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How do i tell my parents i have an eating disorder? i promised my best friend i would do something about it after her reading my journal and finding out. im miserable and depressed and cant stop. how do i tell them?

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You really need to talk to your parents. Tell them over dinner or when you feel that you are ready to tell them. Otherwise, if you feel uncomfortable telling them, ask your friend to tell them to. Whatever disorder you have, tell them right away so you can be cured. Please tell them soon!
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okay, i have this friend,and we're going into 7th grade,but she still acts like we're going into like,3rd! and i talked to her,but i dont know if she listened.the same problem is going on with my other friend.but worse!she plays with her food at lunch and everything!i'm the only normal one of the bunch,and i hate it,it holds me back from the "popular people" which, i know i could be apart of,if they wern't so weird,you know? help me fast so i can try it before summer ends!!!!! (link)
Your friends are probably just acting how they want to. Like, just acting like themselves you know? But, you should talk to her and tell her you feel uncomfortable around her when she acts that way!


I just wanted to let everyone know that I had been asking lots of questions about what I should do since I had broken up with my boyfriend and I wanted him back. Well, we are back together!! =) =) YaY!! Anyways, my mom doesnt understand anything about me and why I still love my boyfriend but you just cant stop loving someone so fast. She's making me go out of town for a WHOLE week and I wont be able to see or talk to him and she says its for the best when its definitly NOT! My boyfriend is so good to me and is a very nice person, why doesnt my mom like him? How can I get her to accept us and let me do what I want to do?! Thank you for answering! Sorry its so long! (link)
You should maybe have a talk to your mom and tell her no matter what shes does we will be 2gether! Just tell it strait up sister! Let your feelings out!


ok so i had anoriexia for a while and i recovered. i am at a normal weight now, and i have these 2 best friends. 1 went on a diet and is thin now and the other isnt as thin as my other friend but is very pretty and fine the way she is. so now she said started dieting and she doesnt eat alot. like..hardly anything. she always brings it up it seems like she wants attention and she always says stuff like "hey i ate something today!" she also said she is doing this to be thin like we are, and to impress us. no matter how much i talk to her and tell her how bad what she is doing is, she doesnt listen. and she alwwayyss brings it up. i am going to go crazy and idk exactly what to do.
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Your friend sound a lot like me. I have'nt been eating a lot either but when I talked to my mom, she told me how to lose weight by eating. Tell your friend that if she wants to lose wieght to only eat at the table. This will help! Trust me. If she eats at the table, she needs to look at her food and enjoy the food. That way, when shes enjoying it, she will now know when she is full and stop eating. If she eats while watching t.v. she will forget wut shes eating and just eat all her food even though she might be full. Also, tell her how you lost wieght. But, just tell her you ate very healthy food, limited your candy and staying inside all the time, giving up pop, and not eating after 7:00! This really works. If she still doesnt listen, try talking to her and yet if that dosent work, tell her parents right away. Even though she may get mad at you, you may be saving her from a #1 killing eating disorder, Anorexia!!! Help Her!!!!!!


I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think? (link)
It must be really hard to hear about him. All I can say is GOOD LUCK! You see, from what I hear he may love you still but when he moves away, kkeep keep keep keep in touch! Always call him and write to him or your relationship will never work. But just so you know, this moving thing may not work out. He might meet someone new who is closer to him. Im not trying to hurt you but just be ready for any thing that comes your way from him!


Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
I had this problem too. I think you should sit down with her to have a talk. Something might be going on in her life that she is taking all her anger out on you. When my friend did this to me, I ignored her. Then one day she asked me to come over and she was a cool again. You should just ignore her and she might calm down alittle. This could also be a lot of PMS!




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