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Well, let me clarify that I am not at all racist in any way, shape or form.
My mom is, though. She's always talking about African Americans as if they were criminals or something. She's always saying "Don't hang out with those black kids" or "Those black people are trouble/mean/not proper/etc" That's my MOM's view on them. Not me.
Well, I want to take a extracurricular activity & the only places that teach that activity are in the city/downtown. And my mom doesn't want me going there and stuff because "The place is filled with black people and it's not a safe/nice environment to go to." But I really want to take that activity and I hate learning through videos and DVD's. But there aren't any place else where I live. I've googled & looked on yellow pages. And my mom doesn't want to drive me there often. So what should I do about this?
I can maybe convince her that I won't be drugged or killed. [She always thinks I'll get drugged, raped, or killed even if I go to like a friend's house. Paranoia.] I mean she encouraged me to take on the activity herself but now that she knows where the schools are located at, she might be backing out of her words... (link)
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ok i think you should go anyway now i normally dont say things like this but talk to a friend and have them cover for you so you can lie and tell your mom im going to a friends house and then if she calls that friend they can say well shes doin blah blah blah im not racist either but down town is dangerous for anyone so dont go alone go with a friend there is strength in numbers and less liklely for you to get raped killed or whatever its not the best advice but its some if you have any questions feel free to ask
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My grandfather just passed away. Im so sad but idk what to do! he's not having a funeral and i want some sort of closure or something. does anyone have ideas? Please help! I barely knew him well and only met him once but he was family. and he's the first family member of mine to pass. He's the first human i ever knew to pass. Thank you (link)
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ok im very sorry for your loss and its ok to be sad if this is availible i would go to his grave and give him somethin like and empty bottle of his favorite liquor or anything he likes it is sad that he passed away but maybe you can ask your family members more about him
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15/f (soph in high school)
okay so.. this is gonna be really long and confusing sooo im sry. okay theres this guy i went out with for a REALLLY long time. lets call him "A". so i broke up with A at the beginning of the summer but i still kinda like him. like whenever i talk to him again i like him more. i dont kno i never really stopped liking him. and he like keeps asking me to hook up with him and stuff. like i dont think he likes me, i mean he could but all of his friends hate me for some stupid reason (probably bc i go to a different school than him...its stupid) so he would never admit to it. but then theres this other guy. lets call him "B" (he goes to my school). hes one of my REALLY good friends. well i kind of like B but i think he likes this girl in another state. which is really stupid bc nothing will ever happen between them. she lives on the other side of the country! well he like flirts with me and we like text/talk all the time and like there was a dance last night that me & my friends decided not to go to and he texted me and he was like "where were you tonight?". which means that he like cares somewhat right? since at the dance last year he was like all over me. ok just to make this more complicated.. theres this other guy. lets call him "C" (he goes to my school also). well C is like one of my best guy friends too. i was talking to him a few days ago and he told me that he liked me. this was on aim. i havent seen him since like july but like we talk a lot and stuff. i told him i didnt know who i liked. i told him i was deciding. and he asked me if he was one of the people i was deciding between and i just said yes bc i didnt wanna make him feel bad. so now he like really thinks he has a chance. but i dont like him.. but i also dont want to hurt his feelings. so what should i do about him? theres this other guy too. lets call him "D" (he goes to my school also). hes another one of my good guy friends. i was talking to him online a few days ago and he was like "you hate me" and i was like "what? no i dont" then he told me to rate how much i like him on a scale of 1-10. he said 5 was really good friends and more than 5 was more than friends. so i said 5 (because i only like him as a friend). and he like got all mad. so i dont know what to do about him. then theres this other guy lets call him "E"..jeez this is getting complicated haha i hope youre following all of this. but anyways he goes to the same school as my ex and theyre really good friends. anyways E calls and texts me all the time. hes told me before that he likes me. and he says all this cute stuff all of the time. i like him as a friend hes really funny and nice. but i dont really like him as more. i mean i flirt with him and stuff but hes just a fun guy ya know? like even if i did like him i couldnt go out with him bc my best friend went out w/ him in like january and also hes my exs best friend. anyways hes basically like obsessive. like i feel like hes stalking me sometimes. so idk what to do about him. like i want to tell him to back off.. but then again i dont want to hurt his feelings. then theres this other guy. lets call him "F". ive been kinda on & off about this guy. sometimes i like like him and sometimes i dont. hes really confusing bc sometimes he like picks fights with me and then other times he flirts with me like A LOT. like he keeps asking me to hang out but then when we did him & his friends like ditched me & my friends. i think it was kinda a joke but i still got mad at him. so i dont kno whats up with him either.
HELP? (link)
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well dont go out with someone you dont love and even if there nice dont flirt with them becuase when you tell them you want to be friends theyll be heart broken i think you should date the one you love the most the one thats right for you
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15/f
I want to lose weight, strengthen myself, and increase my flexibility so I thought I'd start yoga soon. Does it help me lose weight, though? Anyways, would this be a good thing? (link)
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yoga is a great way to become flexible and clear your mind but i dont think it will help you lose wheight you might try a gym or healthier foods but dont starve yourself and dont throw up your food the usually leads to anorexia and thats bad bad bad
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okay well, heres a little backround information...
josh is my current boy, brandon is my x-boy.
in basic form: josh skrewed some girl while going out with me and i have him admitting it on recording but i havnt said anything to him yet, and brandons step dad wants to do everything he can to mess my life up and upset me and my family. and now that brandons coming back i dont know what to do... help please! please. brandons coming back into my life again in a week.
in long form:
josh and i have always had a thing but had never gone out. brandon and i had gone out, and we where going out untill brandon got locked up. at first it was okay, we sent eachother letters, but then we couldnt anymore. so i broke up with him. i loved brandon so much he ment everything to me. i thought he was the one, the one i was gunna marry. anyways, josh started making moves on me while brandon was locked up, somehow he wone me over even though i voued to stay with brandon. i started going out with josh and it was awesome. we have been going out since january. now brandon is getting out in about a week, im so skrewed because im still head over heals for him. he had my friend that got out on a pass from being locked up call me and tell me that brandons still in love with me.
but get this...
this person that called me also let me listen to a recording of my current boy, josh when he was drunk and he admitted skrewing my friend sara! and he said that he would do it again. i havnt said anything to him yet but oh my is he going to get hell. and my parents dont like him because hes not white (im white.)
and brandon, his dad called my parents and tried to skrew up my life by telling them terrible lies about me and saying that brandon didnt want anything to do with me although it isnt true. but my parents dont like brandon either because hes been locked up.
help please, please. (link)
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well im sorryt but i think you should dump him if hes just going to skrew her agian and i dont think sara is a very good friend if she did that to you i no you love him but it doesn't matter if he skrewd somebody else and as for brandon you could get back to gether with him even though your families dont like it but i can tell you it will be hell so you can get back together with brandon or go solo for a while but i wouldn't stay with josh
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Alright, so there is this guy in my spanish class that i've had a crush on since like 6th grade. i know this sounds stupid, but i don't really talk to him that much. However, this year he sits diagonally from me. How do i get him to notice me, and how do i start talking to him, i guess to like become friends. I'm kind of friends with the guy that sits behind him, and he talks to the guy that i like.
also, there is this other girl that is really popular, who i think is ugly but all the guys like her, sitting right next to her.
ahh help. (link)
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well if youve had a crush on him scince the 6th grade you should first talk to him and become good friends even if you dont like to cuz you get nervous or you just dont like to cuz if you dont then you guys will never go anywhere or you can just leave him private notes that way you wont make a mistake and embarrass yourself
then if your afriad to ask him out get somone you can trust to ask him out for you and as for that popular girl problem we have some of those girls in our school too psh girl please you got to get to know him if he falls inlove with you then that other girl dont matter evil dont cost no thing and that girl is worth nothin
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