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im in a bad situation... or kinda odd... ok now i know my guy friend isn't mad at me and so im still waiting for HIM to im ME but theres one small problem.. he doesnt know my new sn and so its going to be IMPOSSIBLE for HIM to im ME! what do i do?! (link)
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Ah! DUH! IM him. Seriously dude, if I know who this is (and I do), you've been obsessing over this guy for as long as I've talked to you! He doesn't know your screen name, so right there is the perfect excuse to talk to him! Duh! Hope I helped. :p -Manda
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Can sum1 please help!! Am 16 & female so i probably sound silly but am not.
About 3 months ago I meet the most amazing guy ever(Ryan),wat i've always wanted,funny,caring,wild & deep. We started seeing each other rigt away.
We went out for a month in this time he told me he loved me & done everything in his power to show me it was true. Then we broke up!! He told me he still loved me & would go back out with me soon. Then my mum was speeking to his mum & she said that I was the first girl that he had realy bothered about & that he was oviosly in love with me. Then a mouth later people were telling me he was engaged. He says this is not ture. Then 2 weeks ago we had sex at a party. His mate was teling me that Ryan did like me & wasnt shure if he was seeing sum1. Then the other week I aked him if he was seeing sum1 he said yeah. The thing is am good mates with him & his best mate Darren but it hurts me not being his girlfriend coz am in love with him. And was gona cut him from my life but realizied it was way to hard. So am wondering what to do:1- cut him from my life (hurting him & myself) 2- Wait for him or 3- Tell him how I fell. What one should I do? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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You should stay 'mates' with him until him and his probably loser of a girlfriend break up. And then you tell him how you feel and it'll all hopefully work out. Because it sounds to me like he likes you, he just is scared by how much he likes you. :) Hope I helped.
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i took this test on the internet because i have always thought i had add. i've never told anyone this b4 though so i was a little scared when i was takeing the test. im only 13 years old and it said if u chose 8 or more out of 20 of the questions then u are highly too have add. well i got 10/20 and i dont know if i should tell my mom what should i do?
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No big. Lots of kids have ADD. Just tell your mom and see what she says. Tell her you're worried and don't want to have ADD. Then you can go to a real doctor who can actually diagnose you and then you can get medicine for it. :) Hope I helped. -Manda
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well do u guys know that quote..
let the person you love go and if they come back they were meant to be yours??
well i never believed that quote..until i met *ben* in 6th grade but then i told ppl i didnt like him n then durin 7th grade i kinda forgot abut him but then like the quote said in 8th grade *ben* came back..
were we meant to be??
tnxs nd i rate high (link)
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Haha. Sure. I mean it depends. Don't go only by what the quote says, if you like the guy and he likes you and yall connect, then you were meant to be. Plus, it does help that now you're older, cause now you can have a more 'meaningful relationship'. :) Hope I helped. -Manda
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ok i like my guy "friend" and i've talked to him maybe 1 or 2 w/ a big group of friends b4 this year and a few weeks ago we had this realllly long convo at like 11 pm and so i've been taking to him on the internet becusse i dont have any classes with him or anything and he blocked me but i didnt do anything! my "friend" ( not the guy frined) says that he likes me, but i now that's bull because he doesn't... and why else would he block me? and the other day he didn't sit with us while the other OTHER day he did and we laughed and everything and we would say stuff in one class that would makE EVERYONE turn around, which they did... every one EXCEPT him!! and i have NO clue what's going on... i really want him to be my close guy friend or even more ;) lol i didn't say ANYTHING to him!! and im not mean or anything ESPECIALLY to him! im just soo confused!!
please help
if you know that it's me.. don't tell any1 ok?? (link)
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Aah! I think that he does like you and you need to just talk to him whether or not you're comfortable with it, cause soon enough he'll realize his feelings!! Haha yea, and OF COURSE I know who you are. It's okay though, I think you need to get some sleep and stop obsessing. :p Just kidding, but still...I think he likes you. Nana nana boo boo! Hope I helped! :) -Manda
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I am a 17 year old girl. I do not come from a poor family on the contuary i am well off. The thing is that i have a habit of stealing be it from mobile phones which i have now about four,i also steal all of my aunt's clothes and her baby's clothes. The last thing i stole was a video camera from my school.For the previous things i stole they suspected me. Once even the police came to school for i was a suspect for stealing a teacher's cell phone. My parents knows about my problem and the threatens to tell my boyfriend if it continues but really i cannot seem to be able to stop. I sometimes give these stolen stuff to other people and rarely keep them 4 myself.WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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Okay, you klepto. You need help. Go get a psychiatrist. Seriously, you need one. You lame ass, stealing little bitch. But I guess at least you're not pawning the stuff you steal for drug money. :/ So yea, get a shrink and get some help. Hope I helped. :) -Manda
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This guy is new to one of my classes. He's extremely cute, funny, sweet, smart and just really outgoing. He's always asking to borrow my notes, and no one else's. He does anything to try to find a way to sit next to me, too. I can't even tell if our conversations are flirting or just normal chit chat. I'm starting to really like him, but I do have a boyfriend. I just can't help daydreaming about this boy. He's not like any other boy I've ever met and he seems to possibly, like me back. We've only been talking for a a week or so, and I'm just scared if I lead on I like him, he'll back away. Should I just flirt for now or try to be more forward about how I'm feeling? (link)
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I'd say flirt until you and your boyfriend break up. Then after you're single again see if he does anything to be more forward about his feelings, and then if he does, you can go for it and be as open as you want about your feelings. Hope I helped. -Manda
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okay recently i had this boyfriend who i thought was my everything. well everything was apparently nothing at all when i kissed someone else so now i am broken up with my boyfriend and the other guy my parents never want me to see the other guy again but we both really like eachother. We arent going out right now bwcause neither one of us want a relationship. Oh yeah and i have liked this other guy for about a year.So i have liked him b4 i met my boyfriend. I am 13 years old and a female!Plz give good advice!!!!!!!! (link)
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I would say you're dumb for going out with your ex-boyfriend in the first place. I also must call you dumb for then not hooking up with the other guy. =p I would say you need to just like talk to him a bunch at school and like stay after school with him or something? I don't know, just don't let your parents know. Do that once or twice and then see if he and you want a relationship. If you don't then the whole first break up was pointless, unless you really didn't like the guy. Maybe you two could stay friends with benefits. I don't know. But yea, hang out and become better friends then decide if a relationship is really where you guys want to head. Hope I helped. Though I felt my advice just kind of ran around in circles, so sorry bout that. -Manda
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ok well a guy found out i liked him and he likes me but im not positive i like him becuz i like other guys too. what should i do when i see him tommrow? AHH ill rate u a 5! (link)
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I think you should just pretend like you didn't hear about him knowing you like him. If you don't want him to ask you out or something then just don't bring it up, and he probably won't talk about it either. Yep, alls you got to do. It almost always works that way. Hope it works out and I hope I helped. :)-Manda
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why do friends not act like friends? i dont get it personally, i mean some one says they are your friend and then they aren't and that just isn't cool! but when is too much? do you ever feel emotionally attached to some friends when you really want to blow up at them and like really be truthfull, but if you did then you would probobally not be friends again? because this is what i am going through. and it is pretty confusing. if you wonna do something or say something then say it to the person, dont try to hide behind petty conversations and try to keep them secret? do you agree? i'm not sure but i just have certain friends that wouldn't do that or wouldn't make such a problem out of it but it doesn't make any sense! some of my friends, as i call them, dont really understand that i have some stuff that is confusing and i would need to explain rather than just spit it out and get into a spat about it. i wonna band all hell that has to do with friends or ex friends because it isn't needed. right?
band all bad friends and their lies- (link)
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I'm not really comprehending the question you're trying to ask, but if you think I'm a bitch for saying a couple things about you at the most to my other best friend, excuse me. Maybe if you'd listen to me for once you'd understand that there are times when I need to do the talking. And okay, if you're asking if you should ban all your friends, I say go right ahead, you sorry ass bitch. I can't believe you'd say that shit. Do you know how long I've had to put up with you being a bitch to me and telling me how I'm a loser with no real friends!? Do NOT sit there and tell me that a little constructive critism on my part is going to throw you off the edge. And if it does, best to ya...cause I'm done. I don't care if tomorrow I go to school and we're talking again, it's not going to be the same. I'm sick of putting up with your shit. Sorry. -Manda
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Okay i listen to music videos on Yahoo.com and like when i sign in with my yahoo name like if i click on a music video it wont play! but when my sister does it on her name she can listen to them! well shes not here so i cant ask her to long on on her name so do any of you guys no how to fix this? thanx i rate 5's! (link)
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Umm...you could just make a new username? I guess you're on launch.yahoo.com, so just make up a new name and then log on that way so you can watch music videos. The best song in the world that you need to listen to is of course, from Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge, I'm Not Okay by My Chemical Romance. Wwwwa! Yea, hope I helped and I hope you like I'm Not Okay, cause it's the coolest...ever. :) -Manda
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There is this one grl who goes to skool and she is being sooo stupid rite now, she is complaining bout how me and my friends talked all this crap bout her....and we may have said a few things but nothing bad and instead of getting mad at all of us she is just mad at me....even though she says crap bout me all da time ....do u still think i should be her friend?
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Hmm...she sounds like a TOTAL bitch to me. :) I think I know who you're talking about and yea, she can be a bit of a loser about shit like that. She'll totally bitch you out and then you say one thing and she aims to hurt your feelings. It never works, because we all know she doesn't mean it. Like today, she hates me. But tomorrow, I'm almost positive she's going to be all cool, yea...yesterday I hated you!. And whatever, I don't care. She's dumb. ANYWAYS, back to your question. So you and someone said a couple things that weren't so bad and she's now being a bitch because she found out that you and the rest of the school are talking about her and everyone thinks she's a bitch? Yea, totally stop hanging out with her. It don't matter how many classes you are in with her. She's being lame to you and you shouldn't take it. Drop her like a hot rock. :) Haha yea, sorry about my personal rant added in there. Hope I helped! :) -Manda
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okay Amanda my ex broke up with me cuz he thought i was ugly and for once i actually really really liked this kid and i still do and he wont get out of my head anywho now im really scared or whatever you would call it that other people think im ugly too and i dont want to be ugly cuz like no one wants to be ugly yeah it just sucks....what should i do????????? (link)
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Wow. I don't know who you are, but I don't know many ugly people...you're not Emily Stern, are you? lol ...just kidding. But umm...no matter how much your love for your ex expands, you should abruptly start hating him. He's a dick for saying he broke up with you because you were ugly. If that's what he thinks, then screw him. In the long run his opinion doesn't matter. I'm sure it's wrong anyway. Don't be scared because of what someone might think of you and that shiz. It's kind of lame to live your life by what others think of you. I know people hate me and think I'm a loser, but I don't let it bother me...so you shouldn't let it bother you if one guy called you ugly. It was probably a false statement. Come on, haven't you ever just been like well...you know what...you're ugly and I hate you! -hmph- -sticks tongue out-, to someone? Right? I mean, I still do that all the time. lol Yea, so he's a loser and you should move on. I'm sure you're not as ugly as he says you are. (And being ugly could be an endearing quality...take Eric Idle for example! lol ...I'm sure you don't know who that is, but that's cool, cause he's cool and ugly to boot!) Yea, so hope I helped! And uh...you don't sound ugly? lol -Manda
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do u people think its weird if ur a girl and tell a gurl u luv dem like when they are about 2 get offline? cuz my friend online who is lez said dat 2 me and i said it bak cuz i have known her 4 a while and she is like 1 of my best friends. is there sumthin wrong with that?cuz now that i think about it it kinda seems weird i juss said it witout thinkin.
much luv people!!
holla
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Dude...you can't end a question like that with much luv people! Do you even know us!? Let me tell ya, that's just not normal. All the preppy people always say it to each other, it's actually kind of annoying. But that's not your question- I think that it's normal, as long as you both know your boundaries. :) Yea...much luv people!! Not really...you know what's lame? People have made it to where saying I love you doesn't mean anything. It's just kind of something that people say, the meaning is lost. It's lame. Love used to mean something. But you know, whatever. Oh yea, and just in case I haven't reiterated on this fact enough, it is totally hypocritical of you to end in much luv people. It's going to bug me too. I'm going to have to laugh every time I think of your question, cause what a lame thing to do. 'Now that I think about it, it is kind of weird I said I love you back to her...yea, much luv people! holla!' ...what the hell. You lame ass whore. I hate you already, and I don't even know you. Wwwwwwa! Okay, I'm done. Sorry...wasn't intending to offend anyone, by the way. :) -Manda
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okay, I didn't really think I'd get any more answers to my previous question, so I'm going to put my addition to my additional answer here.
Here is my question. When you cut yourself, which by the way I'm trying to stop, so I don't really need help there, I was wondering, will the scars ever go away? Because I cut first letter of my first name in my arm, and now I regret it, and it's not that deep. None of the cuts I made had actually bled, they jstu got scabs over them. So will the scars be there forever? (link)
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I just want to state before I start answering that you shouldn't have cut in the first place, but you know, you said you're trying to stop, so it's all good. Anyways, it depends on how deep you cut. If you cut really, really deep then yea, it's gonna scar. If it wasn't that deep and it really didn't bleed and you didn't pick at the scab, it shouldn't leave a scar at all. It should go away. If you did pick at it, it will probably scar. I dunno, hope I helped. -Manda
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is this bad?? OK i was playing basketball today because we had a game and i got pushed down and landed on my hand and got it pulled back and now it wurts to move it i cna but not in one drection!
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Haha, I'd say it's pretty bad. You need to go to your doctor and have him look at it. Your hand could be broken! Good job on winnin the game though. :) Hope I helped! -Manda
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What should you do if you keep on babysitting and they always say they will pay you but never do, and you are too nervous to ask them to pay you? (link)
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You pansy! Not really...but you need to talk to them. Just tell them over the phone or something, it takes the pressure off telling them in person. Let them know you are irked by the fact that they say you will get payed but they don't pay you. Just rant for a minute or two and then let them apologize and pay you. :) Or you could have your mom or dad call them and then you can just be like, I'm soo sorry about that, my mom gets a little over the top about things like that. That way, you'll look like the good guy and you'll be gettin payed! Hope I helped. -Manda
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well..i really like this kid..and he asked me out one time and i said no because i didn't really know him and everything. but now i know him and i REALLY like him. he knows i like him and he tells me he still likes me..but he hasn't asked me out again and he flirts with EVERYONE..and he know it makes me upset but he still does it. what should i do? (link)
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He sounds jealous, but he doesn't want to get rejected again. I say you need to make the first move. He'll probably go for it. Hope I helped! -Manda
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what do i do when my friend thinks I did something but I realy didnt and it was someone els? (link)
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Good question. :p If this chick (or guy) is really your friend she should believe you when you say you didn't do it. So tell her it wasn't you and tell her who it really was! Duh! Wwa! Hope I helped! -Manda
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Well, I am supposed to go to a party on Saturday. It is supposed to be really fun, but I have a slight problem. It is the day of my mom's birthday. I don't know what to do. The party dosent start until 7:30, but i would feel bad leaving my mom on her birthday day. What should I do? (link)
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Umm...duh. Just celebrate your mom's birthday before seven thirty. :) We probably will anyway though. We always do. Her birthday's not til the next day, anyway. And then you can be...who are you gonna be again? lol Just kiddin, I wouldn't say anything unless you stopped askin questions! Wwwwwa! :) HOPE I HELPED! -Manda
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