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I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.
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inbox for you i need help i have to write an essay about this . wuts the best advice someone has given you in ur life??
Wow, if you think about this it's acutally hard because of how much things you've been told since you can remember. This is going to sound stupid but I would honestly have to say, never give up. A lot of girls have been through so-much and people just don't understand, parents sometimes do, but living in this society & school is harder then when they were in school. I would say "never give up" because if you ever gave up, think of where you would be. No where, If you gave up life wouldn't be worth it anymore, if their weren't days were you wanted to scream cry and even die, life would be to perfect, and it just doesn't make sense. I'd rather have my ups & downs and see the sides of life, then just be perfect. So in that case, never give up. :]
im a freshmen in highschool and my best friend is rele fake to me. idk what 2 do she lies to me. she has a boyfriend and she does stuff she promises to me she wouldnt. i cant stand changes and today i was home alone and thought about sucide with my dads gun. wut do i do i cant take it ne more
Honestly, It sounds like your "best friend" is a fake friend. You should be able to figure that out, on your wwn. If she lies about stuff just don't ask her questions anymore and you won't know shes lying. If you serisouly think about sucidie over a fake best friend, you need to go talk to someone professinal. Just stop being her friend, and hang out with your other friends. But if you're sucidial, you need to talk to someone professinal, I can't help you with that besides saying don't, which most people won't listen to anyways. I'd advise you to acutally go to someone, not a school couslar, most of the time they will just call your family, or not help. Keep me updated; best of luck.
i sweat bad in my arm pits.
what can i do to stoppppp??
Talk to your doctor.
Or try secret clinical deodrent first.
sending an inbox to uu
ok long story short, im in high school now & my bff treats me like shit. she calls me stuff. shes fake behind my back. she tells ppl my stuff. she messages ppl about me & our fights. she is 2 faced. always hiding texts. & just flat out fake.
ha. sounds like someone i know. (:
fuckkk her . sorry but leave her ass dudee she isn't worth your time.
ok so i have like mad mood swings all the time.. one second ill be so happy or hyper and then like a minute later ill look and feel like crap or like i haven't slept in days or ill be really mad and upset and my moods changes so quick all the time.. im 16/f does anyone no why this is or if its normal? my friends and teachers always ask me whats wrong because ill be so happy and they go to like so upset?
This isn't much advice but If it's as bad as it seems, I'd go to the doctor. Not knowing umch about this, It seems like your bi-polar, But I don't really know, Sorry!
Does anyone know where I can buy spandex other than the black and navy blue ones?
Thankssss
Depends where you live.
I'd try ebay first; Or any athletic shops
ex: dicks sporting goods, sports authorty, hibbit, most of them will ahve everything online. Or even try a volleyball website. Volleyball.com I believe?
hey im sending you an inbox i jusss wanna know how r u so good atgiving advice your only a freshmen like you have 5 pages in like 3 monthss.
Most of my advice could be answered on google, or by a doctor / mom / friend, instead of wasting time. Who cares if i'm a freshmen? I'm no different then a senior. Just shorter, smaller & younger. Their is nothing different about a freshmen & senior. Thanks for stopping by. (:
0OKK. S0O iN EiGHTT GRADE i T.P.EDD A TEACHER AND i GOT CAUGHTT, AND HE WAS A TEACHER AT MY MiDDLE SCHOOL. SO i HADDA GO TO COURT & NOW i AM iN 10TH GRADEE AND i WANNA GO ViSiT MY FAVORITE TEACHER THERE AT THAT SCHOOL BUT iM SCARED HE WiLL SAY SOMETHiNG TO MEE. iiDNN WHAT TO DO. SHE WAS MY FAV. TEACHERR NDD* HELPEDD ME WiTH EVERYTHiNGG. WHAT DO i DO ?
First off , learn how to type, Sorry but if you're in 10th grade, grow up & learn how to type a little more decent. Forget the one teacher, ingore him & walk past him. Teachers realyl aren't alloud to say anything. Just go visit the one you want to see, I'd make sure it's okay to first, then Go visit her and don't do anything to piss the one teacher off. (:
you have any good websites to order like nike shoess from ? my mom wont drive me to to the mall she said just order from the internet. thanks in advancedd.
You could try like
- any websites you know of in the mall
- ebay.com
- amazon.cm
- eastbay.com
i live in mo & im a junior in highschool . i want a job in nursing, & i need a college with a cheap pricee. can u help me?
Yeah, Nichols Career center [Their is only 34 teachers, extreamly small center.] In Jefferson City, Missouri You would go there for about a year, & it's about 9,000 dollars; Then Lincoln for about 2-4 years. You can call them & request info, which I did Wednesday & It came yesterday. Hope this was something you were looking for. Best of luck finding a great college! =]
We have been friends since we met in pre-school. We were each other's first friend. We used to hang out all the time. Even though we were so different (I was super-shy and she was more of an outspoken person) we got along better than anyone else. But in school, they put us in classes according to our last name, and we always got separated. In junior high, she started hanging out with the more popular kids, but we were still friends. But then, she stopped hanging out with me, mainly because she was so busy - played about five different sports and dance lessons and babysitting on top of that - because her parents forced her. She hasn't been over to just 'hang out' at my house in about three years. We'll be in high school next year. I've realised that I love her, but the problem is, we're both girls. Her parents are very religious; they don't mind gays, just not near them. Also, in the past few years I've changed a lot...I'm more outspoken, and I suppose you could call me 'Goth' (though I hate labels). I don't get to see her much, but all this is making my head spin. I want to tell her, but I know that if I do, there is definately a strong chance I'll never see her again, and she'll hate me. Help is appriciated.
Just be honest with her. If shes any type of a good friend, she will accept you for being , well you. Chances are she won't love you back, but at least you w ill let her know the truth. If you think she will hate you, let her. Chances are shes fake if she hates you for being anything but stright. Forget what her parents think, they can't force the girl to do anything, or how to pick her friends, or their religion, or their orentiation. It doesn't matterIf you're gay, lez, stright, bi, or anything else, forget what people have to say about you. If they hate you for you, more then likely their jealous. (: & If rumors go around highschool, let them. Just be you, & have fun no matter what. Highschool is a fun time if you get rid of labels, drama, & orentations. Best of luck; inbox me if you need more.
wut is birth control and what does it do. im only in 6th grade we found out about it friday .
Wow. It's a pill girls take if they are sexually active so they don't get pregnant; Like a guy using a condem but birth control is like 99.7% sure you won't get pregnant. Google would of worked for this.
i am going out w/ a guy who ppl make fun of him. they call him gay & make fun of him, they make fun of me now . they dont no the truth . he isnt gay he loves me and i love him. im sick of ppls shit . should i break up with him ??
your the best on this sitee
I have like four words to say to you first off.
FUCK WHAT PEOPLE SAY.
Sorry to be so all-up-in-it, but forget people half of those people are jealous, or fake.
If you love him, stay with him. If you don't & your confused & worried about what fake immature jealous people have to say, leave him. You might regret it later on though.
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heyy do yuuu know anyyyyy sunless tanner lotionn things i can buyy without turning orangee ? i rate highhh . :]]
Jergans works the best from what I hear, but I don't use any So I acutally wouldn't know the best. If you're fair light skined, just use a bronzer at a tanning bed. It works after about five times.
i took my boyfriends phone when he was over becuss he had to hlp my dad . i went to his texts [im nosey] & i saw an inbox that said ily2 i cant wait till we go out from my best friend. wtf do i dooo ? !
Tell your boyfriend you went through his phone & saw texts, or go up to your best friend first & ask her what's going on. Or call them three way; It's okay to know w hat's going on with your best friend and boyfriend. Best of luck.
omgg . im in 8th grade & im goin to highschool next year and year my friends r going but im kinda slower then them and we've been bffs since 6th grade and everythign is gonna change everyone is gonna turn diff. & fake and its just gonna sucks. im going from a one floor school to almost 4 and im scared shitless about the older kids . im jus sad about going there and losing EVERYONE because people have to change ....
i love your advice. i wish i went to ur skool but i dont live in missouri
Aww, going from middle school to highschool isn't as bad as it seems. Your highschool seems big, but just bring your scedual with you about a week before school, and go look for different ways to get to classes on your first day. & by the way, teachers don't get mad if you're late, the fist few days. For the friends part- People come & people go. You will meet SO many new friends. (: Just keep the old ones. The close ones stay, the fakes leave. People do change, I'm not going to lie, you probably will to, but it's alright. The older kids don't mess with you , at all. The worst thing I was called was fresh-shit, with a bunch of girls & it isn't bad. Everyone is busy with their own stuff & then after the first week they could care less about you. Thanks, I try. [ ♥ ]
life sucks for me
& jus seems so great for her.
wtfff ? i`m like a raggatidy ann girl living in barbies world.
I don't know what you need advice on? It wasn't a problem. Life is everything sometimes, You control it. Don't think you live in that kind of world & that's a quote, so personally I don't think you would of thought about that without seeing that quote. Since you didn't give me your acutal problem and what your problem is I can't help you out. Life is what you make it. [ ♥ ]
hey i have aim 6.5 and my friend has hers as colors when she gets ims & when she signs on its green and block . how can i do mine like that ? ------lizzie
Yeah, When you sign on theirs four boxes that says ; aim , edit , view , and help , then this small color wheel ; you click that and about 10 colors drop down to pick from. [ ♥ ]
i use to cut myself in 8th grade [im in 9th now] and life was just wonderful until 2nd sem. started at school ; i want to cut again but i dont wanna hear the rumors or be called an emo or something stupid. what can i do & who can i talk 2 about my lifee instead of cutting again ? the things wrong simply r my life friends teachers school sports grades drama sadness weight i want a boyfriend i feel like im not good at ne thing all the sudden and im always tired and sleepy even after sleeping 12 to 13 hours at night.
First off thank you for not hurting yourself, Even if you think no one is their to listen, I am. Wether you know me or not, I'll listen & help the best I can. I use to cut in middle school but I stopped in high-school to, But recently my life hasn't been the best either. First off screw what people have to say, rumors come & go. I know many people at school that cut and try and stay secretive about it, but it's hard to hide.
Instead of cutting, since it's warm, try going outside and kicking a ball, or throwing a rock agaisnt more rocks, or in water. I know people who take warm baths or showers for a while & cool off about life sometimes. WRITING about [secertave] works the best. Try to write a small book or poem or even quote[s]. Screaming in a pillow, Go shopping if you have money. Whatever is bothering you, stay away from, If it's family hang out at a friends house, If it's friends don't text, don't get on instant messaging, facebook or myspace & just chill around the house, If it's both, go for a long bike ride or even run. You can even try to talk to your counlser but I doubt that works, mine isn't worth crap.
Friends- whoever is bothering you- ingore them for a few hours, & see how hard it is without talking to a best/close friend.
annoying- do the same thing as above, don't be rude, it really hurts deep down.
being fake- it's highschool, move on, it happens.
family- go to a cousins house or a best friends house or even outside to get away from it all.
teachers- FORGET the teachers who treat you like shit or don't care, it's highschool once again, they could care less about your personal life; & you only have about a month left, tops. act like you're fine, be youself & be loud; be notied by them. If they have a problem; get at em'.
school- the only thing I can tell you here, is try & even though it's warm outside, do your homework first! Highschool is important to pass, if you'lre doing bad in the subject, ask the teacher to stay after school; most will. If teh teacher won't stay after school; go for tutoring.
sports- I don't get what your saying here. Everyone is good at a sport, serisouly. Try everything & practice, it takes time & effort if you didn't start when you were four years old. But in order to stay on your highschool team, you can't flunk your classes.
grades- Just read what I told you for school; I got it their.
Drama- Welll... Drama, walk away from it. If you're involed, stay away from those friends for a while and DON'T PICK SIDES. talk to both; & Don't tell each other what the other one has to say.
sadness- I don't know, Wouldn't you be sad from what I said above? If your sucidal I can't help you besides go talk to someone professinal; not your cousler.
weight- Oh i'm so sick of hearing about weight. If you think you're fat, your most likely not until your 43854 pounds & 4'2, drinkk wather, workout, eat healthy, run, & eat 6 small meals, not 3 large ones.
boyfriends- You don't need a boyfriend, you want to talk about drama? It's hgihscool and your a freashmen, you aren't going to marry the guy you meet in 9th grade. Just enjoy being a kid.
being good at something; you are always gooda t something, you just have to find it. Their are so many things out their to pick from; from being running fast to babysitting, you are good at at least one thing.
Tired all the time; take vitamins & drink more water; take naps when you get home from school & talk to your doctor about being tired all the time, that could have nothing to do with your problem.
Hope I helped; Best of luck. You can reply back If you need more. ! [ ♥ ]