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My name is Stephanie, I am still trying to figure myself out.
I am not a very simple person. I confuse myself. I love people. I love making and having friends. I adore my family. I hate missing family functions. As much as I like people, I am not very good with them. I am overly-critical, overly-sensitive, overly-serious and overly-suspisious in most situations. I don't trust people. I over-react, though my intentions are good, things always turn out bad. When I realize I have done something wrong, I don't sleep until I have fixed it, or at least said i'm sorry. My best friend is Renata. She used to live here, but she moved to NC last summer. I think I am misunderstood, and that people who DON'T know me, have their idea of what/who I am, and are wrong. I am fairly emotional and sometimes I think I am smiling, but I am really not. I love school. Well, at least the social aspect of it. I don't care much for the learning. It used to come easy. I struggle a bit now. Highschool is overwealming, tiring, and dissapointing, but at the same time I love it. I love the season of Winter. But my favorite month is September. September is beautful.
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okay. to start off, i'm a 15/f freshman in highschool. i have 2 best friends, we'll call them l and p... basically we're like a little group that does everything together and is never separated. i've been friends with p since like kindergarden and with l since about 4th grade. then in middle school we kinda distinguised ourselves as a little group. like you know how people make up a little name like car and say their names are carrie, ashley and rebecca or something... yeah that's what my friends and i made up with our names. so that's our little thing but anyway that's not the point...
the point is that now that we've started highschool, my friend p has started to, change? i mean obviously people are gonna change...idk. ok. me and l are pretty shy. p is shy too but not as much as us. p is doing sports all seasons and has made friends through that. l and i aren't doing any sports or clubs right now. well like i wanna do volleyball in the fall but that would be sophomore year... so yeah, i know i should do something but i think it's too late...
from thursday to tuesday, p went on a trip to florida with her band classes & like the marching band. l and i didn't go. (we don't do band) ok so anyway, basically every day she was texting and calling me. at first i didn't mind, but then l brought it up to me that she didn't text or call her at all. l was getting mad and talking soo much about p behind her back, i kinda just went along with it b/c i know if i was l i would feel the same way. k so at first i didn't mind hearing from p, but then she started becoming a little...idk, conceited? she was saying how she was hanging out with 11 guys, and some girls..including one guy who i kinda like, and of course she now has a crush on.
p finally texted l back after a while, and l had said something like, are you too cool now or did you fall off the face of the earth? (because she didnt hear from her) and p texted back like, yeah i am too cool now im hanging out with 11 guys hahaha jk. obviously a part of her wasn't kidding though.
and then like l gets all pissed and like i feel the same way but i know if i was in p's position i would probably be really ecstatic too. i really don't know what my question is but like, what should i do? i always get stuck in the middle of these things, and l always has to say something behind p's back whenever p does something she doesnt like. i understand l sometimes but most of the time i really don\'t wanna hear her talking about her. so what should i do? we're fine now in school and everything but i'm just sick of this.
plus i've know them forever and my shyness doesn't help. they are my only 2 friends i can be my true self around. i know i need to make new friends but. i wish i could start over freshman year =\ ok so i guess my question is, what should i do about my friends? should i say something to them about this? and also how can i break out of my shyness? thank you so much if you read all of this. i'm soo sorry about the length.
wow I can totally relate to you.
I am a freshman too and in 7th grade, I was really shy. I'm not sure really how I was able to change, but I became friends with someone very unusual from what I was used to. she was crazy and fun and you know what? She rubbed off on me and I became more of an outgoing person! So maybe you need to reach out to some new people. As far as your friend talking to you, and not your other friend, that is just her personal choice. Maybe she finds you easier to talk to. And of course you should say something to them. Friends need to talk, and you can't keep your feeling bottled up. But as far as the friend doing different activities thing, maybe you are just groing apart and are developing seperate interests. Hope I helped.
xo.Stephanie
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Am I a Fucknig Loser because I Love Allison but she doesn't like my but she basically LOVES my bestestestestest Friend
Dear Kenneth,
You are not a loser. Trust me. Remember, I wanted to marry you and I had never even met you? That just goes to show what a kick ass person you CAN be if your not being a depressed freak. This girl is NOT worth your time if she doesn't want to give you the chance. So take the chance, make sure she knows how you feel. If she likes you, she'll give you the chance. But, sometimes people DON'T like people, and that would suck, but it could happen. So you need to let her go, and move on to someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Hope I helped!
xo. Stephanie
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Lately i've been really ill and i know it's not just a commen cold.
- Feeling dizzy
- Sore throat
- Headaches
- Sneezing
- Tired
- Confused
I just feel really bad. Does anyone know what this is??
Perhaps you could be suffering from Seasonal Affective disorder, also known as winter depression. SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) is a type of winter depression that affects about half a million people every winter between September and April, but mostly during December, January and February. Outdoor light can really help a lot. So try and get out whenever the sun is around. And don't feel alone, I too suffer from SAD. Hope I helped!
xo.Stephanie
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i really like this kid. hes so nice and cares alot about me. i care alot about him 2. but its wierd. hes my best friend and has been my best friend since 5th grade. i guess he likes me tho since he told a friend of mine. i would usully jus go out wit sum1 but its different. were so close. i dont want to mess up our friendship. and besides that we go to diferent schools and hes moving across the state in a few months. but its so difficult. i really like him. like, i always hope its him calling when my phone rings and i always think about him at any chance i get.
what should i do???
I honestly think you should give it a chance if you are both 100% sure you want to.
There is no harm in that. Just promise eachother that if it isn't working out, you both have to be completely honesty and DONT let it ruin your friendship.
Good luck.
xo. Stephanie
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so i'm looking for fun things to do with my boyfriend. no sex or oral because were not ready for that yet. are there any really fun make out positions? i think just stradling would be really fun but does the guy really enjoy that? i dunno if all the grinding on his u kno what would be good for him when clothes are actually on. haha you know?
let me know what you think. the more responses and ideas the better!
thanks
two words.
pop rocks.
=)
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