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Over the summer I got really close with my ex and his best friend. Me and my ex were thinking about getting back together, but it never happened. My ex's best friend started having feelings for me and everytime I would talk about my ex to him or get advice from him, he would act different and get quiet. I knew he didn't like me talking about him and I knew I couldn't talk to him about my ex anymore so when he asked questions or began to talk about him I either didn't say anything or I just lied about my feelings for my ex. Was this a good thing to not hurt my ex's friend? or was it not?

Well..this is kind of a weird situation..you don't want to hurt your ex's friend but at the same time you don't want to lead him on. I think it would be best if you let him know that you still have feelings for your ex. If you don't he's just going to get lead on and will wind up being hurt in the end. Hey, who knows..maybe over time you'll feel the same as your ex's friend..but in the meantime you have to tell him so that he can move on..Hope I helped!
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What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!

okay well..first off, sit your boyfriend down and talk to him about this. Let him know that you didn't appreciate what he did to your friend. You need to let him know that your friend is important to you and that if he really likes you then her should respect that. If that doesn't work than you'll have to make the choice between your friend and your boyfriend. Sounds hard..I know, but if you value your friendship as much as you think you do, then you'll make the right choice..hope i helped!
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So I asked what I should do about my "friends" before, what happened was my friend demanded i drive her all around town to finds a party (there was a bunch of us in the car) and I go well i have to pay for gas so no, then she bitches at me for like 10 minutes then bangs my car on the sidewalk when she left, apparently she felt bad and was gonna apologize and she still hasnt! that was on halloween weekend. Ever since then my friends have been bitchy to me and ignoring me and not inviting me anywhere! I have talked to 2 of them and was like what should i do? like why am I in trouble out of this situation? Like my friends have been so evil to me, and my boyfriend feels bad and doesnt know what i should do or what he should say. I have tried to figure things out with them but like they just say (without tellin me why there mad) in time it will get better...but it hasnt its gotten worse, they defiantely did secret santa without me.. like did i basically lose my friends ? i have no clue what to do? i have 8 months til university and until then i have a boyfriend?> and a few guy friends?? help!

Well, you may not want to hear this, but you're gonna have to leave this in the past & move forward. If these people are treating you this way, then they aren't really you're friends and aren't worth the worring. And if they do indeed care about this friendship at all, they will aproach you..so in the meantime, just let it be. You didn't do anything wrong so why go out of your way to make things right?

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