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Q: ok, tell me Honestly if my body sounds perportiond because some one told me i wasnt and i guess I kind of got parinoyed about it, here goes. I weigh 110 pounds im 5'6'' i think around there i have a pretty slim body type and a B cup(if that helps). and i odnt think i look fat but idk if thats a good weight to be at with my height. any help would be apreciated. But please, no rude coments

You are the perfect weight for your height you are actually better then ur supposed to be! Wow thats great. Keep it up and tell that friend that he/she is wrong! Hope i helped!

Q: I want to ask my guyfriend out because I really like him & there are so many signs he likes me. However, he really likes this other girl & she knows that. What should I do?

Well, if u really like this guy don't you want him to be happy wit this other girl? If you don't then i would go for him and flirt. Ask him strait out and say dou like this other girl or me? Well i hope i helped and i hope it works out for you!

Q: 16/f... I have been shaving my pubic area for a while now, but I can never seem to shave the hair near like the second hole (which would be your butt hole) does anyone have any tips or tricks on how I can shave that region because I can barely see it and don't want to cut myself. Thank you so much! I rate.
**Katie**

Put a mirror in the shower so you can see what you are doing so u don't cut yourself! Or just wax there so then u don't have to shave! Well i hope i helped and i hope the shaving goes well!

Q: I used to cut but I've stopped since January. Now I've been thinking about a lot again, and itching a lot. Last night I actually did cut. In a way I want to cut, but then I don't want to get into all of it again, it's crazy. What do I do? And don't be an idiot, please take this seriously.

I think that you really need to stop because y do u want to do that to yourself again? Y don't you try something else when u get the erge to do that.For example, paint your nails or read a book or start eating, anything that has to do with your hands and fingers so you can't cut! Well i hope i helped a little! And be safe plz!

Q: Alright so i have been going through alot lately..and I was a lil upset so i felt like sneeking out and going for a walk.. well my friend said he would go with me.. so at 1 we snuck out.. I thought I might ad in that I have always liked my friend but i know we will probly only ever be friends. well when we was walken.. and just talken.. my mom pulls up.. and gets really mad.. and emberisses me infront of him. so Yeah i was caught.. Well I told my mom not to talk to me.. cause I was really upset. So today if I want to do anything im probly going to have to talk to her about it. What do I say?

Tell your Mom the truth tell her why u snuck out and say that u just needed some time to be alone and well that was the only way you could think of! Also, apologize and say sorry! Even if you dont want to! Hope i helped! Tell me how it goes good luck!

Q: my friends ken and sarah really like each other. they just started dating yesterday. the problem is, she lives an hour away from our town. they both love each other so much, but she is having a few doubts about the long distance relationship. i think LDR's are hard and don't usually work out, but i think these two can pull it off with their love. what do you think they should do? if you need more info, please tell and i will give it.

-me

i think that if they put there hearts to it they can do it. But, if all of a sudden they stop calling each other or something else hapens, it probably won't go so well. Well i hope i helped! and i hope they stay together!

Q: ok this is kinda weird! My BFFs little brother has beem doing some gross things like making my little sister suck on his dick! And the other day he was snapping my bra! Are famalies are like best friends and My parents and their parents know but it feels so weird even to talk to my friend's little bro. II want things to go back to normal but I neeeed help on deciding wut to do!

Ok wat the heck is that Lil bro doing i mean come on! I hope you didn't let her... Ok you need to tell someone wat is happening so that little perv. can get some groundedness!LOL Anyway, i wouldn't let anyone go near him or anything! Well i hope your safe and I hope i helped!

Q: *13 f*

i'm goin out with this guy n i like him alot...but i keep thinkin...is he goin out with me cuz he really likes me or is he jus goin out with me cuz hes desperate for a g/f? wut should i do to know if he really likes me or not? HELP!

Well, u have to ask yourself.... does he look at me and smile or does he talk to me! This means that he likes you if he is showing those types of signs. But if he doesn't look at you or really talk to you he probably doesn't like you! Im not trying to make you feel bad but i think you should confront him on it! Hope i helped!

Q: Hey everyone.. i need names for my older sister she's pregnant again and she wanted some different names that are forgein or just something unique.. well we liked the name Nevaeh which spells Heaven backwards but she dont know anymore names and we also would like middle names and we need both boys and girls names.. so please help ill rate high thanks in advance...

Amina, Paige, Lola, Jacqlynn, Jessylynn, Raven, Franchesco, Dominique(Domino), Otto, and i can't think of anymore but, I hope i helped!

Q: ok well i have this problem, I will shave my armpits in the morning or at night and either that night or the next day they will be gross again. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!

Just shave again in the morning or whenever you have hair there! It's no big deal i mean as long as its not noticable! Hope i helped!

Q: okay im 12 years old and last year i loved this guy but he didnt like me.. i saw him the other night for the first time in a year and i was introduced to his friend (guy) that was with him. he friend thinks im hot, funny, nice and wants to hook up with me at the movies. i have never had a bf or anything and i dont know how to tell my mom that i do and i dont wanna tell her at all. should i just see how the first few dates go? and what do i do when i have to call my parents to pick me up after the date? they will know that i have a bf!!!!

please help me

I think that you should tell your parents even though you don't want to! I mean cuz like you said wat if you need to get picked up? That would suck lol. Or you could tell your mom he is just your friend so then you could go to the movies and not have to lie. But i thik that you should talk to your mom about having a bf. But yea i htink that you should definitely go on a date with this guy! Hope i helped!

Q: Oh so my friend cuts..but she hasnt in like 2 weeks. i knew about it since she started (shes been doing it for like 1 and a half months). so today this morning she told our other 2 friends, she didnt tell them before cuz she didnt want them to get mad. my friend (the cutter)told my other 2 friends NOT to tell anyone like a teacher or any body. but 1 did it anyway. and now my friend (the cutter) is all mad at the 1 girl who told. i dont know what to do. so what should i do. ive been supporting my friend (the cutter one) through all this. but what else should or can i do?

Well the question is do u like to see your friend cutting herself? If you do i guess you don't want to do anyhting about it. But if you don't liike your friend doing this then don't get mad at the other friend who told the teacher because your (cutter) friend needs help so she doesn't cheat death anymore! Hope i helped and keep ur friend safe!

Q: well there is this boy that lives up the street from me and i like him alot and i really want to get to know him... but i am not sure how tho... i want to meet him and get to really know him becuz he seems real nice and cool but i dont want to be obviouse that i am in to him. please help me!!

Just go out one day and see if he is outside then just ask him questions like "hey wat sport do u like or wat food do like" Just ask him questions like that to get to know him, then mabye eventually he will like you and you can date him!

Q: Ok this might sound bad, but I want everyone to think about it. I want to become anorexic, and it's not because I want to be skinny. I'm already pretty thin. The problem is my cheeks(yes face cheeks). They are chubby and not cute at all. I think not eating would make them thinner right? I'm not going to make it a big thing and not eat until I die. Once they get thin ill eat regularly again. Theres no other ways to lose weight in your cheeks right? I mean I know it sounds really dumb to do that but I'm kind of desperate here. Is it that bad? Do you think I can get really sick? Will it work if I become anorexic?

No it won't work if you become anorexic! If you try this it will just make you look extremely thin and it will look like you are sucking in your cheecks all the time! Do not do this you can get extremely sick! For example, when you start to not eat your body's going to get used to this and you'll probably throw up! Then when you want to start eating again it's not going to be like o im just going to eat it'll be like my body can't handle this! You probably will throw up when this happens too! My advice do not do this you will completely ruin your body! Hope i helped!

Q: I need help on asking a guy to come and watch a movie with me...i don't know how please help!!
I don't wanna look like a doofus.....lol:)

Well first of all are u and this guy friends? If you are then say hey i was just wondering if you want to come over and watcha movie at my place? If your not friends then start talking to him and until you guys are comfortable with each other then you can ask him to come over and watch a movie! Hope i helped!

Q: Hi guyz, i was just wondering if it was true that if you have some kindof weird shape mole that means you have cancer, cuz thats what my friend told me and she is really afraid cuz she says she has a weird shaped mole.

Is it true?

~Steph~

You can get cancer if the mole gets bigger or if it starts changing colors! Othe then that i think your fine!

Q: hi im Jess for some may know but when i run i get tired very easily and i get a cramp fast how can i avoid these problems thx i rate high.
Love Jess

You need to train your body by runing a little every day so you can work it up! Hope i helped!

Q: Well, my B-day is exactly one month from now(may 21st) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of kinds of (inexpensive) guy-girl parties. I was thinkin of a kind of message thing with the clues where you have to find them and then they lead you somewhere, but i dunno. I live right next door to a school where there is a soccer/baseball/hardtop. Any suggestions? I rate HIGH! Thanks!
xoxo

Maybe you should have a sport party! Or your Clue party would be cool too! I like that idea but that's just me! Hope i helped!

Q: ok my parents rele fight alot!!!wen i try to go to bed (well atleast try)there always yelling.i've tryed to break it up and talk it out but they yell more!!wat do i do??
sighned,
janice05

Well, Janice05,
Your parents need to work it out, you don't help by getting in the middle of it trust me! Just ask if they could keep it down whille you sleep! Hope i helped!

Q: i am a 14/f and there is this boy that lives down the street from me that is a couple of years older than me and i really like him and want to get to know him better. Everytime that i am outside practicing volleyball he drives by and will wave but he never has said anything to me at all. What should i do to catch his eye? i really want to get to know him and he seems like a great guy to hang out with even if all we become is good friends. Please help me! Thanks!

I don't think you need to do anything to get him to notice you! I think that you should make the move to ask him over or something! Hope i helped!

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Hi my name is Jess, I love giging people advice and I heard about this website so I thought I would be the perfect oppurtunity! Soo if you have any question I will be more then happy to answer them!