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Q: i have cell phone nokia 5300, can anyone tell me how download a music? i did have paper, i lost it, anyone can tell me? i REALLY need musiccccc thks!!!!

Its prolly best to download the Nokia Pc Suite, or install it using a disk you should have recieved with the phone.

Then you can automatically put your songs,images,videos etc etc into your nokia folder which comes up under My Computer

Q: yeah, well
i think i broke mine
but i dont know how far in it is so i wouldnt like now for sure
but i can go pretty far in

Yeah, did you bleed? If you did then you know its broken.

Q: how far in is your hymen?

Sometimes you can feel it if you push your finger in far enough, to find an actual depth in centimetres or whatever, try googling it. I know its not too far down though

Q: is the clit where you pee out of? is that what you simulate to get an orgasm??

Yes and no. There is two different holes. The clit is the bit you rub to have an orgasm, the hole underneath is where you pee.

But many people call it the clit anyhow.

Q: today i just noticed some weird bulby thing in my mouth so i put my finger in to check it out and i popped it? and then when i pulled my finger out there was blood? it kind of hurt when i popped up but what could it be?

It was more than likely a mouth ulcer, nothing serious, but sometimes when you pop them it bleeds.

Q: what are some animals that are strong, free and never give up? i want it because i want something to remind me of what i should be to be successful. thanks.

Just one of my favs...

Dolphins & Whales!

Q: so like everyone says that when you have a dream more than once, its eventually going to come true.

is that true? cause i have had the same dream for like a week. just...different people. and different sequences. but the same thing happens.

It depends how superstitious you are, and what you believe in..

In my opinion, that isnt correct, as Ive had the same dream for the last 2/3 years and it definately hasnt come true. Ive never experienced a dream thats become reality, ask other peoples opinions and base your belief on what is found

Q: hi, this is one of my most favourite poems ever. i would just like to know in your opinion, what does it mean to you?

Where the Sidewalk Ends

There is a place where the sidewalk ends
And before the street begins,
And there the grass grows soft and white,
And there the sun burns crimson bright,
And there the moon-bird rests from his flight
To cool in the peppermint wind.

Let us leave this place where the smoke blows black
And the dark street winds and bends.
Past the pits where the asphalt flowers grow
We shall walk with a walk that is measured and slow,
And watch where the chalk-white arrows go
To the place where the sidewalk ends.

Yes we'll walk with a walk that is measured and slow,
And we'll go where the chalk-white arrows go,
For the children, they mark, and the children, they know
The place where the sidewalk ends.

Shel Silverstein

Well..to me it says about things getting away from something bad.

Almost as if they dont know where to go, they will just pick a path and follow that.

Not to sure though!

Q: On my Facebook, I can't remove anything from my profile. So anything I click just won't go away. I've tried exing it out, and editing but neither will work. On top of that, I can't leave any groups. What's up? Can anyone help?

Groups etc are standard facebook add ons now. Along with alot of others, it will make no difference if you exit, you cannot remove them..

Only apps such as Kiss Me, Flirt With Me, Fight Me, Name Teller, etc etc can be removed. As they are also added by hand.

Q: I went to the bathroom this morning and found this yellow stuff in my knickers.
Have i started my periods.
Im really worried.
I dont want to tell my mum as she laughs.
Please give me some advice.

Its just discharge, means soon you will start your period, this is completely normal so dont panic.

Im sure your mum would understand, make sure you have stocked up on panty liner/tampax ready for your period. Just enjoy the most of it, growing up and stuff.

You will get discharge throught your life, mainly before and after periods. ,

Q: 13/f
what can i get rid of scars with, without letting my mum know.
p.s most stuff i get my mum gets for me.

I would go to a pharmacy and ask them. They will keep it in confidence, and they wont lecture you, should the scars be anything of self harm

Q: my guy wants us to get romantic when texting each other. tell me how to go about it. im 26 year old female

I would suggest starting with slow seductive sentences like...I wanna kiss you up and down..and try and think about what he likes..My boyfriend has a particular thing for oral sex, he loves it, so when I get a bit more into it, I say all the things I wanna do to his penis with my mouth, like..

I wanna lick your hot body up and down, and suck your hard wet cock whilst slowly carressing your balls ... etc etc etc

But try not to be repetitive, cos they dont like that, try and vary your messages, and make sure you slowly tease him instead of an instant, I wanna suck you off lol.

Also try sending a sly picture or video, or even a sound clip of you pleasuring yourself, especially of you moaning..A guy loves nothing more than a moaner! Cos he knows you like it that way ;]

Good Luck!

Q: has anyone used "the pink patch" and does it work?

do these weight loss patches tend to work or are they just gimmicks?

testimonials appreciated. kthanks

I have a friend who used that, and I asked her opinion as I was going to approach using it, it can causes rashes often, and also it only seems to work for a period between 1-3 weeks, after that the patch becomes useless and doesnt seem to remove any weight whatsoever. Even with a new patch everyday.

So I would suggest maybe leaving it and looking for a better solution.

Q: i accidentally added all of my pics to my ipod (about 200) how do i delete some of them? and also if i load some more on, how do i do it without putting every picture on there?
Thanks:)

The thing with itunes is it only copies whole folders, not individual files, so I would suggest making a new folder in your my pictures folder, call it Ipod Pictures. Then go through your pictures and copy and paste all your fav pics into your Ipod Pictures folder.

Sometimes that will take too long, so hold CTRl when your selecting different pictures, and it will keep them selected, rather than selecting one then copying and pasting, then selecting another..select loads at once then right click, copy then paste !

As for removing them, on itunes, unclick the option for syncing pictures, then click sync, it should update and realise you dont want pictures, then resync, by selecting your new file =]

Q: if a guy tells you to lie to your parents (which you know you won't do) But is really sweet, do you sill go out with him?

It all depends on the lie. If its to do with age and current job or where he lives then thats a bit out of order, as its for your safety.

But if not then everyone tells white lies. Not matter what anyone says. Theres noone in the world who hasnt lied, so I wouldnt worry about it. Date this guy only if your really into him

Q: umm on the radio i heard this song.

the first 2 lines are "i never made it as a wise man,
i never made it as a poor man stealing"

and in the chorus its like

"this is hoe you remind me of who i realy am, its not like you to say sorry"etc.

ta.

Its Nickelback - This Is How You Remind Me

If you add my msn MissMarizzle@hotmail.co.uk , I will send you the song =]

Q: how old do you people think is an ok age to lose yor virginity?

Tbh most people would say 16-20 but there is NO right or wrong age. There is preferred ages. But its basically on when you feel ready. Dont do it under pressure. You will regret it. Make it worth it.

However old you are, if you wanna do it, do it, but think of the emotional and physical sides of this, and use protection

Q: are there any websites that i couuld use to make a slideshow with MUSIC, VIDEOS, and PICTURES?

thanx so much

If you have bebo, you can make them on there using the widget section, but if you dont want to add these to a bebo site, then just use the link anyway and send it to your email :)

Q: This is for anyone who is bi/lesbian/gay. guys or girls.

how did you know you where bi/gay/lesbian?

Sorry, I know this says for only the experienced, but my mum is gay and she explained this too me incase I ever felt the same!

Basically you have an unexplicit urge to look at the same member of sex more than you should, and you end up studying their breasts and looking in their lower areas without thinking about it. And you seem to enjoy their attention and would do anything to get more of it.

Also you find your more compatible with them, and sometimes you even may look at pictures of them if your on bebo or whatever..

You will know in time, when you get your first crush on someone of the same sex. Good Luck figuring!

Q: Its weird story :D

I sat next to a person lets call him dude :D

He was a type of person who didn't talk a lot so I would usually talk to him. I would tell him in class hey hey dude go tell the class about blah blah and such. I would be like the supportive friend.

Days later he would talk and yeah it was cool.

Then months later it got weird.

Every morning he would tell me hi in class. I don't know it felt weird now. It got annoying and I would like ignore him whenever he talked to me.

example:
We changed seats but when we changed he sat in front of me . When we were watching a movie and taking notes at the same time he would copy and such and I would cover my answers but then when I wasn't looking he would look. . . (it bugged me)

What should I do? I feel like a bad friend. I feel liked I was better with him not talking??? ahhhh

Unfortuneately, you got yourself into this position, but you cant just turn your back on this person, he obviousley feels that he can talk to you, as you have made him feel welcome.

And he may see you as a really close friend. Try not to turn your back on him and ignore him, as this will completely deboost his selfesteem and he will be very disheartened, try to ''avoid'' him, but when you really cant, think to yourself, your making someone happy, just answer questions, but dont go into detail =] Good Luck

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