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I'll try my hardest to help you out.
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♥ SweetKissez

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I keep having this dream where I see my boyfriend and his friend at a bar...the whole night is very mysterious but fun. I keep having it and seing him giving me a box while at this bar. What does this mean?

Well this could be just a dream or maybe it could really mean something.
Maybe it's a sign that he will give you something.
Do you have a birthday coming up?
I honestly don't know the answer to this.
No one can really tell you exactly what this means
♥ SweetKissez

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hey, its me again, um... thisis kinda comfusing but please help i rate well!!

there's this boy Dustin, who i've like for a lil over a year.. and ppl who are his friends and mine asked if i liked Dustin but then sed they dont know y he doesn't like me, then they sed that that he likes me and is going to ask me out.. then when he didn't ask me out yesterday, they sed that he likes me but he doesnt want me to know... and then they sed again they dont knwo why he doens't like me.

I'm sooo confused, how long should i wait before i move on? how shoudl i handle this? PLEASE help

JAckie

Yeah im confused to.
It seems that the guy does like you but maybe is to shy to ask you out.
If you really want to go out with him then i suggest you talk to him about both your feelings you have towards each other and see where that goes.
If he still doesn't ask you out then just move on he's not worth it.
♥ SweetKissez

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well i was wondering is there a way to get rid of under eye bags if you know what i mean??

What works for me is cucumber pads.
They come in a little jar.
Im sure you can find them in any pharmacy.
♥ SweetKissez

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I am a tomboy and all the boys i kno dont like me. They just think i am one of them, a Boy. But i not i am a girl that likes boy things what do i do to get boys to think of me as a girl not a dude.

signed,
......

I don't know how you dress but lets start with that first.
Wear girly things like skirts, cute tops, jeans, jewelery ( earings, necklaces, rings, but not to much).
For your hair try out cute hairstyles.
You could put your hair in a cute high ponytail, clip your hair up, put your hair in a bun, or just starighten/curl your hair and leave it down.
If you don't mind you could also get your nails done or do them yourself.
If you need anymore help drop a comment in my inbox
♥ SweetKissez

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I like my friend, more than a friend, but he dose not like me the same way. We like all the same things, but he just likes me as a friend. How do I get him to like me more than a friend.

~shannen*

You can't really make him like you as more then a friend.
You can't just go and change his feelings he has towards you.
If you guys have a good friendship right now, keep it that way.
Usually when really good friends go out with each other and break up; they aren't really close anymore after the break up.
Having a friendship is better then having nothing at all.
Don't worry the right guy will come along.
♥ SweetKissez

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what product is good for scrunching hair? and when and how do i do it

Start of with washing your hair.
Dry your hair with a towel.
Throw your hair foward so your hair is hanging to the floor.
Rub mousse on your palms and comb your fingers through your hair.
Take your hand and cup it and just squeeze your hair a little bit.
Clip your hair in a bun and let it stay like that for about ten minutes.
If you need anymore help drop a comment in my inbox.
♥ SweetKissez

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This isnt a random question but I couldnt find a specific catergory. Well today i found out that somebody i went too school with in 8th grade hung herself. I didnt know her well but i cant stop thinking of her... and no offense but she also had an attitude issue and i feel really horrible because everybodys all like IMING everyone and crying and im not... i feel HORRIBle about myself.. is this wrong of me?? i mean i feel bad but what am i too do? and i selfish or something

Aww im sorry to hear about that.
No you are not selfish.
It will probably take a while for all of that to sink in.
Your just shocked right now.
When the time is right you are going to feel like crying believe me.
A few years ago when somebody died in my family I didn't cry at first but a week later that is all I did.
hang in there hun.
♥ SweetKissez

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wut product should i use for scrunching my hair? when and how do i do it too??

Start of with washing your hair.
Dry your hair with a towel.
Throw your hair foward so your hair is hanging to the floor.
Rub mousse on your palms and comb your fingers through your hair.
Take your hand and cup it and just squeeze your hair a little bit.
Clip your hair in a bun and let it stay like that for about ten minutes.
If you need anymore help drop a comment in my inbox.
♥ SweetKissez

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in my myspace about me i want the text to be on each line like a bullet. but i can only get it to be in a paragraph...help?

Put in this code: < br > (without the spaces) where ever you would like a new sentence to start.
♥ SweetKissez

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Does anybody know how to burn a CD off of Limewire and I have mediaplayer.. if that helps..

For windows media there should be a button that says "burn".
If you don't see that button then go to your music folder and press "ctrl+A" to highlight all the songs.
Right click and press "add to burn list".
The windows media player is supposed to come out and just check the songs you would like to burn.
Put in a CD and click copy/burn (which ever button you have because there are different versions of windows media player).
If you need any more help drop a comment in my inbox.
♥ SweetKissez

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ok hears the deal, im 14 and a male, and im seein this girl, shes 20. and i dono if shes cheatin on me and i cant tell i really like her and one night i had sex wit her does anyone think that thats bad?

Yes that is bad.
If any one finds out, she will get arrested.
That's not a healthy relationship if you are only 14 and she is 20.
Most likely she might be cheating on you because you are only 14.
Think about it... Do you really think this is right?
♥ SweetKissez

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ok i have places wehere i can get music but how do i put it on my xanga?? i need some sort of tutorial if there is one! thanks to anyone who helps!

You need a link.
Once you have the link, go to your look and feel and scroll down where its the music section.
Paste your link in there
If you need anymore help drop a comment in my inbox.
♥ SweetKissez

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okay so me and this guy are "together" he said... people have been asking me if were dating, but i have no clue... one of my friends asked if we were dating and he said yea... but when he talked to me he said "i see myself as your boyfriend", like whats the difference from being together, dating, going out and being boyfriend/girlfriend?? he told me theyre all technically the same, so what does he think we are then?!?! (are we bf/gf??

Well yea you two are together so that makes you boyfriend/girlfriend.
He did say himself he sees himself as your boyfriend.
♥ SweetKissez

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can some one give me some pics of destroyed jeans. ive been looking but my search hasnt been succesful. it would be sooo helpful. thanks a lot! bu bye

http://www.ae.com/AE_SectionPage.process?RestartFlow=t&Section_Id=320&Gender=Womens&CatalogFlag=FloorSet&Merchant_Id=1&Section_Title=Jeans

Check that out.
If you need anything else drop a comment in my inbox.
♥ SweetKissez

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ok so heres my problem.
my cousin,(josh)is 17 was dating this girl sarah 19...
well josh told me to start talking to sarah to see what i thought of her.
well i did. we became really good friends.
then her brother started listening in our conversations and reading our ims when we would talk.
so she told him to talk to me so he wouldnt be so nosy. so i started talking to him. he's wonderful
he's 2 years older than me and he's wonderful..
so we got together.
even though i had met his sister,i had never met him. well, it turns out i started liking him.
alot
and thinking about him, all the time.and i told him i really liked him. and he said he felt the exact same way so..
he asked me out. and of course, i said yes.
he's almost 15 and i'm almost 14.
i love him, i do. with all my heart and he says he loves me back.i told him i wouldnt let myself
fall inlove until i go to see him in june.
but, i think i already have.
he is exactly what i've always wanted. he's perfect.
i think i'm too young to think he's the one.
but i want him to be. and i think, once i'm older he will be.
i think i might be getting a promise ring when i go see him. as in.. like promise to marry him, promise ring.
because of what his sister tells me.

when ever we have a fight, he immediately says its his fault and that he's sorry.
he says that he'd rather it always be his fault
than for him to be mad at me or me to be mad at him.

am i too young to think he's the one????
pllleeeeaaasssseee help
FAST!!!!!

i'll rate 5's.

You could be any age to think the person you like is the one.
It seems to me that he's a very sweet guy who cares alot about you, and you care alot about him.
Meet him first in person and then take it from there.
I hope everything works out with you two.
♥ SweetKissez

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Why the hell do people send hate-mail to bad columnists? Saying "fuck you i hate you bitch die ur a fucking loser" does not help them turn into a better columnist, and why do you want to change them? they're cool like that. No one asks them for advice anymore, they just use that to cuss them out, and in the end they get owned by the crap columnist, so they're basically stupid.

Yea I agree with you on that one.
It is wrong to send hate mail to some other columnist.
If they don't like the advice some one gives then just ignore because other people might find it useful.
The person who sends the hate emails just proves that they have no life and they are imature.
♥ SweetKissez

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i have this really good friend, but she's way to thin. i mean, she's like 75 pounds, and we're in 9th grade. she wears xs & 0s, and can fit into kids clothes. i think this makes her less attractive, and everyone says shes anorexic. but she eats at lunch, and whenever we hang out she eats. i dont think shes bulimic(sp?) and she doesnt look sickly. i think its just genetics, but she doesnt think shes all that skinny, though she is, sometimes she'll make remarks like shes gaining weight or whatever, and the truth is she could gain about 20 pounds and still be considered very tiny. she needs to gain weight because it looks unhealthy, almost like you could break her in half, but i dont know how to help her, and i dont want to offend her. maybe its not my place to tell her she needs to gain weight? but everyone always talks about how skinny she is, and guys arent interested in her because shes like a stick. what should i do? or should i do anything?
ill rate high :)

Well if your friend eats normaly every day and she is still very skinny she probably has a fast metabolism.
Meaning when people eat it takes longer for some people for all the food to digest and it looks like they gained a few pounds compared to others who eat so much but it does now show.
As long as your friend is healthy and eating right you have nothing to worry about.
But to be on the safe side your friend should see a doctor.
♥ SweetKissez

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is there a difference between when...

*a guy and a girl hugging when they say hello

*&& a guy and a girl hugging when they say goodbye??

just wondering thanks!

Umm in my opinion i don't think there is a difference. I think it's the same thing.
♥ SweetKissez

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uhm okay this is really pissing me off could some one tell me what song this is Hes under my skin
Just gimme sumthing to get rid of him
I've got a reason to bury him alive
Another little white lie
plz hurry i rate high

Under My Skin - Alexz Johnson
♥ SweetKissez

*EDIT* It's by Alexz Johnson

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