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My name is Alisha....I'm an outgoing,friendly,fun person and I love making new friends. Feel free to ask me any questions...I will do my best to help you out :]

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I've been hanging out with this guy for almost 2 months and we've hooked up 3 times (only made out.) The last time he asked me if i was ready to take it further (i assumed fingering?) but i said no. Its not that im not ready for it, but were not together officially and in my school im not really sure how far you can go with a guy when youre single without being called a slut. I really like this guy though, please help me!
hes almost 17 and im 15 if that makes a difference

Well i would say that doing stuff with him and not officially being with him will probably give you a bad reputation. If he really likes you then he will ask you out...tell him that you want to be "together" before you get serious. Hope I helped. If you have any more questions then just ask :] Good Luck!

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im 15 and 6 moths pregenat. The boy that got me pregenat has a girlfriend but we still talk. Were always arguing and i dont no if i should move on or try to work it out

This has happened to a lot of people I know and what I have learned from it is that you don't need a guy to help you raise your child. If ya'll are argueing already then it's probably not going to be a good relationship if ya'll get back together. If he has got another girlfriend...knowing that you are having his child then I don't think he really cares about working it out. Trust me when I say that time heals everything. Moving on is hard and i know that you want to be with him again or you wouldn't be asking for advice but moving on sounds like the best choice. I hope I helped you out...Good luck and congratulations on being a mom :]

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i really want to have sex with my boyfriend of a year....i absolutely love him but if i got pregnant it would be the end of the world...im so afraid of getting pregnant i dont think i ever wanna have sex until im married =/
what should i do?

Ok...first of all, don't do anything that you don't want to do. Sometimes you feel like you love someone...and you have sex with them...then a few months later..you and your boyfriend are broke up but you can't go back and change what you have done with him. Guys are good at talking girls into things...if he doesn't stay with you just because you won't have sex with him...then believe me he is not worth your time.

Well I hope i helped a little!
-Alisha-

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