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I am 5'2 I have long blond hair. I'm tan and I love the beach. I work at abercrombie and fitch in savannah georgia. I love to help people with their problems. So if you need advice just ask me!
I AM A BIG PARTY GIRL..... I love guys...well i should say my boyfriend. we have been together for six years now. and everything that comes along with that....anywho...If y'all have msn add me....I love my sports to death. I love hangin around with my friends when i have time and I love going to school. I know its weird but i dont have to do much work so its all good.

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Male 15
Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do?

Just think of a simple question to ask her and go from there. I can understand that u are shy but its cool she probably knows that. Just strike up a convorsation and drop some hints that u like her.

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It doesn't seem like we have touched on this subject much. I know how contravercial it is...so please dont pass judgement on me. I want advice not a lecture. 2 years ago on Aug 8th I has an abortion. I was 7 weeks Pregnate. I strugle every day with the descion i made. This time of year is the worst though. I had no support from anyone who knew including the scumbag who I had sex with. I mad a rash descion. And to this day I know it was the wrong one. It was increadably selfish. I had more options but I took the easy way out. I should have taken responsibilty for my actions and I didn't. With all that said, my quetion is...what are my chances of being able to conceive a child again. Are they less...or does it make it more difficult becuase of the abortion. Please let me know any info or websites you may know of that can help me. Thanks for your help ! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

I understand completly.....Im 17 I got pregnant when i was 15 and I had an abortion. I wrote my story and it was published in a book....I would go ahead and tell u but this isnt about me if u want to know more just drop one in my inbox. I honestly don't think that you would lose any chances of getting pregnant again. It's very hard to go through something like that and I hope that you have someone to support you and help you out now. I go to counsiling every week for this and it helps out a whole lot. I am not sure about any web sites but you could try yahoo search and type in abortion information and that may help. If ya need anything else u know where to find me. Hope I helped!
Hotblonde123

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i think i sent this but still

like can u give me

sunshine - lil flip
my place - nelly
turn me on - kevin
ti. - gets get away
jad - why

like songs like thos please

How am i suppose to give you those songs?

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ok well like a week ago we had camp for cheerleading..and at the last day we had tryouts to go to the perade (ima cheerleader all ready but this means ur really good) and well..i honestly did perfect in my tryouts..everyone said i did AWESOME and i was gonna make it for sure..well when she told us who made it..all my friends made it and i didn't..even a girl the cheerleader teacher liked made it and she SUCKED i thought i got robbed..and at the end everyone said shes a jealous cheerleader bitch..cuz i shoulda made it..and i know i shoulda cuz it was PERFECT..and i just feel so cheated and hurt cuz i practiced so hard..

Im not trying to be mean or anything but there could have been something that they didnt like about u that they liked about the other girls. I really wouldnt take it personal. I am a cheerleader too and I have always been the one that was so perfect at everything that i did and I was just a godess to the whole school. You dont want to be that way. I am the captain and im the one who tells ppl that they can or cannot be on the team when it comes to try outs. I dont look for someone who is perfect. I look for someone who looks like they are haveing fun. Someone that smiles and has all those crazy lookin faces. Maybe u just took it to seriously and u were not havin enough fun. Hope I helped....If ya need anything else drop one in my inbox.
Maybe u should talk to ur coach about it.

Hotblonde123

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hey well how do u get music in ur buddy4u pro ?
please help if ya do ill rate u !! PLEASE

Hey...I am not sure how you would do that...I tried it and it didnt work. Sorry I didnt help
Hotblonde123

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how do you make-out or french kiss?..and is there really a differnce?

A french kiss is when u kiss a guy/girl and u use ur tongue its not just lips. When u make out its when u kiss for a long time french kissing and just pecks.

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if my face is like flaking cuz of dry skin but i have like 8 zits on each cheek that i need gone then what do i do to get the zits gone without creating new ones from the dead skin cells clogging pores?????
also, any tips to get my skin clear by school which is in 3 weeks for me???

Well first of all if toothpaste worked then no one would have them....anyway...you should make sure you wash your face at least twice a day with soap or face wash...it might help. and if your a girl make sure u do it to get all of ur make up off and what not. Put lotion on ur face. That helps some. I am not sure how to get rid of acne cause I have never had it. Hope I helped.

Hotblonde123

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I have long blonde hair and I want to cut, but not short! But I want to have bangs that go to the side, kind of like mary-kate and ashley olsen do. Do you guys have any sites/pictures I can go to that have cute styles like that? THANKS!

You can go to a search engine and type cute hair cutes......i got mine off of there.....i cant remember the site though......hope i helped....please rate

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where can i get good pictures of Cute Emo Boys?

I am not sure....try searchin for them on yahoo.
What the hell is that anyway?

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My 15 yr old boyfriend is on vacation with his friend. Every time we talk he's always busy and says for me to call him back. He's also being a little rude to me and acting like we're not even going out. I'm trying to play off as a vacation thing. He's trying to have fun, maybe flirt a bit, etc. Do you think he's acting this way just because he's away, with his friend, wanting to talk to girls..like its some sort of 'phase' right now? I know when he comes back it'll be different and he'll be back to his old self though.

I think that u should bring it to his attention... But my boyfriend does it all the time...its not that he is tryin to act that way its just he is on vaca and havin fun with his friend....u should set a time to call him everyday....talk bout ten mins and then dont call the rest of the day.....Hope i helped....Please rate

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Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :(

I dont think that there is anything wrong with it. If you like him then you like him. Age shouldn't matter unless u are younger then 18 and he his way older than 18. Hope I helped.

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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

No not really

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why is it that i always seem to fall in love then screw it up? i mean i always get hurt is there ne guys out there that i can talk to that are readin this if so plz answer this!

Well im not a guy but....Let me put it this way if you fall in love a lot i dont think that you truly are in love. As my teacher always says "your not in love your in deeply like". Just be more carefull with your relationships and what not. Sorry if I didnt help any.

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i had sex but im not preagnant i feel horrible

Well I dont know what to tell you. you need to add a little more cause u are not giving us much to go one. Good luck

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((the girl with the X bf dumped him 2ce want him back))
your advice was great i really appreciate it~ but
the only thing is he met sum girl the other night and hes lik idk if it means anything blah blah... but last night our conversation was lik he likes me still... and hes all saying how he dont lik to think about our memmories cause it makes him want it... ~ so im lik super confused... do u think this girl will wreck my chances with getting him back? *mare*

This girl could mess up the chances of y'all getting back together. umm im not to sure what to say other than just talk to him. Let him know that you dont want her to ruin anything that he has known you a lot longer and that you do love him(only if u really do.) and want to be with him. Tell him that the memories are there for a reason and if they make him want u back then thats a good thing cause it tell him how good the relationship was. I hope I helped ya again. Tell me how things go and if you want to talk you can add me to msn messenger if u have it.lover_lovesu@hotmail.com....I dont have yahoo or aol anymore.
GOOD LUCK!!

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Ok... theres a guy i dated and ... i broke up with him lik 2ce ~ only cause the first time was because i was scared to put my heart in sum1s hands again... but we got thru that and got back together... and the 2nd time was because everyone got in the way and i was really confused about everything and so i jus ended it cause i didnt kno what was going on... i finnaly realized i shouldnt let people get n the way... and that i really trusted this guy... and i kinda want him back... we both admitted we still love each other... but he dont want to get back with me yet... he said why would he wanna jump into it cause hes scared id break up with him again... and i dont kno how to prove that i wouldnt... i dont really know where me and him stand... we still talk all the time... last night we talked about some of our good times and he was lik i dont lik to think about it cause then it makes me want it ... and im lik well whats wrong with wanting something... and hes all idk... so im so confused should i wait for him?... should i just give up and say its over... cause me and him had something ive never had before... he was different from all the other guys... he gave me this feeling... idk... this advice girl needs some advice... wanna lend a helpin thought?...

Well don't give up on him. He is scared that you will hurt him and thats it. Just explain to him what you explained to us. Tell him that you really do love him but you were trying to make everyone else happy not the two of yall. If you have the same feeling that i have about my ex boyfriend then god knows try everything in ur will power to get back with him cause if you just give up and wait to long u will never have another chance. Hope I helped! GOOD LUCK!!!

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i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee..

Well I had that same problem except for I kinda ditched them during the school year cause of my boyfiend and then we got really close again and now i hardly talk to any of them, but anyways. Just talk to them and tell them how you feel. Say that you miss hangin out with them and you dont understand why yall havent talked much this summer. That is what i did and now we are with each other everyday. Hope i helped

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my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?

hmmm. Well im not to sure that you can actually tell her that you dont like it without soundin like that but we can give it a shot. Just tell her that she does have a very nice body but you dont really like some of the clothes that she wears cause u feel like she doesnt care about u just about all the other guys that are lookin at her. I am sorry if i didnt help but i tried.
Rate me please!

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My boyfriend and i were goin out for about 7 and a half months all of a sudden he breaks up with me cuz he said he loves me as a friend now and we didnt see each other that much and its not like i didnt try to see him about every weekend i called him and asked if he wanted to do sumtin but he was always busy with his friends but two days later hes goin out with this girl who i thought was my friend and sorry to say but shes a slut and he said to me im goin to stay low for a while and not go out with anyone now he doesnt talk to me anymore and its like i dont know if i should just forget about his sorry ass and his new girlfriend or just leave it a lone... thanks for the advice - Erin

Ok well first off you need to say something to your "so called friend" and he doesnt love you too much if he did what he did. Tell him how you feel. He didnt want to be with you that bad if he always went out with his friends and not you when you asked. So that wasnt a good reason to break up with you beacause it was his fault not your. He is an ass hole for what he did and I wouldnt worry about him. Find someone knew that will treat you right. After you talk to him this last time just tell him you would really like to be friends but that is up to him and that you are not going to try with him anymore. I honestly wouldnt be friends with the other girl either. Hope I helped you out if you need anything else u know what to do. Oh and if i offended u im sorry

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i like this guy named sage. He likes me. we both know we like eachother. well the other day i was out w/ a bunch of friends and he was like... do you think i am sweet? and i was like no comment. he has a gf or he would have already asked me out. he came up to me just about the time we were going to leave and was like... u turned me down. i told him i was sry but i didnt want all my friends to kno right then. i told him i was going to wait until we started going out. then he was like we might not. WHAT?!?!? he may b moving to another state. now he is mad @ me for turning him down. he didn't show up the next day when we went top go hang out w/ all our friends. so what do i do? do i call him or wat? Help Me quick! he might come to "the spot" where we hang tonight!

Well you kinda had a right to say that because he does have a girlfiend. Just tell him that you didnt want all your friends to know because u didnt want them to think that you were trying to break the two of them up. Tell him you really like him and that you dont want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. Hope I helped

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