I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.
I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..
I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.
Gender: Male
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 27, 2008
Answers: 79
Last Update: September 15, 2009
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There this boy that i like and ive been liking him for awhile now. He knwos how much i like him and stuff. You see i have this class with him and he would talk to me and be messing around and stuff. And sometimes even flirt, but there this gurl that also likes him and he talks to her. And like at first i thought maybe he might have at least a lil feelings for me since he always flirting with me but then again i dont know. Because he talking to this other gurl and i dont kno if he likes me or if he just doing what he is doing just to play with my emotions im so confuse. (link)
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It sounds that hes flirting with bot of you. I suggest that you talk to him about it. Say your feelings for him, and ask if he might have any for you. If he says that he has feelings for then you have a relationship and all is good.
If he says he does, but he also has feelings for this other girl then you can either give up on him, or win him over and show that your the better girl for him.
Lastly if he says he only sees you as a friend then you can try to change his mind over time flirting more, but if it doesn't work then your probably stuck being friends.
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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Where can I download the whole movie for free? Thanks in Advance. (link)
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Legally i don't know. Limewire and Frostwire you probably can, but it's illegal but free, and most don't get caught. I don't suggest this tho.
Try googling Sidereel
Hope It Helps
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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So there is this guy I just started noticing. Not actually liking him yet, like I don't get butterflies or anything. We talk sometimes but I want to be his friend. Its just little things about him teasing me or something along those lines. How do I become his friend? Because for one thing I only have a couple of classes with him but I'm usually with my friends, I have to get up and walk past him for him to say something to me. He is on my bus but I'm with my friend and he doesn't talk to me then. I should get the courage to talk to him but if I did I wouldn't be able to have some conversation since its on the bus and I sit with my friend and he sits with his. He has introduced me to one of his friends before. I never talked to them though. The only time he ever does talk to me on the bus is when my friend isn't there that day. What should I do? I can't really talk to him during class either. I'm kinda shy so it will be hard for me to even start a conversation if I even had the chance. Thanks so much! (link)
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Well it seems that your both kinda shy and it seems he might be interested in being friends too, but he wants to talk to you alone not when your with your friends or hes with his. So my suggestion is that during school as you pass him just say a quick hi, or hey and on the bus try to be alone more often then always with your friends. Try to sit a little closer too so when his friends get off you two could talk. You might not like it, but you might need to start the conversation, I know it can be hard but if you want to become friends you need to take the initiative .
Hope it helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~
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16/f.
ok i kiinda like this kid, and like he always stares at me and like when i get off the bus he will turn around and look at me. its weird. do you think he likes me? by the way.. their isnt anything on my face or anything..haha. i talk to him on the bus sometimes and i dont know how to explain it. do you think he likes me at all? and how do i pursue it? i dont want to ask him to hang out.. because i hardly know him.. but like what do i say, that i wont sound weird? (link)
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It seems he has a crush on you and same goes for you. But your both probably nervous to talk to eachother to hang out outside the bud =.
Next time you go on the bus sit next to or close to him. Just start up a convo on your likes, dislikes ect...
And on the next Thursday or Friday ask him if hes excited for the weekend and if he has no plans ask him if he'd like to hang out at the mall, park, your house ect.
Lastly if you go to his house make sure your safe, and just be your self!
Hope it helped
15/m
~InsaneChildz~
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hi i havent gotten about my period in 8 months and my belly looks like a beach ball, and i feel kicking every now and then. whats happening? (link)
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you 8 months pregnant and will be having a bundle of joy that is a baby in approx. one month.
Good luck with that.
Hope it helped
15/m
~InsaneChildz~
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hi i'm 16 and a girl, and you seem like you give some good advice.. so here it goessss...
i wanted to have sex with my boyfriend really bad, but he didn't really want to. well, we were at this party [and i'm not the type to get drunk or anything like that, i just don't do that.. i'm not a whore either..] anyway, i go to parties that have drinking, i just don't drink, and some one 'fixed' my drink, and i got really really drunk. i ended up having sex with 4 different guys. and now my boyfriend wont talk to me, and its not my fault. what should i do?? (link)
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Well i can see why he would be mad.
Some reasons he might be mad are
:He could be mad at you because he wanted to be your first (if your a virgin)
Or
:He might not know that it was an accident and that he could think you did it purposefully.
Or
:he could be mad at the fact that you put yourself in that position
Or
:He could be mad bescause just the fact that it was 4 guys. (that's fucking a lot)
Or
:He could be really hurt that you did that, despite the fact the your drink was "fixed"
Idk if hes mad because any of these reasons or all of them, but hes definitely mad.
I suggest that you try to talk to him. If he keeps ignoring you just keep being persistent until you talk to him and explain everything.
And if he refuses to forgive you then i suggest you move on to someone else.
P.S. I would highly suggest taking a pregnancy test, and also go to a free clinic and get tested for any STD's
Hope it helped
15/m
~InsaneChildz~
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hey! you give good advice! okk. 15/f.
anyway, i went to the movies with this kid named jordan and he kept like putting his hand on my leg, and moving it up and yeah, you get it. and i was really uncomfortable with it. i kept telling him to stop. and then we were the only two in the movie theater and way up top in the corner, and so well ok he raped me basically. to make a long story short. whenever he sees me now, he comes and just starts making out with me, i tell him to stop and he won't.. i don't know what to do. hes been so weird lately, and i've been best friends with him for like 4 years, and hes just starting to do this.. why? what do i say to him? (link)
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Ok first off what do you mean by rapped? Did you have sex or what?
If he just makes out with you then just pull away. Or whenever you see him coming just run/walk away and if your in a public area and he keeps going after you just scream as loud as you can and scream rape. It will definitely get him to stop that and walk away.
Idk why he would randomly start doing this, he could have had feelings for so long and then acted on them. Maybe something in his life changed.
I suggest you tell him to stop and threaten to tell the police, parents, teachers ect..., and if he continues then actually follow through on those threats.
Hope it helped
15/m
~InsaneChildz~
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Me and My girlfriend were like absolutly inlove. And we went out for 5 months. I cannot get her out of my head or get over her. I never thought I could be so inlove and Im the one that gave up. I need her back and she told me shed be waiting if I ever changed my mind. And I did. And shes not there. I dont want her back I NEEEEEED her back. I know that sounds pathetic but I find myself depressed everyday. There was something holding us back, But Id rather have to deal with that then not have her in my life forever. I always thought shed be the depressed one but shes doing just fine. I really messed up I need her, I told her that and she just laughs it off as a joke. What could I do I messed up really bad. Thanks. (link)
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hey sorry i can't really understand what your trying to say here. What i think your saying is that
you told your girlfriend this "I need her back and she told me shed be waiting if I ever changed my mind. And I did. And shes not there. I dont want her back I NEEEEEED her back. I know that sounds pathetic but I find myself depressed everyday. There was something holding us back, But Id rather have to deal with that then not have her in my life forever. I always thought shed be the depressed one but shes doing just fine. I really messed up I need her," and she laughed at it off as if it were stupid or meaningless. Please message me back if i am right or wrong and i will answer accordingly.
Sorry =/
~IsaneChildz
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So i havent talked to u in a while. I guess my girlfriend decided to get an abortion. It was really hard on me to watch her, Be in that much pain. I feel so bad. And wouldnt suggest abortions to anyone lol. thanks man for your help along the way. (link)
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So please dont judge me thanks. SO i got drunk one day and offered my girlfriend sex. And she refused so I kinda forced fucked her. Then I was so drunk and she passed out halfway through it i put her in my car and dropped her off at a cemitary. Now she wont talk to me. And I feel horrible. How can I make it up too her and let her know I love her and didnt mean it i was only drunk? Thanks (link)
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woah thats pretty bad. I don't think i have an apology in my arsenal for that.
She was already traumatized by the abortion and didn't want sex and the cemetery thing problly woulda but her over the edge.
I think the only thing to do is let her know how much you love her and just keep saying sorry. And problly just give her some time alone. tell her you'll be waiting for her whenever she decides to come back
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Sorry man. But Im the guy whose girl got an abortion. Shes been acting like really distant from me latly. I dont know what to do. What do you think? (link)
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How she problly sees it as that she had a living thing inside her and she killed it. She might be having regrets, or extreme sadness. I wouldn't talk about sex for a while and i would talk to her and tell her that your here for her and if she needs to talk to anyone she can talk to you about ANYTHING. Let her release all her emotions onto you.
Tell her that it's ok and you will help her through it.
~InsaneChildz~
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Im the kid whose girlfriend got an abortion. :/ I was wondering is it okay if we had sex again. Or is it not like okay for her "down there"? (link)
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Well Physically you should wait 2-4 weeks or untill she feels fully recovered ,but i don't know if she would be ready for it again after what happened. She might still be torn up about it emotionally so talk to her about it and this time if you decide to have sex make sure you got protection
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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sorry if this ends up being long..
a couple months ago, i met this guy at my friend's party. we talked a lot while we were there, and texted and talked on the phone and over myspace a lot. then we started hanging out. we'd kiss and make out and whatever, but i didn't want to go farther, because i've only known him for like a month and a half, and we weren't together. then we were hung out on the fourth of july and kissed, and were just cute together. then the next day i looked at his myspace, and he was with someone. i was so hurt, because by the things he said to me, i really thought we would go somewhere. now, he kind of did have a reputation as a "player" but it really didn't seem like he was. now he's still with this girl, but he texts me all the time, and tells me he loves me, and gets mad when i don't say it back. we're hanging out tomorrow, and i don't want to do anything with him, but i still have really strong feelings. my question is, is he just using me as an in between girl, of do you think he has real feelings for me?
any advice on what to do in this situation would really help,
thanks.
i'm 15/female. (link)
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First off make sure he actually is dating someone. Myspace isn't the most reliable source of info. Ask him straight up.
If he is don't do anything with him
*you can hang out just not kissing and stuff*
Try to hang out and get to know him better, and if he tries to make a move tell him you don't want to be his in between girl.
If hes single, pounce on that =].
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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i like him but he cant even tell me and i have a guestion do he have a girlfriend or wife (link)
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Girlfriend and 2 kids
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Hi. Im the same girl that asked a question about bra sizes, and something messed just happened.
I just got back from a pool party with a couple of my friends. And My bes guy friend Steven TOOK MY TOP OFF!
He just completely untied it when we were playing chicken. How was I saposed to react besides screaming and practicly punching Steven in the face. He took it as some huge joke too.
Everyone said to lighten up, because it's not the big of a deal... But it is! This random ten year old saw my boobs. Now im not trying to denie that this probably isnt the first pair he's seen but I could so live without knowing Hes seen mine. Its called Porn.
I dont know why he doesnt care. He said that I wasnt the only girl with big 'TITS' --who says that anyway and I was like fine then go get another girl that will let you do that and leave me the hell alone.
And he know whats to be friends again.
You said you were a guy.. would you do this to someone if you were just friends with them. And knew how self consious she is about this? Just for a couple laughs? I dont know how to get it thru his head that U dont do that.
I also think Adam took a picture.
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Sounds like you got screwed over. I think you acted perfectly fine. I know if i did that to any of my "just friends" they would be mad (especially if they were self conscious)
And they would probably kill me if someone took a picture.
So first off i think your reaction was fine.
Second tell him what he did was NOT ok, no matter how funny or ok he and his friends thought it was, it wasn't ok to you and thats all that matters.
Tell him if he thinks it's so funny then go find some girl who thinks it's as funny.
If he wants to be friends then tell him he needs to apologize. And to understand he can't do that to you anymore because your self conscious.
And if he refuses then maybe he isn't the guy you thought he was and maybe to move on and don't be friends anymore. Find someone who respects you enough not to do that
Hope it helped
Tell me how it goes
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
Haha nice good for your friends.
If you needed revenge i would have suggested pantsing him after he comes outta the pool ;)
Well i am glad it got resolved.
And ask me as many questions as you want ill be here to help :)
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I'm tired of living with my parents. They don't let me do anything! I'm never allowed to go to any of my friends house, I'm not allowed to just walk around my neighborhood, I can't have a boyfriend, and now there talking shit about all my friends. Like they said one of my friends is a slut and that I can't hang out with her anymore. My mom thinks I'm cutting myself. My dad has called me a slut and skank before. And my dad is touching me in sexual ways. Like the other day he grabbed my butt. I got so freaked out that I started crying and I ran into my room. Oh and I just recently discoverd that I was a mistakein my family... I wasn't supposed to be born! and all my mom and dad care about are my brother and sister...because my brother is going into the marines soon and they want to be with and around him and spend all there time with him. and then my sister has a disability that affects her walking.... i mean i understand they have to watch out for her but they could pay attention to me a little bit more. I mean i am apart of the family right?? WHAT DO I DO??? What can I do? Is there any way that I can live with someone else? and I'm so scared that one day there gonna hit me....they have come close to it. and I don't wanna talk about the situation with them because they wont understand....so please dont leave that as a option!
thanks in advance
-cuttechick24 (link)
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id say an emancipation also. Or see if you can live with another family member aunt, uncle, grandma, ect...
But if you choose the emancipation option beware that you'd need heavy evidence about any sexual abuse or physical abuse.
So think long and hard if you choose this path because if the judge denies it, your parents will become even worse for you trying this.
I suggest living with relative tho.
I hope it helped.
Please tell me how it goes.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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me and my boyfriend are gonna go on a picnic together this weekend we are both 19 and i was wondering wat kind of things would be good to bring to eat? (link)
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Pack your favorite sandwiches (one of you favorite one of his)
Lemonade,or another drink you both enjoy.
Maybe some of your favorite fruits n veggies.
And you favorite desserts.
Pretty much whatever you guys both really enjoy.
I hope you guys have a great romantic weekend
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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okay so recently me and my friend started dicking around and we pranked called this one Guy. And told him my name was Taylor. And then we started texting, and as pathetic as this seems, we became really good friends. Like i can tell him anyyything.And i really like him. He just thinks Im some girl name Taylor. Wev been talking for over three months. Should i tell him the truth? COuld i go to jail. (I live in Colorado if that helps) I just cant imagine loosing him. I need him in my life. But Iv been feeling too guilty lately. Do you think theres a small chance he would forgive me and love me back. (Were just friends, but I kinda wanna be more) How bad do you think it will be if I do tell him. Thanks in advanced. (link)
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Well i think you should tell him before you get deeper into it. It'd be better if he heres it from you and not some other way.
He will be upset (or at least i would(espically if he likes you))
But if you just be completely honest with him it'd be the best because your guilt will go away and you might actually be able to start something with him.
And no you cant go jail. Maybe get a warning for prank calling but that was 3 months ago so don't worry.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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what things around the house could i use to substitute for a real vagina opr a blow/hand job
thanks in advance (link)
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http://www.jackinworld.com/expert/05simul.html
Hope it helped
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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so this is kinda gross and its bothering me.
so i kinda have strong hairgroth. like it even grows on my butt and my back. so IÄm desiding to shave it all cos it's discusting. but is there any kinda way to make it grow less fast and dark?
I'm shaving my arms already, but it's really tireing since i have to get up earlier etc :/
what should i dooo??
i'm NOT one of these fat ugly people or smth and nobody knows about my "issues". I'm also very very pale and have black hair :/ and i'm just scared that if i get a bf he'll be grossed out which i can totally understand. and i wanna feel better about myself :/ heelp. (link)
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Besides shaving, waxing, and laser hair removal i don't know any other ways to get it off.
But
If your growing so much hair, dark and fast you might have a hormonal imbalance. Next time you go to your doctor tell him/her about the rapid hair growth and see what he/she says
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
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