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Sports, Friends, Family, Music, Helping others are all important to me. I like to do many activities, i love to write and i'm a criminal justice, human services and psychology major in college.
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E-mail: ambercrombie97@sbcglobal.net
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Location: Bowling Green, Mo
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Age: 27
Yahoo: ambercrombie2005
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Member Since: October 9, 2005
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What should you do when you have a sprained wrist? How do you get the swelling down & how long should you not move it & stuff? Any other advice that is helpful. . . (link)
First of all have you went to the ER or the doctor about it? You need to alternate between hot and cold packs and you really need to make sure you use an ace bandage on the area.


I just started a new job today in the clothing department of a superstore.

The store hasnt opened yet so we were cleaning the diplay tables for the first couple hours which was fine, but then my boss had us folding clothes onto the tables. She told me TWICE that I wasn't folding them neatly enough even though I was trying my best. I was working with two other girls and she was being harder on me than the other two and I'm not sure why. I was so stressed out about it that when I got home I wanted to throw up and I went staight to bed.

My next shift is tomorrow and I really want to impress her.

Does anyone have any advice? (link)
When you go into work tomorrow, ask your boss the proper way that she would like the shirts folded. Maybe she sees that you have potential and she's trying to make you realize that, so in turn she's being harder on you.


Mind sharing the reason behind your username? (link)
My friends started calling me ambercrombie a long time ago and it just sticks lately. I like to shop at abercrombie and my name is amber so there is the reasoning. I graduated in 1997 from high school and i use the 97 to spicen it up.


There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.

Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.

But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?

I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think? (link)
You have to be happy with yourself in order to get a guy. If you cant be happy with yourself then how are you going to be happy with another person being your boyfriend.


I'm getting a Verizon cell phone and I was wondering which phones anyone had had good experinces with. I want a picture phone and I want it to be nice looking. (link)
Look into getting a nextel phone, if it works in your area. It's great, my plan is only like $ 50 a month. The phones are cheap too and very handy, they have the direct connects and allows you to talk to anyone.


theres this kid named darron who like is always trying to hurt me because we broke up wut do i do? (link)
First and foremost you need to report it to either a family member, teacher, principal or even the local law enforcement. There is no reason for him to be harrassing you because you broke up. You do not need the negativity in your life, find something less drama filled and move on. Obviously you can move on but he's having a hard time with it. Do not go over to him alone and ask him to leave you alone, because he may hurt you and even worse this time. If you have to get an ex-parte or restraining order against him.


i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong (link)
Hun, you are too young to be thinking about having sex for your first time. You always remember your first time, so cherish the time you still have to find the right guy to give it to. Don't just find anyone that wants it and just give it up to them.


I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this? (link)
I first and foremost would go to your parents, she is 10. They need to be aware of what she is doing and they need to stop it. I would also confront her and let her know what you seen and see who taught her this and what not.


what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :) (link)
Alexis
Reese
Nevaeh
Stormy
summer



I realize that this is a question asked millions of times per day and that I normally skip over questions like these. Please don't do that here. There's this guy in one of my classes, and I like him. Since the beginning of the year, he's been emphasising the traits that we have in common. For example, I am an unuually loud and outgoing person. He has become loud and seems really confident. Plus he has style and is so cute. He's funny and makes me smile. Lately, he's been walking 1/2way to my next class with me and today his arm was around me for like a long time. I haven't really had any experience with guys, but I am in high school, and so is he. Do you think that he's being friendly, or that he likes me? Thanks for not disregarding this question, and I will rate well for genuine advice! (link)
I believe that he is crushing you but someone is going to have to make the first move and ask the other out. You should just ask him out for a soda or something after school, what will it hurt. Even by chance he's not into you like that, at least you still have a friend. But you won't know until you try.


So my boyfriend & I's 6 months is coming up and I wanted to do something special for him but I don't have any ideas. I'm not really sure if we're going anywhere, we may just stay home.. so I don't really need any ideas of WHERE to go or WHAT to do.. basically I just want to know some cute, creative, and romantic present ideas that I could give to him. Something other than the usual cologne, clothes, cd, scrapbook ((everyone suggets that)) ideas. Hopefully you all can help, THANKS! (link)
Give him a gift that will show him how much you care about him, reminding him of time spent with each other. Granted this may sound like a scrapbooking idea, but how about if you have pictures of the two of you, finding a way to put them on a computer and burning them to a disk with songs in the background that are special and dear to the both of you.


HOW SHOULD GUYS HAVE THEIR HAIR, "down there"?
1)totally shaved.
2)big, bushy and uncut.
3)cut short.
4)cut short and shaved around the legs, nutsack and a-hole.
5)doesn't matter.
u can just type the #, or tell me others. (link)
I personally believe that they should keep it trimmed because when going down on a male you dont want hair to be able to get into your mouth and they want the girls to keep it trimmed too.


I write poems about a lot of thoughts that go on in my head. I want to share them with my friends, but I know if they don't appreciate them I will feel horrible. Once my friend found my journal filled with poems and she was just like, "Hmm. Do these all mean something to you?" and she just gave the idea of my poems were crap, which I know they aren't. I guess what I am asking is what should I say to my friends to make them understand how important these are to me? (link)
I write poetry and for the longest time I was sooo afraid of what others would think of things that I write. Then this summer at our local fair they had what you call a poetry slam, which is where you get up and read three poems that are of your own writing and you get judged on them. I was so scared because this is what I'm writing and i was going to let others into knowing how I felt. Most of my work however comes from relationship issues and how i deal with that, depending on what inspires you though maybe different. But the thought is that i'm really happy that i did do that and I began to share what I write with others. I think that your friends should be able to understand this is something important to you and if they can't oh well, then find others that can. But hey if you want to email me and i'd share with you some of my poetry.


Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing? (link)
Okay, you've been dating 4 months now and you got an expensive gift for her? I think for the birthday, just some flowers and a small token of what she means to you would have been better. I mean you have only been together 4 months, so spending less money woulda been best. I could see if you'd been together for a year buying her a bigger gift but you haven't.


I just started going out with this guy that goes to my old school. And we talk on the phone sometimes and we also talk online. But i dont get to see him alot. Which kinda makes me upset cuz i really like him.This weekend i only talked to him once and it was on the phone becuase he had to tell me if we where going to a movie or not. I havent talked to him since. I dont know if im just being weird because i dont get to see him. I was suppose to go to his football game today but my mom wouldnt take me because it was like hour away so i didnt get to see him. All of our friends where online and told me that he really wanted me to come, its wasnt my fault. Should i like not make a big deal with it and just be happy when i talk to him??
ThankS for the Help (link)
Don't worry too much about not talking to him when you don't, or not seeing him when you can't. Be happy that you get to talk to him and see him when you do. If there is one thing that you need to have is trust in the relationship, because without trust, you really shouldn't be in the relationship anyway. I know that you want to be able to see him whenever possible, but you dont want to seem to pushy or needy, do you. Make memories of just being with him when you can, hope everything works out.


i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do? (link)
First, how do you feel for your friend? This is one question that you need to ask yourself. You need to sit down and explain to your friend that you only like him for a friend and that you value your friendship. Include him when you go out with your boyfriend and friends. Find a girl that he may be interested in and help him get a girlfriend. There are many things that you can do to help your friend be as happy as you are.


OK I really like this Kid... He is a cutie and I want to start hanging out with him more and stuff... like do I just wait until he askes me or what? he as been calling me and stuff but whenever he wants to hang out my parents are being gay? so what? well thanks (link)
Okay first of all you need to sit down and speak to your parents about the fact that you do like this guy. See if they can be less 'gay' as you say if he wants to come over. It's 2005, it's okay for you to ask him out, instead of waiting for him to ask you out. Just casually suggest some video games or a movie, something that you two like to do would work too. Hopefully this works for you.




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