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Hey Y'all!!! First of all, my name is Becks! I'm a 16 (almost 17) year old junior I live in Dallas, Texas. I love giving advice- especailly about decorating, style, fashion, hair, make up, and boys! But I'll answer ANYTHING you've got so just ask babes!
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i have this gurl that is in love with me n we broke up a year ago n she is moving back n really loves me but i love some1 else wut shold i do
Well, if you're in love with someone else, it's obvious. You need to persue the one who you love!
I don't love my boyfriend but I do like him alot and we're good together. The thing is, we've been together for a month and there have been a few problems to do with kissing. We both want to, properly like full on but before I didn't want to. Now I do and he knows, it's never the right time, we don't see each other out of school a lot and it's hard when other people are there. I really want to kiss him, what should I do?
You need to go on dates to further persue this kissing thing. Let me tell ya, i love kissing, but don't do it because you fell like you should. It's also very good that you like this guy a lot.
I've known this guy for like 3 years, and liked him on and off for a while. I like him, and just found out he's going to ask me out. What should I do?
FINALLY! It's what you've been wanting right? I don't understand what the problem is!
Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?
NO! You can't be in love with him! Didn't your parents teach you anything about "stranger danger?!?" Come on, be reasonable. Actions speak louder than words. You only have the words to judge. You've never met this person in real life, they are just saying all of the right things. Chances are, they aren't who they say they are. You need to be carefull.
I have a big poster of aaliyah on my door and its getting kind of old ive had in since i was in 7th grade. what should i do with my door? i dont want it to be empty! nothing i have to go out for just stuff @ home. thanks!
My friend did this awesome thing to her door where she took old magazines and cut out pictures she liked- like her fave shampoo, cute phrases, hot celebrities, or a pair of shoes taht she HAD to have but could never afford. Then she took these clippings along with pictures of friends, ticket stubs, rhinestones and stickers and made this huge collage for her door. It looks so amazing and plus it's a fun "conversation peice" because we could talk about what all is on it and what it means for days!
I have this problem where everything i wear must match. I wont wear somthing if it doesnt match perfectly. It takes me forever to get dressed. Is this bad? If so does anyone know how i can stop?
There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good, we all do. I would suggest that sometime when you have lots of time (example- weekends) you make a callendar or list of all of the outfits that you have that do match PERFECTLY so that it won't slow you down getting dressed in the morning and it'll help you get ready faster. Also, in the futre when you buy clothes, buy stuff that matches what you already have that way you'll have more options.
OK...uhmm i have this guy that i really, really like and he treats me like a princess and like im the most precious thing in the whole entire world! but the thing is...my dad doesnt like him b/c he herd sumthing about him and now he has that assumption about him. I REALLY REALLY wanna go out with him and go to our skewls formal but i feel like i cant go bhind my dad and what he says...what should i do? please help me!! thanx!
Almost the exact same situation happened to someone that I know. Stacey* and John* really liked each other. but someone wrote a letter to the parents of the stacey telling her all of these bad things about john, which were all fake or exaggerated. Her dad wouldnt let her ever go out with the guy. So what me and a couple of my friends got together and did is we wrote a letter saying all of the good things about john and sent it to stacey's dad. he went on staceys side after seeing both sides of the agrument adn things turned out okay. just don't do anything behind your dads back.
*names have been changed
okay I have this amazing boyfriend who I know loves me very much.He has already met my mom and most of my familyand they all think he is sweet. I love having him as a boyfriend and of course I would never break up with him but I am so used to bieng hurt by guys that I am so scared that he will hurt me too. He swears that he never will but I can never be to sure of everything. I know he loves me so why am I so scared?Plz help me as soon as possible!I need it bad!!!!!
I am 13 years old and am female!!!!!
First of all, just because he says he won't jusrt you doensn't mean it won't happen. He may hurt you even though he promised you he wouldn't. But that's the risk you take in dating. Go rent HEART BREAKERS. it's a movie in which the mom tries to shelter her daughter from being hurt by love, but in the end, the daughter wants to make her mistakes with the situation at hand. Your choices are either to dump him and never date again or go for it, put yourself out there and see where this relationship can take you--- and take it from me, i'd rather be hurt than not get to play at all.
hey ummm there's this guy and i liked him and mah friend asked him if liked me 2 but that was like 2 weeks ago and now i dunno if he still likes me wat should i do??i rate!!
here's my advice to you: take it for what it's worth. you need to stop involving other peopl in the process. in the end, the relationship is about you and the boy not you, the boy and your friend. you need to get up the courage and go ask him yourself. he already knows that you like him (bc ur friend told him!)so what is there to loose!?!