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(female) i'm really tight if you know what i mean. how do i loosen myself up fast and efficiently? my boy and me tried to have sex but it wouldnt fit. (link)
yea like the person who last wrote said, you should try putting fingers inside of u, or let him. and move them around and spread your fingers. remember being tight is a good thing, so try to only loosen your self enough to get him inside.


i found some superman belt muckles online that i liked but id rather purchaise one from a store or the mall does anyone kno where i could possible get one? (link)
u can get it in a store called "Hall of Heros" it's not in many malls, but that's one place you can get it


how can me and my boyfriend have fun without doing like blowjobs and giving handjobs and all that.

i mean like dress up. or something we can have funnn with. any ideas will be great

thanks. (link)
Playing strip poker (or any other card game, if you can't play poker) is always an interesting way to get your clothes off.


my boyfriend wants to have sex but i dont know if im ready what should i tell him (link)
tell him how far you are willing to go. If you don't make it perfectly clear, he may encourage you to go a little farther while you're "fooling around" and then you'll get pressured into doing something you're not ready to do. Just make sure you let him know when you're not in the act of kissing, or touching or something, because then your body will make you think you want something you don't.
hope it helped
*jackie*


well im 17, f, and i have a boyfriend. well the first time i had sex was last week. well after sex i looked down and the condom broke! is it 2 early for a pregnacy test because it was 4 days ago? and is it possible it broke after sex, like right after? thanks :\ (link)
To be quite honost with you, it probably did not break after sex.. sorry. But you can take a early pregnancy factor (EPF)as soon as 48 hours afterwards. you could also look into emergency contraceptive pills if you do it quickly. I hope it helped. Good luck


im getting a pet hamster thats a girl with short yellow/tannish/white fur. i havent ever had a hamster much less a pet before. what are things i should know about hamsters and taking care of them n stuff? and how do i convince my parents to let me get my first pet? btw im 13. cause theres this girl in my class and her hamster had babies and the hamster i want is a girl and is now about 3 months old. shes giving the babies away for free along with free cages she has.. though I might want to get my own cage possibly... from Petco? idk where they sell that stuff. and do hamsters need any shots or anything? do they bite? what do i do if mine gets sick? how can i tell if its sick? how do i know if its healthy? um and also im not sure what to name her if my parents let me get it. give me opinions on the names i have so far and/or add more names

-bailey
-mimi
-paige
-jamie
-london
-charlotte
-kimi
-cleopatra
-tinker bell (link)
heyy, a hamster isnt very hard to take care of. you just fill the cage with wedding, and fill up a waterbottle for them, which should come with the cage, or you could buy them separately at any pet store. you can buy a hamster food which sorta looks like trail mix. make sure you don't neglect them, because then they can get not-so-friendly. but generally they dont bite.. they could playfully nibble but thats about it. i would recommend buying a hamster ball in addition to the wheel so it doesn't get repetitive for them, plus they like to explore the house. just make sure to keep an eye on the ball. clean the gave every once in a while, by dumping the whole thing out and them putting new bedding and fresh food. if u have any questions feel free to ask

*Jackie*


i'm 18 and i have always that my labia minora was kind of small but i didn't really mind because it stayed out of the way. today i was masturbating and everything was normal. i took a shower not an hour later and i swear to god it was 3 times its normal size... and it seems to be staying that way. i know that many teenagers' labia sizes change but within an hour? and by that much? is this normal? should i seek medical attention? (link)
first of all, are u not used to sexual activities? and Have you ever had an orgasm? Before orgasm, many parts of you "down there" swell up, much like the male erection. blood flow increases and gets you ready for sex. This is what probably happened. During masturbation you probably made your self climax or come close to it, and that's why it enlarged. It could last for a little while, but don't worry everything will be fine and it will go away. if it's like a few days later then maybe you should consult your doctor, but before that, i wouldn't worry

hope it helped

Jackie


are stride gum wrappers edible?

i heard they were if you eat the wrapper with the gum.
is this true, like are they meant to be chewed,
i would think they would advertise the wrappers being edible and stuff, but idk, is it true? (link)
It's a little weird, for me.. but yes it's true. My friends have tried it, and it works. It's a strange concept that when chewed with the gum it's edible but by it's self it's just a wrapper.. I don't chew it because it creeps me out a little. I don't know where someone thought to chew the whole thing, that's weird.


F/16

ok well i need help on what to get my boyfriend of 4 months for his birthday in a few weeks and then something for christmas.
he's not really interested in anything and i was gonna get him a picture frame with a picture of us in it but we dont have any pictures that i could do that with. soo any ideas?
i want it too be special and $50 or less please but nothing really cheap.
please help
i need as many ideas as possible.
thanks in advance.
auto 5 for answers :) (link)
hey, a favorite CD or a favorite something. also, the cute M&M's with sayings on them would be nice, in his fav. colors. cute stuffed animals that come in pairs, like the hall mark "kiss kiss" bears. something along those lines, four months is kinda a long time, so you should get him something meaningful and cute that shows you know what he likes, and that you care a lot about him.

I hope I helped Jackie


im 110 pounnds, and 5'6

my bra size is a 34B, is that normal for my weight
or like extremely small (link)
hey, I'm 110 pounds, and 5'5 1/2. my bra size is 34B too. and I know I feel small in that area too sometimes, but no it's normal. I bet you are thin. This girls have smaller breasts.. lets face it- breast are basically fat tissue. Girls/women who are big all over, are big all over. I just think of it this way, I'd rather be thin, and not have a huge chest than be fat and have a big one.. ya know? So basically don't worry you are proportionate.



oh yeah, and the sore thing.. your hormones are making them sore, it is also completely normal

Hope I helped, Jackie


do you still get a "period" if your on the pill and hav unprotected sex? (link)
no, you shouldnt get the period while on the pill. and a little tip, use a condom the first month of being on the pill to keep from getting pregnant, becuase it takes a lttle while for your body to get used to the pill.



i'm 15/f in 9th grade in a Middle school and i get depressed a lot that i've never had a boyfriend. and i've also never kissed a guy before. sometimes i just get to thinking like wow there are like 13 yr olds with boyfriends and who have gotten their first kiss before.

also most of the people in my grade have boyfriends and have definitely kissed a guy before. it just gets me sad knowing that i haven't kissed a guy or even had a boyfriend before.

i don't want advice on how to get a boyfriend, that isn't my problem. i just want advice on how to be more confident and not to be constantly worrying about the fact that i've never had a boyfriends and i'm still prude.

thanks =] (link)
get a manicure. i suggest a frnech manicure. if you know how to shop arround then you can get a good deal and it will make you feel pampered and its a small thing that can make a big difference. you will feel prettier, girlier and more danty. lol. i hope it helps

*jackie*


this will sound stupid. but when people say like "what base have you been to" or soemthing i have no clue what they are talking about, so i just go along with it. could you explain like

base 1 is - then tell me

thanks (link)
where I come from its;

base 1-kisses or "making out"
base 2-girl getting "felt up" (toching her boobs)
base 3- hand jobs, blow jobs, fingering and getting eaten out
home- sex


i hope i helped
*jackie*


how do i get glue off my hands? (link)
if its just like white glue just soak your hands in warm water. or you could wait untill it dries and then peel it off


ok this guy that i really really like his name is matt ok and his friend nolan asked me out for matt i said no thinking he was joking then a few days ago these 2 kids corey and jeremy asked me out for matt again and i didnt even answer them so my friends thought that matt actualy liked me and also i got sent to ISS which is in school detention for something really stupid but while i was gone my friends said that matt was like wheres julie wheres julie and looking around for me and then i was sitting there laughing and he looked over at me and smiled it was really cute hehe yeah anyway so my friends really think he likes me i dont though but my friend liz said that corey one of the guys that asked me out for matt was like i asked julie out for dont tell him or something so i was just wondering liek does anyone know if this guy matt likes me or not and if you have any suggestiong that would be great too btu i'm a really shy person when it comes to guys so just remember that please and thank you (link)
well julie, wow it totally sounds like he likes you! i havnt seen you too together but from what you say then YES. no guy would get his friends to ask you out so many times is he didnt mean it! you should get one of your friends to talk to him or his friends if you are shy. b/c he might end up thinking that you dont like him and mve on.. so u've gotta try. hope i helped : )

*jackie*


i have a lot of friends. but i only have like 7 close friends that i acualy hag oiut with. does anyone have any ideas on howi can ge closer with my other friends? (link)
hey, what you can do is have a big group hang out at the mall or something that way everyone hangs out together. another thing to do is invite a friend or two taht you dont really hang out with to your house to watch a movie and order a pizza or something along those lines. this will make these friends knwo you wanna be closer and will invite you to their house. in no time you will have more fridends that you hang out with

hope i helped : )


Okay well i have posted questions about this boy before and here they are..."I like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. We have one class together and lunch, and when we have our study hall instead of the class he always sits next to me and wants me to tell him who i like. He always wants me to go to his matches and he has a girlfriend. I don't know if he likes me please help! Im a 14/f" and, "Well lets call him...Jim lol okay well in my gym class alot of the girls are Jim's girlfriends friends and when we were walking through the gym the other day no one was around and we were talking and then he kept hugging me and walking with his arm around me Is that another sign of him liking me idk please help.!.!.!"
Well since then he started hugging me more and more in gym and he was like walking with his arm around me and coming up behind me and picking me up but it was only when no one was watching... So i decided to tell basically hint around to liking him and he knows and then he would do that stuff even when people were around...now our class has ended.. and he still has his girlfriend and she hates me. I've decided to get over him but he won't let me because when he sees me at lunch he flirts with me and hes always staring at me. He yells at his girlfriend whenever she like pushes me and stuff so I've been trying to ignore him to get over him and it seems like it's driving him crazy like he'll do stuff to get my attention, he gets jealous when i walking with my guy friend and i just wanna know if he likes me or if i just need to get over him, but if i do need to get over him how? so i guess im asking how do i get over him if i need to and does he like me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?


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ok. he likes you. and his girlfriend can tell b/c shes pushing you. and hates you. I would let him know that you liek him. and then wait. like you cant expect him to break up with his girlfriend right away. but he either willl or as soon as thewy are done he'll go after you. ya know wat I mean?

well I hope I helped


oh, and if you need to get over him for any reason, then you could keep trying to avoid him because absence heals the heart. if that doesnt work, then you may want to straight up tell him that you need him to stay away for a week or two so you can get over him. and he should understand.. planning a girls night with a bunch of ur girlfriends is another great way. go out somewhere pubilic and see some cuties and flirt your butt off lol..

well once again I hope it helped! let me know how things go

*jackie*


I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
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hey, what you can do is in school talk to new people. ask them to hang out. go to a local resturant or soemthing just get out. go with a bunch of them that way one or two of them you iwll really hit it off with


my friend james is not a conventional kid he is awesome but some people thinks he is crazy, that doesnt bother me .before he liked the most "popular gurl in school" and when she rejected him he got all emotional and detached he wouldnt even acknowledge me but he got over that. but now he likes a new gurl and i no she will reject him because she is my friend but and i no how she feels about him, i tell him not to ask her out because he wil get his heart broken again but he doesnt listen so today he asked her out and she said no and now he is detached again. im not sure wat to do now because it is weird to hang wit her when he is soooo upset. im rele want to help him but now he is taken his anger out on me. (link)
hey, with your friend, I think that you should give him a little bit of time. but then invite him our to look for a new girl to like for him. ya know. like a friends night out. and with the girl its ok to hang out with ehr. James may be upset at first but tell him that you're both your friend and he cant expect you to drop the girl.. and eventually he will understand. also suggestion that you all three hang out. and then they can become friends. i hope it helps.

and just remember, even though ur friends you dont need to take this, you dont need to have him detach from you every time he gets rejects.

: ) JAckie


this is a really random question but my classes get really boring and i like to doodle so what are ssome things i could doodle that i wont get tired of. i want to look like im taking notes so doodling is the only option. (link)
hey, I like to draw stars and flowers. if you're not into that you could draw things like in math class last year i was so bored I doodled "math" falling off of a building. also something that looks like you're taking notes is writing notes to friends. hope i helped




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