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Q: Hi i'm 14 in grade 8 and of course all women!lol anoy way there's this guy and i really like him. I talk to him somtimes and stuff but i really wana make an impression on him. I'm not really ugly i don't think lol i've been told i'm pretty but i wanna be notice by him what a good way to make an awesome impression on him?

well im a 14 year old guy, and the thing that catches my eye is definently a girl who isnt afraid to be real with me, i really dont like n e who is self absorbed cause talking about them bores me, if they can talk to me and have conversation that lasts more than 1 minute than that girl is definently the girl for me.

Q: well my boyfriend just fingered me like ALOTT!!! haha and this is gonna seem weird but when i cough or sit down my vagina like throbs or something? is this normal ive been fingered before but not this hard

im like not a girl or n e thing but im pretty sure that if something is throbbing you than u should check it out...

Q: This is kinda a long one but I really need good advice.

There are these three girls I'm friends with at my school. We were all like a group of four and basically the "popular" group if my class has one. Well at least I was really good friends with them. Maybe I'm just paranoid but it always seems like two of them talk about me. I'm pretty sure the third one doesn't because she's always really nice to just about everyone. Well me and one of them got into a fight the other day and aren't talking. She's really close with the other one I think talks about me. I'm pretty she's mad just just because her best friend is. But the thing is, she acts all nice to my face and stuff.

I have other friends to hang out with but most of them aren't in most of my classes. Going to school is hell anymore though. I have my boyfriend and that's like it. I can't really explain this dilemma to him. He knows vaguely of it and that's like it.

I know what my "friends" can do. This one girl was really popular and everyone wanted to be friends with her and they turned her into a complete loser so everyone hates her and talks about her. I don't want this to happen to me.

The girl whose mad at me is not the apologizing type and I'm not apologizing to her.

So what do I do?

I rate 5's!

Its really hard to lose a good friend, you never want it to happen but sometimes thats just the way it is, im not sayin that you will lose these friends you have, but the best thing to do is just let her be, i've had friends who talk about me behind my back and its never a good feeling, but you cant let things like that get to you, im not very old, not even in high school, and i have seen my whole life just fly past me its not worth it to be mad at friends all the time because you dont wanna look back at bad times, you dont want n e bad times at all, you shouldnt care what other people think just cause you hang out with a certain person, and what r they gonna say?"oh you see her she hangs out with that girl there, so shes not kool anymore" you dont want to be around people that are so shallow, just try to let it all go, and do what you want to do, its not always best to be popular, i think you'd wanna be in the middle cause you get to meet a bunch of different people and are friends with everyone, just dont let it get you down.

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I'm a 14 year old guy. Wow I've been through a lot of things and I'm ready to answer any question you have, i'm not perfect just like the rest of us but i try to be friends with everyone and i think im a better person for that. I'm really into music and playin my guitar helps me calm down. P.S. In Pic Im the one on the left with the girly crown. I always get the girly crown........