Im just a normal guy wanting to give people a piece of my wisdom. Feel free to ask me anything. I'd be happy to be your friend.
Gender: Male
Location: Florida
Age: 21
Yahoo: the_burnout_legend@yahoo.com
Member Since: February 28, 2011
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17/f
When I thought that things were actually getting better. They fall over, again.
Besides the fact that I'm turning 18 (my parents divorce when I'm 18) exactly a week from today, I'm on contract. What that means is, I can't miss one more day or have 3 more tardies at school or else I'm going to get kicked out of the program. So that means, even if I'm dying at home, I still have to go to school. They're no longer taking parent notes either, only doctors. The only bright side to it, heyyy, I'm not the only one. A whole of bunch the seniors are on contract as well, even some of the juniors.
I got my progress report, and I'm failing my 5 core classes. This is absolutely terrible. I'm passing classes that doesn't even matter or transfer on my transcript. What the shizz. I'm so stressed out about it, I was thinking maybe if I eat, it'll take the stress out. Nope, I have this heavy feeling on my chest that I can't get rid of.
Two more weeks until it's spring break, but I feel like whenever I think I can rest. I can't. Something else always pops up right afterwards, when is this all over?! What makes it worse?? I'm upset with my sister over this drama and argument before class, I was so angry, I missed my economics class because I couldn't stop crying. She said she wouldn't see me on my birthday until I act like a 'real sister' but honestly, I'm sorry for getting into an argument, but I'm not sorry for standing up to her because she was just putting words in my mouth. Even though I'm not even sure if she's even still mad at me, I don't know why. I'm still angry with her... It just makes me feel more angry and upset. My boyfriend is upset with me too, and I don't even know why! But I still apologized, because honestly... When everything is falling apart, I fall apart, and it's just not a pretty picture. Even when I try to hold things up, I feel like I'm getting closer and closer to falling back into depression.
It's to the fact where I thought about dying. Like, it would be so much easier. If people are so upset with me, would they be happy if I'm gone? Probably. Since they don't bother to talk to me, or just send me one word text messages. I'm not sure if I'm the one being a bitch and pushing people away... Or what. Because the way I see it, if you say something that'll piss me off, then yeah... I'll push you away, when I don't mean to. But then yet, don't say something that'll get me angry or I'll get offended by, especially where I'm standing right now. Maybe I'm just tired and I really need a rest, but where is that going to do? I'm still going to wake up having the world on my shoulders.
Help me please! There's just this huge feeling on my chest I can't get rid of! (link)
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I feel some of your pain. I too feel like everything is falling apart. Im 18 by the way. But ive realized that this may be that time of life where things begin to change dramatically. we just need to ride it out. eventually things will get better. Personally, i want to be your friend so that you wont feel completely miserable. Maybe, a second opinion on things is what you need. If you need anything just let me know.
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i like my best friend and i mean i really really like him hes my beat friend i just never told him that but hes told me so i want to tell him how i feel but before i do i have a issue im kinda on the big side im not huge but im big its never been an issuse but know i think it is today this girl asked him hey where those guys cute and he told the girl no hommo but they where fat and laughed so does that mean he has something against big people because now im second guessing myself and i dont want to get hurt (link)
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There comes a time where, when you really want to know something, you may have to risk being hurt. Ive done it plenty of times. So here's my advice. Tell him how you feel. And if things dont turn out good then he cannot accept you for who you are. However, dont worry about the worst. Be prepared for it but also be prepared to fight for what you believe in. I hope this helps and wish you good luck. If you have any problems just let me know and ill try to help you out.
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I am 16, female. This is for guys. I see this boy in the hallway alot in school and I would like to get to know him better. So, guys, would you think it was weird if a random girl came up and started talking to you? I'm thinking about writing him a note and folding it up and giving it to him in the hall. Maybe say something like "you're cute, maybe we should hang out. Here's my number, text me to find out my name." or something along those lines. Guys, would you like it if that happened to you? If not, tell me what you would like from a girl that thinks you're cute and wants to get to know you. Thanks! (link)
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I personally would rather have the girl tell me what she thinks. However i'd like to get to know her before anything else happens. Id say ease your way into it. If you need details just ask me.
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Yesterday as I was getting ready to leave the gym, I saw a note sitting on my car window. It read "Hey, saw you going into the gym as I was leaving. You are beautiful! Life is too short to miss an oppurtunity. If you are available or interested shoot me a text: (phone number). Have a great evening- (His name). " Obviously, I was/am flattered! There are 2 ways to take that though, it can either be really creepy or really nice. I am debating wether to text him or not. If I do, when should I? Wait a few days or now? Don't want to seem desperate. But also don't want him to think I'm not interested. (link)
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i agree with oliepath. you should wait abit. but keep in mind, friendship before love. Meaning gain the bond before you go into a relationship.
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Hey ,I went out with a guy and it turned out that my best friend loves him !
When we broke up .. i was sad so he asked to date him again but I said no bcz i didn't want to lose my best friend !
But that wasn't what she would do .. she told him she loves him and they're getting closer !
I asked my mom for advice she told me I should forget that boy , I don't trust he words , why should I be the one who gives up ?! (link)
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You are not giving up. Nor should you. Look, I can understand why you may feel down about it. But look at the world you have around you. There are plenty of relationship opportunities out there. You just need to be patient and observant. As for dealing with the guy, You should try to forget about it and think of other things that may make you happy until you find someone else. Hope this helps.
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19 f & hes 20 m
my boyfriend and i want to go to the movies. he told me to pick a movie and i want to see something that hes gonna wanna watch too. i was thinking just go with it but is that too girlie? does anyone have any suggestions? thanks. (link)
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To be honest, I'd go with it. Don't fret about whether its girlie or not. Its about being with each other right? Don't worry about a thing.
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We've all heard about Love and Respect in relationships and how women desire love and men need respect. Well, I've been thinking about this a lot. The man I love lives a 24 hour drive away from me, so we never see each other. We text, use instant messaging, e-mail, and we video chat over skype. I've been wondering how am I supposed to demonstrate and communicate my respect for him, and of course my love for him, when our relationship is carried out via texting and internet technology? I can say I love him and say I respect him, but how do I "show" him I respect him? (link)
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Granted, respect is best shown in person. However, if you have his mailing address you may want to try and send him something that may show your respect for him. For example, a letter or an item that may be valued by him. If that does not work, i would suggest discussing it with him to let him know that you love him enough to want to show him that respect. I'm sure you guys may work it out.
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Although happily married to a man, for 5 years, I find myself increasingly more attracted to women. How do I find out for sure without conducting an "experiment"?
thanks,
Karen (link)
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Well it could be that you are subconsciously looking at other options in your life or probably admiring other women. I think you may want to try mental scenarios. Think of how you would act with a woman you have seen and then try the same thing with your husband.
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