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okay i have to begin from the start but bare with me. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months now. last year tho, we went to an event and got in to a fight(lemme say over nothing) and he like hooked up with his ex-girfriend not like sex but still. ever since then i havent been able to get over it. i mean i forgave him and have tried to let it go but it hasnt really helped. sometimes i will be sitting alone and i start to think about it and it makes me want to cry. this event is coming up again in a couple months and his ex will deff be there and omg im soo scared of what is going to happen. i told him that if hes good this time i will be happy and finally over it for good but if he does it again its OVER for sure. is this a good way to go about it or what should i do to get over my jealousy? do i have a right to be upset about it or am i over exaggerating? HELP!!!! rate high. (link)
ok, i can DEFINITELY see where you get your jealousy from, and in MY opinion, you have every right to be jealous. But something about your plan seems to make me feel that it won't work. You should DEFINITELY tell him that you really like him, and that it will hurt you real bad if he does what he did again. Tell him that it never quite settled with you, and that you need to know that he is devoted to you.
signed,
M.J.


Ok, for about 2 months now I got white stuff in my underwear, and always feel wet. I think its discarge. I haven't had a period yet but I don't know when its comming. Should i tell my mom or just leave it be? (link)
if you talk to a parent or a health person they will tell you that white discharge is a sign that your period is coming. I recommend wearing a panty liner, and that should help you feel dry, and get use to the feeling of a pad.


You guys are probably annoyed with the questions about Christmas presents, but I really need help. I have presents for everyone except my dad and I need some ideas! I can spend up to $30 and gosh, he's so hard to shop for. But I was wondering, what are you guys getting for your dad?

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do you know of any hobbies he is into? I am 14. I got my dad a salt water fishin poll, cuz he is always workin on this piece of crap he calls a boat, and when it works-someday-he'll want to go fishin on it. Sooooooooo........(it was only $38, not bad for a nice rod......)


Me and my boyfriend had sex 3 times on monday. The first with a condom, and then the second, he started off without a condom (I dunno if there was any pre-mature ejaculation) but then finished that with one on. Then the last time we did have a condom. And he only pulled out the first time. I just got finished having my period Saturday. So I was wondering is there a possibility that I could possibly get pregnant? And know yall say well get a pregnancy test, but how long should I wait to get one?

So my two questions:
1) Could I possibly be pregnant?
2) When to get a pregnancy test?

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Im not really good with these questions, but I guess you should wait untill you miss a period, and then get a pregnancy test. If you are worried though, you should talk to your boyfriend, or an adult that you trust that wont tell your parents! If you don't miss your next period then i wouldn't worry about it.




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