Hi there!! My name is Melissa, I'm 13, and I'm a teen adviser who would like to help answer any questions that you may have about life and friends & family and thoses thing you cannot explain, such as U.F.Os
If you need advice about Anything, please feel free to ask me, or visit my friend's website at www.freewebs.com/bt4t or my own at www.freewebs.com/chikadvise, You'll receive lots of support and advice at either place,(i strongly recomend bt4t). Also, feel free to join the site. New members are always welcome.
Remeber, I am not a professional, but I will do my best to answer any of your questions.
I am currently considering a career in writing, probably journalism, Anyway, I know a lot about friends and family problems. I have had my share of friends disputes, new schools (new states) and anything else that can happen. FURTHERMORE... i really love those interesting, and kind of "out there" questions, so ask me.!!!
!!!I am only 13, so it is not like I am anywhere close to a professional, But, I can probably help.
Hope to hear from you,!!!
XOXO, Melissa
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E-mail: melpie1020@aol.com
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Location: jersey (canada is better)
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I have already searched online but I can't seem to find anything. I'm looking for a cute haircut.
I have very dark brown hair that's wavy and kind of poufy with lots of flyways. It can be straight or curly. Right now it's grown-out layers with the longest part almost to my chest.
Anything you think is cute will work, especially something kind of preppy. A pic, link, or something to tell my hairdresser will work. Thanks! (link)
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what you need to do is check out some magazines, you can get all the best looks on what stars and models have, or an idea of something.
i found this great site that shows different celebs and their FABULOUS hairstyles, by year! it has all the looks you could imagine, here try this site, you are sure to find what you want.
http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/
(just make sure you scroll down to the bottom, not the links)
XOXO melissa-bt4t
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I have this friend that i love to death but i keep alot of stuff from her. I keep stuff & lie to her sometimes because i feel that she judges me based on what i decide to do in my life.
i lost my virginity to a guy that she hated. At first i didnt tell her that i had sex with him but then i broke down at work and started crying because i was really stressed out because i thought i was pregnant. When i told her that she looked at me and told me i shouldn't have had sex with him and that i am stupid for doing it.
Another night i was hanging out with another guy friend and i was drinking with him and i ended up messing around with him ( we did not have sex ). but we ended up getting in a fight and never talked anymore. And she told me i shouldnt be drinking with guys because they can take advantage of me and so fourth.
a couple of days ago i asked her if she knew guy named ______ and shes like yes and you don't need to get envovled with him hes worse then _____ ( the guy i had sex with) and he got in alot of trouble with the police in high school. After she yelled all of that trash to my face she then asks me how i know him and why i asked her if she knew him. I gave her a spirk and she told me to stay away from him. But then i went and asked my other friend if she knew him and she said that he is one of the nicest guys she has ever met in her life.
Im really sick of her judging me about how i talk about guys or what guy i get invovled with or what i do with them on my time. Yea maybe she is making sure i don't hurt myself but when she ask me why i asked about him after she yelled at me im not goin to tell her i think hes an awesome person and i reallly want to get to know him..
i know i dont really have a question and im kinda rambling but what can i do to get her to stay off my case and quit judging me im tired of it im my own person and i do what i want..... (link)
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you are absolutly right. you really should tell her to just "but out" sometimes.if she is such a good friend she should try helping you,and understand your situations more, rather than make you feel worse or put you down.sure, she may not like you for a while for telling her, but she needs to hear it.(you know,... tough love)
xoxo, melissa-bt4t
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Well I have this friend on Gaia and his birthday is in a few days.. I saved up all day and spent a lot of money on his gift. And I gave it to him early, and he didn't even thank me.
This isn't the only time, once I paid real money to buy him a sticker on IMVU which is something I NEVER do. But I spent like the entire day earning 10,000 gold on GaiaOnline for his gift (I'm sort of poor o n there) So I worked Very hard. And he never thanked me! All he said was its SO COOL and asked how much I spent on it.. but thats it. I feel unnappreciated. What do I do about it? (link)
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i must soo disagree with the previous answer.for one, it is extremely rood to ask the cost of a gift. and i must ask, has he ever gotten YOU anything? i think that you should tell him that you dont fell appreciated enough;if neesesary, you could find a polite way to tell him teach him more manners in the future.
xoxo,melissa-bt4t
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dear Melbt4t,
My two Best Friends used to do EVERYTHING togather. But now, since they had a huge fight and thier friendship is over, I feel like I always have to choose between the two. it is like if i hang out with one friend,then the other one will hate me!there's no way im going to choose one over the other! what should I do about this? (link)
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Dear Divided Between Friends,
There is no reason for you to choose between your closest friends. The best thing to do in this situation is to use communication. The first step, is Talking to your friends, “Together”; even though they may not like it, you have to tell them how you feel, and why. The next step, is finding a solution. “Together,” figure out ways that you can hang out with both of your friends; how they can be more understanding. Who knows, maybe some day you ALL will be best friends again, but for now, the most important thing in ANY relationship is to communicate with each other.
Xoxo, Mel
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