Okay everyone, my actual name isn't Maggie. In fact, it isn't even remotely close to the name Maggie but I use it as sort of an "alter ego".
I do this so that you can ask me any questions and not be worried that I'm actually your sister's boyfriend's best friend.
I am studying to be a therapist so go ahead and ask all the questions you want to. Topic doesn't matter: love, sex, friendship, passion, work, school, family. Anything goes here on Go Ask Maggie.
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wow....so this is going to sound strange, I'm sure but you did say you were up for all types of questions, right? Good. Okay so when Im having sex with my boyfriend, sometimes, his....um his penis gets so enlarged that its too big for my...you know...my hole and then sex hurts. When I tell him it hurts and that he should stop he does it harder and gets more turned on and like...um...like...grabs on to my boobs and hurts me more. It's notlike he's being abusive...hes just...horny. What do I do?
-Bruised Beaver- (link)
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Bruised Beaver,
Don't be embarassed. This happens to alot of women. Sometimes, two people genetically ust aren't made to be together. You need to sit your boyfriend down outside of when your having sex and explain to him that when he pushes harder while his penis is enlarged it is painful for you. If he is really a good boyfriend, he will understand.
Also, there are certain drugs that men can take so that they still get erections but their penises don't puff out in that way that it hurts you. If you still want to engage in sexual intercourse and your boyfriend is willing to take these drugs, consult your doctor. Good Luck!
Maggie
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I'm 14 years old and a girl and i'm having so much trouble deciding whether or not i should tell this guy that i like him. i'm very afraid of rejection and even though i dont like to admit i know that i will care what people think about him and I being together. What should I do? (link)
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Dear friend,
I have been in that very same position on many occasions and it sucks. Ask yourself these questions:
1.Do you like him enough to disregard what other people say?
2.Does he ever hint around about liking you back?
3.Do you guys spend alot of time together?
4.Can you put aside your fears and go for what you really want?
If you answered yes to most of the questions then I say go for the gold girlie! Go find your man and tell him how you feel. Think about it this way, if he does like you then you'll be able to have a relationship and if he doesn't. it will all be forgotten in a matter of weeks. Trust me, I learned the hard way.
Always go for what you want!!!!
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first off i dont have an upper lip. well i have one but it really thin. my boyfriend has told that it is dificult to kiss me because he has some big lips. anything i can do about that? and my second question for soemreally when i kiss my bf i get all nerves and scafred that i will mess it all up since i barely see him and i want to leave him wit a good impression. anything i can do? and is there a way for me to slow myself down when kissing? thanks some much.
and any tips on making out would be apperiated.. where can you or should you put ur hands will making out with a guy? (link)
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Okay, so I think that you can't really do anything about your upper lip. When you kiss your boyfriend try sucking on his lower lip to draw attention away from your upper lip....guys like that anyway.
Maing out is tough to judge. It depends on where exactly your making out with someone to know where to put your hands. Here's my chart:
Standing:
Guys- arms around lower waist/butt area
Girls- on his face or around his neck
Sitting:
Guys: Arms around her waist or gently caressing her face
Girls: around his torso
Laying On Top Of Eachother:
Well...I think you can figure that out for yourselves.
Hope my advice helped!
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