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Age: 15
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My boyfriend of 3 years and I have been having some problems before but it has gone way too far. I don't know what to do anymore because I love him but I found out that our whole relationship has been based on a lie. I was suspicious of him one day and checked him one email and found pictures of girls in their bra and panties and bathing suits that he had been talking to. He had a wouldyouhitthis.com account when we first started dating and promised to close it. All this time I thought it was closed and I tried to get over the whole email thing. But today I just found that he has had his account open since at least July 24,2008 and has been flirting, looking at, and talking to these girls on the sex site. I don't know what to do anymore. He lied to me this whole time and told me his account was closed except he randomly opened it before christmas but then closed it. He lied, he didn't open it around christmas, he had it open since at least July 24,2008. Two days before my birthday... what a great present and I didn't even know it. He has been talking to girls still too. He said he was done after that sex site thing but then started talking to a 14 year old girl. He's 25 years old. Am I wrong for thinking that's disgusting and wrong? He was calling her hot and asking her if she would date him regardless of his age and asked her what panties she was wearing. What should I do? Nothing will change will it? Should I just move on? (link)
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Good grief! He's a jerk!! (No offense) If I were you I'd dump him. I mean that is wrong. I know breaking up with him will be hard but it'd be worth it in the long run. That is not a healthy relationship. You deserve someone that will treat you better and not do things like that. If you choose to stay with him, no things wont change. If it was going to change it would have already but instead he lied to you about that. You should do your best to move on. But make sure, if you decide to move on, your best friend is ready to do her best to cheer you up. You'll for sure need it. Ending a 3 year relationship would be the most toughest thing you'll do. I'm sorry and hope things get better for you. :(
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I'm a 16-year-old girl, and I can't seem to stay in any relationship. Every time I like someone and end up going out with them, I just suddenly don't like them anymore, and break up with them. What's my problem? It's not just that I like the chase, because I don't. I honestly don't do much chasing (I'm a big flirt, with everyone, whether I like them or not, but that's it). It's not likely that I like attractive people but realize I don't like their personality. Personality is one of the major reasons I would have a crush on someone. Is it just that I'm not ready for a relationship but not willing to admit that? (It's not a great thing for a 16-year-old girl to admit today). I feel so confused, because I legitamately like guys, but can't stand being in a relationship with them. Can anyone explain this? (link)
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This could be because they're just a small crush and after a certain period of time is goes way. Or you liked just a guy for his looks and you're taste in looks changed. Maybe the guys personality wasn't what you were looking for. Try and get to know a guy you like more before you date him. See if he is right for you and you like his personality not just his looks. A good relationship shouldn't be based on looks in my oppinion.
(i'm a year younger than you so if you don't agree with this i'd understand. Goodluck!)
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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Just depends on what type of girl she is. If she is one of those people who doesn't want to feel selfish and likes to take responsiblity, like me, then she may not like you paying for stuff. Sometimes in some girls, if you pay for something for them, it makes them feel selfish in a way or bad because you're having to spend money on them instead of on something else that you may need.
Hope this helped you some. Goodluck!
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Ok my friend katie likes my boyfriend when we were going out. and then we broke up and she didnt even wait 1 week to go out with him. should i tell her off or just suffer? (link)
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Don't tell her off. No matter how much you want to. It'd be immature and you could lose her as a friend and it wouldn't be worth it. And i'm not saying it wasn't wrong for her to do that, cause it was. But if you dont want to lose a friend i'd keep what you have to say in. Try writing a note to her and say whatever you feel like saying to her face and tell her off but rip the note up when you're done. It will make you feel a little better about things.
Plus, you aren't hurting anyone.
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I really like this guy at school and so I got my friend to ask him out for me today because I'm way too shy to make the first move. He actually told my friend that he wouldn't date me because I look like Isabelle Karo or whatever. I don't know who this chick is and neither does my friend but, obviously, she must not be very pretty or something. Can somebody tell me about her or show me a picture so I know what I can change to make him think I'm hot? I don't want to search Google or whatever and get confused with different people. Whoever this girl is I guess she must be famous since she thought my friend would know here. There isn't any Isabelle in my school that either of us know about.
Some straight info please? (link)
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Awe! I'm sooorry! The poster above me is correct. And you shouldn't have to change to get a guy to like you. If you change then you wouldn't be you. I hope things go better for you. I'm real sorry about what he said you looked like.
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im the wierd emo boy that nobody likes and i was wondering what kinda clothes i should wear to look more emo (link)
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Hmm... Well, most emo kids at my school wears skinny jeans, black shirts, converses, mohawks, or hair that is short but with long bangs hanging down on one side. Most cut themselves (in which i suggest you don't do.)
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