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My name is Jamie but people call me JLC, I live in Pa, i have Brown hair with red highlights n brown eyes, play basketabll n im just a normal girl.. (crazy and outgoing)
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 13
AIM: WildxoChild66
Member Since: September 20, 2004
Answers: 25
Last Update: October 9, 2004
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees. (link)
if you do meet mr.right i really dont think u should have sex yet. n if u date someone then i dont think u would b depressed... i mean really

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im invited to my one friend's party next month. and my exbest friend is going to be there, and she is really mean to me, she says mean things about me and hurts my feelings and posts mean things on my site, so i really dont feel like seeing her at the party. i know i should still go cause its the right thing to do but please understand that im so scared and i dont want to have to deal with her cause i'll cry if she makes me feel uncomfortable. so how do i break it to my friend whose having the party that i cant go, without saying its because of my exfriend? (link)
Tell her that your moms friend wants you to babysite for her. Or if you wanna go to the party, if she comes up to you then just say bug of get a life or something, make her look bad

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JLC


Sometimes my boobs get really sore and tender and they hurt alot..I know they get that way during ur period, but sometimes it randomly hurts..whats that mean? (link)
you might have to take tests on them, you might have brest cancer


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JLC


me and my boyfriend were at a school dance the other day. and we've been going out for 3 months now. but this one girl was at the dance to, and she likes my boyfriends alot. well he doesn't like her like that, only a friend. well sumtimes me and my borfiend go to his boat, and this is were i met this girl first about 3 weeks back. well she went uup to my boyfriend at the dance and told him she doesn't like me and that i was giving her dirty looks and crap like that, which i never did! in fact after i reconized her from the boat i smiled at her each time i seen her. well my boyfriend asked me if i didn't give her dirty looks so i told him no and he believes me. well she came up to him again and said sumin 2 him. but he wudn't tell me wat, he just told me to stay away from her. and now hes kinda acting weird, like he doesn't want to take me to the boat cuz she might be there (cuz her parents own a boat around there too). but i highly doubt that he likes her, b.c he always says he cant stand her, and he not only says that around me but his other friends.... im just wondering, whats going on, and why is he acting like this now? (link)
If you didnt talk to him about it i would start talking to him right away, mabye its not her that hes acting all crazy about mabye its something thats happening around the house or at school.try to get the inside scoope

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JLC


I have a problem with getting a boyfriend! I don't know why because I think I make a really great girlfriend (I'm told this also) and I'm extremely loyal. I'm not ugly either. I think I'm pretty OK looking (long brown hair, blue green eyes, 5'5", tan). I'd show my picture but you all would probably say "No wonder you can't get a boyfriend!" But anyway, I always seem to attract guys way older than me who are perverted and just want me for one thing. Sex.

Is there any way I can get a guy to notice me? I know this sounds cheesy and stupid, but I don't really feel "complete" without one. I don't have any friends at all. I had some but they're unreliable and never want to hang out so screw them. I want a boyfriend really bad! Plz help.

I rate btw. And also don't tell me I'm pathetic... (link)
I had this problem once before what you gotta do it get active! get out there and do some sports. Someway for people to notice you and hey, you might even get more friends

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JLC




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