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i was wondering if the knowing..(a movie with nicolous cage) was scary.. like not disaster scary but horror and death scary. i was watching the first like 5 minutes of it and it seemed scary.. in the begining espesially i would like to know. thanks!

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it's not exactly scary its just suspensfull but alittle creepy but mostly stupid! my advice to you is not to watch it!


Sorry in advance if this is a bit long.

16/f
I was with a boy for 7 months. Our relationship was great. We loved each other. However, he told me that he felt like he couldn't make me happy and I deserved better and dumped me. He broke my heart, however eventually I moved on and got over it. 5 Months pass by and he decides to re enter my life! Wanting to give things another try. I lost my virginity to this guy, therefore I feel so attached to him. I take him back and give him another try.
The 2 months we're together is awful. He didn't treat me nicely and refused to tell me he loved me. I told him we should end it. Another 2 months goes by.. and guess who decides to enter my life AGAIN! I was firm with him and told him I couldn't do this again. However, like an idiot I give in.
He told me things i've never heard him say before and that he really did love me blah blah blah.
We hang out again.. and he decides we should be "together" He told me he wants to take it slow to avoid hurting me again. Every time we hangout it gets sexual and we've been "together" now for 2 weeks. He doesn't text me too much. I wonder if
anything will change. My mind is so confused and
I just feel so attached to this kid. Any suggestions of what I should do? (link)
He is just using you and playing with your emotions, i know you feel attatched to him but you have to stay strong woman! say no i will not be used!


13/F

Ello, peeps again.

So, I was talkign about liking the guy Alex, right? Well, we've been really good friends until a day ago. My friend asked him out without my permission! My friend told the whole shcool, now, everybody comes up to me asking, "Are you going out with Alex?" OR "Is it true you love him?" OR "You should really date him. You were meant for each other"
To put it plainly. I purposely started avoiding him. Well, now, he's acting a little weird. He doesn't hang out much with my group of friends like he used to. I like him ,but not as much as before. I would ask him out, but I don't know how. I usually hate asking them out. What if he says no??? I can't handle rejection.
ANYWAY, what do I do? I hate what's going on! it's bugging me so much! HELP! PLEASE!!!!!!!! (link)
your friend who asked him out and told the whole school is not a real friend at all! do not tell her anything personal anymore and do not be her friend. If it got this far you don't have much to lose. just be brave hold your head high and dont hesitate and stand up tall and ask him "i was wondering if you like me or not?" if he says yes then great but if he for some reason says no say "alright, i understand see you tommorrow alex" and walk away confident, and dont slouch! :)


okay heres the problem i give presents to my friend yeah we talk but every time when this girl carolina come she just ditches me and its like when carolinas there im invisible but i really like my best friend what do i do? (link)
Talk to your BFF and tell her you feel invisible and if you need to tell carolina that you want to be included, but if there not willing to make it work shes not a real friend.


wut i u kinda like someone more than a freind but u have a grl freind and u dont know if thr grl u like even likes u. (link)
if you don't know if she likes you and you have a girlfriend then i would just let it go because if she doesnt like you then your girlfriend will break up with you and you will have no girlfriend. but it depends on how much you like her, if its alot then u can ask her if she likes you but keep in mind if your girlfriend finds out then she might break up with you.


My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive? (link)
You need to find somebody to help you. see a doctor or therapist. i am not implying you are crazy so dont worry. other people have this problem. dont do anything stupid, just take it day by day one step at a time everyone has a purpose in life and yours has not been figured out yet. if you cant find anyone who will listen keep searching. look up a doctor or therapy locations in your phonebook. then call them and get some help. : )




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