HIGH!
I totally understand how your feeling because I myself have been going out with my boyfriend for like 3 months, and it does feel like we've known eachother forever!
So i'm basically using my experience as an example; yeh me and my boyfriend have talked about having sex/oral, and eventhough we say we love eachother, i'm still really thinking about whether to take it to the next level or not.
So all i'm saying is, think about what YOU want to do,and i mean really THINK ABOUT IT, because saying your in love and showing it are two different things. It's ok to have the feelings that you may have right now, but you need to do what makes you comfortable, and that's what i'm thinking about at the moment.
Well I think i've said too much,
Just take it easy and see how it goes and you'll be fine. :-)