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ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
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Physics are just like horoscopes they aren't true they just try and get you to believe things. Don't listen to that physic because it will ruin your relationship and then there won't be a future for you two. Go with how you felt towards him before you went to the physic...don't let the physic change how you feel.
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ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
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Physics are just like horoscopes they aren't true they just try and get you to believe things. Don't listen to that physic because it will ruin your relationship and then there won't be a future for you two. Go with how you felt towards him before you went to the physic...don't let the physic change how you feel.
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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I would dump him. If he liked you alot he wouldn't pressure you into doing things like that. He is so not worth it
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I think i like this one guy who got into a lot of trouble at our school what should i do?
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Girls and bad boys go hand in hand.
Get to know him and see whats under that bad boy image he has, I'm sure he has a sweet&caring side to him.
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hey amanda - im about to be a 9th grader .. nd highskool seems so big nd nerve racking to me ! is there anything thats not so bad about highskool? also i didnt go 2 the same skool the public kids went 2 nd now im goin 2 the pub. hs .. im scared! =( (link)
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Don't be scared. All the 9th graders I'm sure are probably feeling the same way you are.
High School is really fun and it goes by so fast.Don't be nervous, get to know a lot of people and don't worry everything will be ok.
High School may seem big, but it really isn't, when I started HS I thought wow this is going to be so different, but once I got there and had all my classes I realized that there wasn't anything different and that it was almost the same as middle school.
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well. i have this really good friend. (a guy) and well he has this problem. this one girl he LIKED SO MUCH...acted like a total jerk and steppped all over him. i feel terrible first of all. and hes almost "scared" of liking ANYONE and 2nd of all...i like him and i keep hinting- HELLO?!!? I LIKE YOU!...how do i get him to notice me as more than a friend. and how do i get him to change his mind 'bout girls.
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He's just getting out of a heartbreak so it might take a while for him to recover from it.I think right now he needs a really good friend.So be yourself and maybe when he has recovered he will notice that you are the best for him.
Also talk to him and let him know that not all girls are like "her" and that you would never do such a thing to him that might help him get over her faster.
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Hi school is just getting ready to start and i've been homeschooled for the last year,or so . How can I get my mom to put me back in school???
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Just ask her and tell her if would be cool to meet some new people. I'm sure she will understand
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my sis moved out sometime after christmas. well she didnt exactly move out. shes was 17 at the time and she kinda ran away. but she stayed at her friends house during the last half of her senior year of high skool. now she is in college cuz shes taking summer courses. i miss her so much and only talk to her like every other day on the internet. what do i do? i miss her soo much and i dont know wut to do. i havent seen her alot this year. and it was her senior year which is important to some ppl. that and i feel like i wont see her anymore. wut can i do? (link)
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Set up a date where just the two of you can hang out and then tell her that you miss her alot and you miss seeing her and that ya'll need to see each other more often.
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hi um my neighbor knows i like him and i think he likes me but today he had like 5 friends over and they were inside in the basement and like i heard one of them say to me hey logans gf! and i ignored her but then logan was like heyyyy rachellll! and u know what i mean but yah i dk if he likes me and i wanna go out wiht him really bad!!! please HELP! (link)
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Well obviously you have been on his mind because he said something about you to his friends. I would just wait when he is alone and then go and talk to him and see what happens.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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Just tell him you aren't ready. If he likes you then he will understand and wait with you. If not then all he wants is one thing and you just don't need that.
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ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help? (link)
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You can't really make "her" realize it because she won't see that she has a problem. What you need to do is contact her parents or her guardians and they will help her. Or you could get some information on it and see what you could do.
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this guy i know wants to get back with me after he hurt me once got back with me hurt me again and then while i was getting over him he made out with a 12yr old girl when he is 18 and now he thinks everything is ok? (link)
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Don't take him back, he is not worth your time. If he hurt you once he will do it again. You deserve so much better then that!
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i have a problem with trusting my friends. i know it sounds weird but its tru. i mean like i know i can trust them sometimes but then they have times when they are so hyper they tell everyone everything about me and wut i have told them. wut do i do? i dont think i should trust them anymore but i want to. (link)
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Me personally, I have a problem trusting people all the time. For the same reasons. What I do is I keep the important stuff to me. True friends don't tell stuff about you that you don't want other people to know.
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i dont think im grl friend material. i dont know why i guess i just think that. does anyone have any ways that i could become more grl friend material. im 14. (link)
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The best thing to do is be yourself. Don't try to be something your not. Sooner or later a guy will come along and ya'll will be together. So don't put yourself down like that. Most guys like it when girls act like themselves.
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my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do? (link)
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She's really not a friend if she lies to you all the time. I think you should forget about her and meet new people.
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My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
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Fed Up (link)
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Wow that is def. scary. What I would do is drop all contact with him. Don't answer your phone when he calls. Ignore him as much as possible. If it gets worse then you should def. tell someone because this is not a joking situation.
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