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Well i am a f/13 and i like this boy and i think he likes me too. We nonstop flirt and we always talk. Even one time we both left the classroom just so we can talk. Well i think that it is the cutest thing every time we talk and there are people around us he always wispers in my ear and tells me. He gets so close that my chest and his chest touch and he doesnt move he just stays there with our chests touching. I think it is so cute how he wants to get so close and wispers in my ear. So just to flirt with him and make him enjoy being around me I wisper back into his ear and push my chest up against his and get as close as i can and we just stare into each others eyes. it is so romantic. Doesnt that sound sweet? Then i dont understand why he wont ask my to be his girlfriend? Please dont tell me to ask him out because i never will? Please go it to details, thanks in advance. remeber i rate 5s for good advice,
j.

Hey, If your not willing to ask him out then have or friends do it for you. Or try talking to his friends they can pursuade him to ask you out.
Good Luck!

Love Ya'll,
Vanessa

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The other day I answered someone's question. And in that question I stated that ovulation can also occur after a person's period. ( 6-14 days) which I googled and found out I was right. Another person wrote my advice column to dispute this fact, but turns out she didnt dispute it al all: here is that she said word for word: Oh, and no you are not fertile AFTER your period you fucking idiot. You are not fertile UNTIL 14 DAYS AFTER YOUR PERIOD. Get your facts right. Now does everyone see that she said your NOT fertile AFTER your period, its 14 days AFTER your period! Duh thats what I said! Why do people resort to name calling when trying to dispute something? or is it just this person doesnt posess any class? 5's for all thoughts.. except for her's.

Hey, I totally agree with you she really should not be name calling you can argue with out being offensive. She also needs to pay attention to what shes arguing about before she argues. Lol dont feel bad its her problem not yours.

Good Luck with your collumn!

Love ya'll,
Vanessa

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hi. well am a 14 yr old guy, and im growing my hair. right now, itz the stage where every1 says "you need a haircut!" . and i was just wandering, if i grow it, and i dont like it, will i be able to cut it, and spike it up like i did before? or will it be too floppy? by the way, its kind of thick, and curly.

thanx

Hey, if you don't like your hair once it is grown out, you can always cut it again and spike it like before. Your hair isn't goint to change just because it is a different length.

Love Ya'll,
Vanessa

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does proactive really work? im asian and my skin is kinda oily.. soo do you think it might work? i know its different for everyone but i dont know

Hey, NO proactive DOES NOT work, a close friend of mine has really bad acne, she tried proative for two months and it only made the prblem worse, DON'T use it!!

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Vanessa

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ok...well i like this guy(im 13/f)and i barely see him, but when i do there is a major connection. Last wedsday, one of my friends pushed him and i grabbed his hand to help him and we just kinda stood there for a while holding hands...and then later when he saw me again we hugged, but he left his arm around me and it wasnt what he normally does...some of my friends say that hes going to ask me out but i dont think so, what can i do to make him do more stuff like that to me, and to show him that i like him. i dont want to look slutty though.

i rate high

Hey, i think that you should ask him out. It sounds to me like he likes you and you obviously like him, might as well take a chance right?!?! What do you have to lose?!?!?!
Good Luck!

Love Ya'll,
Vanessa

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Well, my boyfriend and i have been together for about 1 week now. we r like really cute together and everything but there is just one thing. he told me best friend that he was comfused because this other gurl likes him and he thinks he might like her too. he said he didn't know what to do because he loves me but wants to give the other gurl a chance. I was i guess just wondering how i could keep him to myself so he won't feel like he wants to be with anyone else. please someone help me. I'll rate high!!

Hey, if he's not commited to you, and only you as a girlfriend, then he doesn't deserve you!

Love Ya'll,
Vanessa

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Can you lose weight by not eating just for one day? I'm not going anorexic or anything, just wondering.

Another question, what are the foods to eat that will slim you down the quickest? Like salads with no dressing or croutons...


Thanks, I rate everyone 5!!

Hey, yes you can lose weight but thats not a good reason not to eat regularly. Just try eating less junk food and fast food and sorta stay on a healthy diet. The less sugar and fat you eat, the more fit you will be.

Also, if you do eat junk food or fast food normally try exercising for a certain amount of time a day. About 30-60 minutes of physical activity always helps!

Good Luck!!

Love Ya'll
Vanessa

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Ok guys this is kind of long...

Ok well I like this boy but he doesn't like me. I always get this feeling when I am around him. I want my friends to ask him to go out with me...but I don't want to give away that i like him because that would just be totally enbarresing, So i was wondering what my friends could say to him and to not give away that I like him...

We already have...
1. You should go out with her because you make such a cte couple

I need something by monday...

I rate 5's!!

Thanks A lot.



Hey, Start hanging out with him and his friends, if he starts realizing how cool you are he'll probably start to like you! Try having your friends say stuff that you guys have in common or stuff that you know he likes about girls that you have, again if he starts finding out how cool you are he'll start likin you!
Good Luck!

Love Ya'll
Vanessa

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I like this guy who l just started being friends with. AT the dances at school l usually slow dance with him. But he;s the school HOTTIE!!!!. But hes also a perve, every girl likes him. But his friend told me that he likes me. So should l ask him out or what.

7TH Grade is almost over and l won;t get to see him for the summer

HELP!HELP! What should l do?

Hey, ASK HIM OUT! if you know he likes you and you like him what are you waiting for?


Love Ya'll
Vanessa

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hey! well you see..
i started feeling really attracted to my cousins friend kevin..when me my cousin (shes a girl) this guy named kevin and his girlfriend manda and their other friend jake hung out. well i knew i couldnt flirt with kevin or anything since he had a girlfriend and i didnt want to start anything because im not like that. my cousin is like gosh they have been goin out for 5 months they are the perfect couple! and i just wanted him to think i was hott and like get his attention but i knew that wouldnt happend since he liked his girlfriend. well lastnight my cousin called me and was like OH MY GOSH manda and kevin broke up and i was soo surprised!!i guess he just doesnt want a girlfriend in the summer--he just likes messin around if you know what i mean and i definately wouldnt mind makin out with him or anything lol..dont worry im not a slut or anything!! but you see my cousin is really good friends with manda now and doesnt really talk to kevin anymore..and i only met/hungout with him once when i was with her. i really wanna hangout with him again soon though but i dont want to ask my cousin because she thinks i think he is ugly..when i said he was "cute" but i guess my cousin manda and me are all hangin out tomorrow so that definatley means that i wont get to see kevin--since he lives right by my cousin! and manda wont want to hang out with him..because yeahh! but the next time i go over there or something i dont just want to randomly be like lets go hangout with kevin because my cousin will be like why do you wanna hangout with him? i dont wanna go over there i dont really talk to him anymore and so on.. i just dont know what to do now!!

i'll rate anyone 5 who answers
thanks :]

Hey, I suggest that you tell your cousin the truth. If you and Kevin Do start dating she is eventually goin to find out and be mad that you didn't tell her in the first place. Manda may be mad at you but not as mad as if you didn't tell your cousin in the first place.
Goodluck with Kevin!

Love Ya'll,
Vanessa

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Okay... well this will probably be long, so i'm sorry, but i really need help!!

So I had a boyfriend and we were going out for like 3 months. He was perfect. There aren't any other guys like him out there.

But just this week, he dumped me. He said that it was because he felt awkward around me because we didn't ever know what to say around each other. He said that it wasn't because he didn't like me and that he still does, and he isn't going to ask any other girls out. But I really miss him... you dont understand... no matter how hard i tried, i feel like i did something wrong and i wish i could just change it and go back. i love him so much! He was sooo perfect! Is there any way to get him back?? ANY ideas?? PLEASE HELP!! IM DESPERATE!! Please don't say move on, I have tried and tried, but i can't... i love him too much, and he says he still likes me, so is there hope of getting back together? PLEASE HELP!

THANX SO MUCH!!

Hey, ask him why if he's not going to ask anyone else out, why he dumped you in the first place. if you can get back together as a couple, try going to the movies(where you dont do very much talking) or other places where you can just have fun and he can see that your cool.

Love Ya'll,
Vanessa

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so yea, on AIM every1 has a cute profile w/ cute quotes and designs and i wanted to know if anybody knew any websites i can go to to gte cute stuff like that. some cute away messages too. i rate 5's for links =]

Hey, a great place to get cute quotes is, www.greatmsnnames.com
Another place to get cute backgrounds is,
www.picgames.com

i think you'll love it so write back to tell me whether you like them or not!

Love ya'll,
Vanessa

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