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About me*

Name: Luly
Age:13
Maritial Status: single
Best friends: Molly, Gabby, and Hannah
Occupation: Student at SmS
Music: Rock
Movies:Scary
Colors: Pink and Black
Candy: Peanut mms
Band: Green Day
Book: Harry Potter Series
Shows: The OC, Lost, Degrassi, 7th Heaven
Grade: 8th
Pet: Dog
Siblings: 2 sisters, 1 brother
Food: anything thats tastes good haha, gabby bread wink

i love helping people. seeing that i made a difference is great. i love giving advice. i dont know if im good at it but i still like to help people out. tell my opinion on situations.

advice

Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do?

She was probably scared of u saying u loved her. Maybe she is scared to be in a relationship. Just tell her that u were only trying to be nice that u didnt mean for her to get all freaked out. hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*

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okay .. well there's this kid ivan who likes me .. well i don't like me and all his friends and like my friends are like are you two gonna go out b.c he likes you a lot .. i'm like okay but i don't like him he's just like my friend .. well ivan is always calling me non-stop .. to the point where i've told my family just not to give me the fone .. and now he calls my cell fone non-stop and leaves messages like .. on time he said he was upset and he was like i dunno .. just hearing ur voicemail and u talking made me feel better.. okay we're 14! i don't even kno what the frigg love is and i feel like he''s stalking me // he knows i don't like him and won't go out with him .. but he doesn't get the ount to stop calling and i don't know what to do .. b.c it gets me mad and aggravated .. so i need help on how to get this kid to back off

Ive been through the same exact thing. This one kid liked me and would call me 5 times a day. I had to tell him everytime that i had to go do my hw. he got soo annoying that i started being rude and mean to him. This drew him away cuz i didnt have a reason to be mad at him. i just was. Then eventually he stopped liking me. I even told him once that my mom said he was calling too much and he needed to stop calling my house. lol it worked. or just talk to him about it and tell him to leave u alone. hope i helped
sk8terbabe019**

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i went to the movies with my girlfriend and she started makin out with a chic.
what do i do?
confused

Dear Confused,

thats just not right. If she could make out w/ a chick then maybe shes going lesbian. You should talk to her about it. Maybe she was only doing it for the fun of it. But she did kinda cheat on you. because making out with a girl is the same thing as making out with a guy. hope i helped
sk8terbabe019**

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Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me.

Your boyfriend isnt really a good bf if he isnt atleast the slight worried about you. If everybody saw what u had done maybe they KNEW you were doing it for attention and didnt count it as some serious issue. Do you really feel cutting is the answer? because it isnt. not even to get attention. do u really want people to feel sorry for you? i wouldnt. i have so many friends that have cut themselves and trust me it doesnt help. does cutting yourself realy take away the pain? no it doesnt. and cutting yourself just for attention isnt good either. I think thats the reason why nobody took it seriously. becuase they knew you were only doing it for attention. Thats probably the reason why your boyfriend didnt react in the way you thought he should of. but i dont think it was right of him to just ignore you or make fun of u for it. he should of been worried. not making it into some kind of joke. maybe you should talk to him. hope i helped
*sk8terbabe019*

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I like my X, but he doesn't like me back? What do I do?? help?

Find a way to get him bak! Talk to him more. Become best friends with him because you would have a better chance if you knew him very very well. and could talk to him about anything. Cuz then you will be more comfortable around him. He liked you once, he can like you again. Plus since i know who this is...i know for a fact you have a chance w/ him haha! lol lov ya hope i helped !
Sk8terbabe019*

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OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high.

If you know you wouldnt do anything to hurt your bf maybe he should just trust you. If he does he shouldnt worry about what will happen between you and the other guys. Plus what could happen? If you love your boyfriend so much then you know you wont make out w/ anybody or anything like that. Just tell him he should trust you more and not to worry about it.
*sk8terbabe019*

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I am in love with this guy i used to be dating. him and my best friend are really tight. sumtimes i think too tight. I got dumped for her, but they never went out again. when they first were together Marie cheated on Logan. but Marie (my friend) and Logan (my X) are still very tight. I love marie to death but all she does is talk about Logan. she got dumped 3 weeks ago by her boyfriend she was with for 9 months. i know she loves him and only loves logan as a friend. but sumtimez i cant help but be jealous. Im not positive if Logan still like marie. But when i think of how hurt i was when i got dumped i cant help but blame marie too!! i feel like a bad friend that and i really want Logan back... please help me!!

You should forget about Logan, hes obviously not worth it if he just dumped you for someone else. Its not your friends fault that logan likes her. She did nothing wrong. If you think they are too tight then maybe you should tell your friend how you feel. Tell her that it makes you feel bad when they are all over each other and are real close. She will understand because she knows you like this guy. hope i helped
*sk8terbabe019*

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hey okay so i have a question. okay so i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. i was a bit drunk, he was a little drunk, and we ended up hooking up- only made out. i said to him at the time, okay so is this going to be a random hook up or are you actually going to call me and he said no im going to call you i really am. so skip some a week later he calls me and says he do you want to hang out. of course i did but i couldnt. so yah. so we have been talking and stuff but im worried he is just looking for a hook up.. and that isnt wat im looking for. we are hanging out next weekend and just watching scary movies and stuff- should i just wait till then to figure it out...? he is just so hard to read i cant tell!

Dear hes way hard to read,
You should ask this guy if hes really looking for a good long relationship or whatever you want or is he just fooling around. You should tell him how you feel because your never going to find out just by sitting there wondering. Everytime you guys hook up do you guys end up making out or anything? does he suggest you guys make out? because if he is then he just might be hanging with you to get some. If you guys actually talk and hang out them maybe he really wants to be with you. hope i helped
*sk8terbabe019*

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Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do!

I know its hard that your parents might get divorced but theres nothing really you can do. Just think your parents will be more happy once they are apart. If they are always fighting, just think you wont have to listen to their agruements and fights at night. I know it sucks but it might be for the best. Its not like you wont see any of your parents. Some of my friends have divorced parents and at first they didnt take it very well but now they have adjusted to it. They dont mind anymore going to their dads house every other weekend. Maybe it wont be as bad as you think. I hoped i helped.
*sk8terbabe019*

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hey, theres this guy at school right.. hes in 11th grade and im in 9th.. i see him like almost EVERY minute of the day, after classes...everything. and i think hes really cute. and he looks @ me sometimes, but i know hes not shy or anything, because hes obviously asked out alot of girls before, i mean hes not just gonna like come up to me and ask me out. cuz that will be kinda weird.. lol but i mean i wanna get to know him but i dont know how to TALK to him. help me !

So obviously you like this guy alot. Before you plan to go talk to him you should write down a bunch of stuff you guys could talk about. You could go up with a bunch of friends. Ask him a question and then just start a conversation. Make up something like "im from yearbook and i want u to take a survey." lol. He would probably say yes then after he takes ur "survey" then just start talking to him. Another thing you can do is act really stupid and get urself really hyper. See when i get hyper i talk to people i wouldnt normally talk to. It helps to get all hyped up. lol. Other than what i just told you...all you can really do is talk to him. Dont be scared, be THE MAN! lol. hope i helped

*sk8terbabe019

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umm ive gone through a lot of shit during my life and im startin to feel loads of stress and im totally bummed out all the time. i have lots of...umm...problems that i cant discuss so im wondering. how do i just be happy w/myself?

I dont really know what your problems are but if it has to do with guys then you shouldnt worry about it that much. Youve got your WHOLE life ahead. Theres a guy out there for you somewhere. If its family problems, then maybe you just need a friend to talk to, just to let it all out. Get a shoulder to cry on. If its friendship problems, you should talk to your friend. Try to work out the friendship. Tell them how you feel about some stuff that you think you should tell them but havent yet. I cant really help that much because i dont know your problems. Just think about all the good and great times youve had. Your life cant be as bad as u think it seems. Just be happy w/ urself no matter what. Dont put yourself down all the time. If you do then it gets worse. hope i helped.......

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