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ok i asked this really beautiful girl. and well i asked her out on a date to the movies. but the problem is that well she is going to be the first date i went on with a girl. also its her first date too with a girl. and i wanna know how i cant stop my self from being so nervus and what can i do to make sure i dont screw up this date i really like this girl and i mean alot!

p.s. 14/f and my name is joanne (link)
Just be yourself and relax. Try to think of it as just going to the movies with a friend; somtimes the label of "date" can bring extra pressure when there need not be any. If you're afraid of "screwing up the date" you probably will, out of nervousness. Do things to take your mind off of it, like conversing about things unrelated to romance. Just get to know her and there should be less tension.


tuesday i turn 15. and i have lived with my mom since i was born. her and my dad got a divorce when i was realy little. i go to my dads every other weekend. my dad hasnt really been the kind of dad he is suppost to be. but i still love him. Well my dad lives in newnan and i love it down there all my friends are there and i have so much fun down there. My mom lives 2 hours away in lawenceville and i hate it here. We moved here a couple months ago and i have been in this new high school for 1 month now. I have no friends, everyone is stuck up and annoying there. I want to move in with my dad. Not because i love him more, but because i like it better there. my mom is always complaining that we dont have any money and i spend too much. Well i love her verrrrry much but if i tell her i want to live with my dad, she will get very upset adn like cry and all. What are some good ways i can tell her without her getting so upset? any help is wanted.


I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
Your mom should know that you love her dearly; but reminding her before you break the news is a good idea. I'd sit over dinner with her and tactfully bring up the topic of the move. If things get explosive/emotional, assure her that you aren't making your decision based on popularity, or that you love one parent more than the other. Let her know that you are doing what you feel is best for your future - that Newnan holds more opportunities for you.

Also, I'd make sure that moving in with dad is the absolute right thing to do. If you haven't spent a lot of time with your dad lately, you might think your mom is more annoying than he (complaining about the bugdet and things) but when you get to your dad's house, he might start doing the same things your mom does. It's normal for parents to do stuff like that, so you might find that the grass isn't so green over dad's house.


please answer i rate very high.... (sorry if its long) well i have a friend lets call him bob.. well me and bob have been friends for the longest time.. and hes very touchy and always smiling when hes near me.. and like once i was at this fireworks thing and he was there and he was like talking to me and like he kept hugging me and when he saw me he screamed my name and ran over to me.. and then i was saying how no one liked me and he said yea they do and i was arguing with him and i told him he cant argue with me and he said he could.. and like when i saw him he kept saying its not true and stuff like that... and one time when there was alot of snow we were like tackling each other in the snow and like rolling around in it.. and my friend was there too and shes friends with him too and he wasnt tackeling her.. and he always walks home with me.. and once we got into a fight and he like flipped out asking all my friends why i was mad at him.. and when ever i talk about things like saying wouldnt it be cool if my head exploded and he says no.. and keeps arguing with me.. and once i was like u'd be sad if i died.. and he sed i know i would..... and he told me to switch into his class as well.. does he like me as more than a frend? (hes my best guy frend) * (link)
Yes. He likes you as more than a friend, but it sounds like he's too shy to make a move. Maybe he fears ruining your friendship. Looks like the ball is in your court!


Alright, I'm a girl who just started shaving her legs...and anyways how often do you change your blade? I have no idea! O've had it for about 1 monthes..which seems REALLY long...please tell me I need riiiiiiiight away (link)
It depends on how often you shave with it and how dirty it gets. If you shave twice a week, I'd recommend replacing it every two weeks. But since you say that one month seems really long, perhaps you should change it more often, like once a week, or even after every time you shave. It can never hurt to use a fresh clean blade, but it *can* hurt to use an old dull one, so stay on the safe side, replace it often.


hi everyone, my name is steph and i have a really really big question to ask ya'll...my boyfriend dumped me at Mcdonalds at school registration...i'm only 14, but i somtimes cry myself to sleep thinking about it, the problem is...his friend is really mean to me and i think he pushed him to dump me...but still i cry about it all the time like today i was bawling....is this pathetic of me not to be over him yet....especially since it was weeks ago??? pleaze answer my sad question.....
~Steph~ (link)
The grief process is different for everyone; no one can say how long you should take to "get over" your break up. Sometimes crying it out is the best way. If you find that you feel better after crying, then that's how you mourn, and there's nothing wrong with that. If you don't feel better, and this keeps up for a really long time, you should either get help from a professional, or immerse yourself in a hobby. Do something to take your mind off of him and his jerk friend.


I want to have pizza. The question is, should I have pizza in the morning, pizza in the evening, or pizza at suppertime? Now that pizza's on a bagel, I can have pizza anytime, but I'm just not sure when to have it. Kthx. (link)
Evening.


heyy im working on a myspace layout page but the thing is im trying to put links just like this site http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=19927772&Mytoken=20050907161826 one under another (where it says general with the layouts) im working on a site http://myspace.com/double_ara_layouts and cant seem to get one under another like ill press enter put it doesnt work... (link)
You need to use the HTML code . That creates a returned line. Add one or two s after each line you want spaced.


okay so i go to upload a picture and i click upload and this pops up: There was an error:
You are not uploading a PNG, JPG, or GIF image file.
and i mean i uploaded pictures before but then my computer had to get rebooted so everything like got deleted so i dont knowif a program was deleted that i need or something..someone please help! i know i sound confusing! (link)
At the end of your picture file it should say:: .png, .jpg, or .gif. If it doesn't (like if it says .bmp) you need to change the file type. You cannot do this by simply renaming it to .jpg; you need a program that can do this like Paint Shop Pro, or Photoshop.


how do u put music on myspace? it says on there to go the bandpage and click ADD ...what is a bandpage and how can i put music on my page? (link)
Vist this website for help with music:: http://www.myspace-codes.com/myspace_music_codes.htm

And a band page is a MySpace profile of a band. It's different from a regular MySpace profile because it's in the MySpace Music section, and there is often an embedded MP3 player on the page.




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