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hey. i'm leigh. i don't even know if people get on this thing anymore haha but i just came back onto this thing after three years and realized how dumb i used to be. i've grown up a lot. i've been through some rough times but some good ones too. if there is anything i can do to help you let me know. any questions you have feel free to ask

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my boyfriend has been pressuring me to have sex with him for awhile now and since im only 13 i dont think its a good idea but i dont want him to dump me cause i really like him so i dont no wat to do

tell him your not ready. tell him that when you are youll let him know. if he gets upset then hes only attracted to you physically.

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I'm in seventh grade and i have this boyfriend and im not really sure if i like him i think i like this other guy but i dont want to take the chance cause i might still like my bf and i dont no wat to do

ive felt that same way before. give it a little more time and see how things go with your boyfriend. and then if you dont have as strong of feelings for hiim than break up with him.

hope i helped.

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ok i really like this guy at my school and i dont no if he likes me or not how do i find out?

plain and simple ask him who he likes and if he wont tell you then its probably you

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Where do babies come from??

wow this is so not a serious question

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ok i really really like this guy and my bestfriend really likes him 2 and dont know wat 2 do

ok you probbly like him more. so go places with him and not your friend and like flirt with him alot and tellyour friend how yu feel and tell her that you kinda want to go out with him reallt bad. haha this isa gay answer but then she might understand.

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me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago and i still really like him and i want to get back together but he dont think he likes me anymore so should i give up on him??

well no offense but you gotta move on. i mean flirt with him and stuff and see what happens but dont get caught up. you'll finda guy thats better eventually.

-LEiGH

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ok hi leigh i like this guy but he is rele rele weird but hes sooo sweet nd he likes me but im scared to go out with him bcz hes planing on asking meout but like i dont wanna say no bcz i ke him nd i dont wanna say yes bcz of my friends and my rep. soo idk wht doi do?

if you like him it shouldnt matter what your friends think. i would go out with him. in time your friends will realize that hes a great guyand forget about the fact that hes a nerd.

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okay im 13 and i go to scl we met at a mixer once and there is this guy and we started hanging out at the begining of my 7th grade year and we became really close but he fell in love with this other girl but i fell in love with him but he doesnt love me and we probally wont even hang out over the summer but i think about him all the time and i dont no wat to do because i think i might really love him

ok well if yu like him as much as i think you do then call him over the summer. plan something with him and some other friends. flirt with him. spend extra time getting ready and he'll notice it. when he looks at yu and ur friends whisper in your friends ear look at him and do a cut elittle laugh. he'll get all shy and thts adorable. eventaully he'll flirt back and like things should go from there. if yu have any other questions i.m me and ill probably be able to help more..
LOVE-
ME

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ok so me n my boyfriendstarted going out like a week ago n tht night we started goingout was awesome we had so much fun together n now ever since then we never see each other over the weekend but we do talk on the phone. i feel horrble we never spend time with each other n we always promise well do stuff but we always end up too busy. idk wht to do should we just break the whole thing off? or stick it out for awhile to c how everything goes?

im pretty confused... please help!!

stick out out. deff. things are really busy towards the end of the school year so once summer like gets going then youll have more time for eachother. youll be able to do stuff during the week because during school everything has to be done on weekends.

hope i sorta helped.

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alright so i've been going out with this guy for the whole school year and we r really close and stuff now and we dont do anything like bad, trust me im not a slut at all, and my friends are being really retarted now and keep talking behind my back abotu me being obsessed with him and saying hes my whole life, and at first when i found out i was pissed but then i just blew it off and now i dk wat to do. and i only have one good frend now tht is K.M.

if you really like him then it shouldnt matter what your friends say. theyre probably just jealous. dont worry about it. if theyre your friends they shouldnt care. your not obssessed your just in love. and dont blow it off confront them and expalin to them that you get mad when you hear they talk about you. tell them that hes your boyfriend and they shouldnt care what you 2 do together.

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ok well hi leigh umm ok i no your just gonna say be confirable in your skin but im not nd im sooooooo fucking over weight and you wudnt even believe it and like i wud play alot of sports and play slect but im not good at ne thing nd all my friends are less than 100 nd i feel soo unconfirtable wen like some one is gonna have a pool party nd im like wlel i dont wanna go nd they are all like come come on go
nd idk but i mena i eat salads all the time but i just dont knwo who to lose alot of wieght so plz help me

trust me hardly any of our friends are less than 100 theres like 5 girls in our grade that are. i cant tell you how to lose weight cause honestly ive never done it in a healthy way. i mean im 93 pounds right now cause of my eating habits and im like rle underweight for my age. but lately ive been eating like alotta healthy stuff. wen im hungry i eat fruit. it has alotta water so its good for your skin and its really filling. control your portions. if something has alotta calories then split it in half. thats what i do and i used to weigh 104 so i lost alot of weight by that kind of stuff. tell me how it goes.

Love,
Me

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okay well the other day i shaved down in the girl spot ((vagina)).
i shaved it 4 a reason bu not onna say why..
well like every since i did shave it it like really startes to hurt no where..and im just wondering did i cut it open on accident like i would on my legs..and ugh it just smetimes hurts really badd

well honestly i cant help you with that. you might need to tell your mom about it and have her take you to the doctor if it contineus to hurt

sorry i couldnt help more

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hey i got asked to this school picnic at my school by this guy and i also promised my best friond i would hang out with her and i also promised my other friend id hang with her 2 can i help me have enough time to spend with all of them

ok well at a school picnic your obviously not going to be around the same people the whole time so just like go on a ride with the guy that asked you and then tell him that your going to go on a ride with your friends next he'll understand and like if you can fit 3 people in the thing then go with him and one of your other friends.

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ok ummm well hi leigh i guess it is ok well i love your colomn is really good and i have a question mmk well i had my period like april 28th and i got it again on friday is that like normal at all because i noramlly i have it the 1st week or the very last week of a month like idl but im kinda worried but idk wht about so plz help me thanks alot.

its fine i mean the last full week is this week so ur just a little early. having it early is better than not having it at all.

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Whats the difference between anorexia and bulimia?

arent they technically the same thing because either way you aren't getting food into you system?

and which one would cause the worst effects to your body?

ok first of all. being anorexic is where yu never eat and like yur afraid of getting fator gaining any kind of weight. and it is wayyyyyyyyyy worse than being bulemic. bulemia is where you throw your food up because the taste of it makes you feel fat. it can make your teeth brown. eww. but anorexia is way worse.

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ok well im a 13 and im in 7-1. so heres my question-
ok well i really like this guy in my neighborhood hes really nice sweet funny and hoott (lol) and we flirt alot but some days i feel like he's just messing around wen he flirts and sum days i think he likes me. in his pro it always says sumthing like im in luv w/ this girl and (i kno this will sound stupid) i really wunt to no if its me hes tlking about. ugh plzzzzz help me idk wut to do!!!!!

the easiest thing to do would be to ask him.

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ok so theres this thing called the spirit fest and like im going and i dont know wat to where cause its going to be hot and i have these dark green bermuda shorts but i dont know wat kinda top i should wear... like a cami or a short sleeve? any suggestions?

i think like a brown tank top would look really cute with like maybe bronze colored flip flops. hmm thats what i would put with it. or maybe like a light pink lacy tank top ive done that before with these like khaki green cargo capris and it looked really cute but i dont know thats up to you. hope i sort of helped.

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ok well there's like this guy. and i liked him ever since we met like bcz at first he liked this one girl but then he liked me and like we've been in lOVE for 2 years? i dont rle know but ok he started moving on after i broke up with him. and i NEVER got over him and i have been trying so harrd but i dont know what to do bcz some of my other friends like him too. and i dont wanna tell people i like him bcz im trying to get over him. so any advice?

if they start talking about him when your around go do something else or cahnge the subject. its really hard to get over people. i would know but eventually you do. you move on. you make new friends and yu have new boyfriends. i know you dont want other people to like him but chances are he doesnt like them. he probably still likes you. sorry that i really couldnt help. but i odnt know what to do other than tell you that you will eventually get over him.
i know your strong. dont break down now. =)

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im 13 and i have hair around my vagina. is that normal? and am i supposed to shave it?

ok first off...its normal. every girl will get it at some point in her life. its your decision to shave it or not. i mean its not really a big deal but if your really self-concious then yeah go ahead.

sorry i couldnt help more.

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hey !!!!!!i totally need help theres this guy who all the girls in my class just met that ive known scence last summer and they r all over him and he doesnt have anytime to spend with me anymore its like im a shadow compared the other girls......what should i do

well yu knew him first so you know more about him. so when yu and all the other girls are around and like everybody is laughing tell a funny story that happened between just you and him. all the girls will get rle jealous. then just ahng out with him more like call him after school every once in a while and be like i just rle wanted to talk to yu. he'll think its cute. do yu like wanna go out with him? if you do then flirt with him big time! chances are he likes you back.

-LEiGH

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