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k . so i really like this boy named DeJohn , & he likes me to ` he asked me out yesterday but i told him lets " talk " for a while .... im just scared that the SAME thing is gonna happen as it did last time ` which was gettin called a nigger lover & treated as if i was a fuckin peice of dirt i mean i SERIOUSLY dont kno What the hell is wrong with datin a black boy i mean ok different color skin i mean BIG WHOOP ? .. help me ` should i just go out with him or WHAT ??
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bein called a nigga luva can get annoyin..people seem 2 have rude opinions bout 2 people wid different colored skin goin out which is WRONG!! dont let anyone get in the way! there isz absolutely NOTHING wrong wid goin out wid sum1 who haz different colored skin, theyre human too. what matters isz da inside && not da outside (sum people dont see dat)! if he`sz a good guy && you like him den go 4 it!! =] && if people kant accept da fact you like dejohn den theyre not worth it..juss follow your heart! hope i helped!! =]
sincerely,
chikita
((good luck)) =D
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I don't feel safe at my school.
Like, yesterday, I left my binder in a class in a basket under the seat. I come back today and it is totally ALL written on, every single page [which is like 100 pages]. It says "Dum ho", "slut", "sell out", "I HATE YOU B@#!@! :D" all this unprintable stuff.
and, today in 5th period, i get a pass to go to the bathroom and when I walk outside, the guys that love to torment me start making fun of me.
HIM:"HEY IT'S UGLY GIRL!!! GODDMMT! Why are you so ugly!!?!?"
ME:"I'm not ugly. JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!"
HIM: *he gets 4 inches close to my face* "Why should we?"
ME: "Well, if you think I'm so ugly, why don't you just leave so you don't have to look at me?"
and the night before, i bit my lip really hard and it swelled up on the bottom lip.
HIM: "HEY WHATS ON YOUR LIP?"
ME: "Its-"
HIM: "-EWWW IS THAT HERPES!!?!? OH MY GOD IT'S HERPES!!!"
now they wait for me at the doors they know i'm going through so they can torment me.
i don't feel safe.
i don't want to go to the bathroom or go outside of class, or even switch classes!
i'm constantly looking out for people that hate me.
what do i do? :\
please help soon.
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that is not fair at all! =[ people shouldnt gang up on you like that and even if they dislike you, they shouldnt do what theyre doing..if you REALLY feel unsafe @ ur school, tell an adult..tell em wuss goin on and how you feel..NO ONE should feel like that @ school where you spend most of your day..if you dont wanna tell an adult..try sayin str8 up..why do u hate me so much, what have i ever done to you..or have some friends back you up and see what comes out of it..juss remember **violence solves NOTHING** i really hope your problem is fixxed soon..best wishes
sincerely,
chikita
((p.s.- i kant guarantee results, but its worth a try right?))
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well i used to flirt with my crush all the time and i kinda backed off becuz i didnt want 2 scare him away. then i think this one **** girl Eden found out and whenever i try to talk 2 him she grabs him away and starts talkin 2 him. (by the way i figured out that he likes me) now he never really talks to me and stuff any more and always talk to Eden and stuff but he still stares at me and sometimes he talks to me but not like before and why is he like this. hes real confusin.and for somereason im kinda afriad to flirt with him infront of her becuz i never really get a chance. tomorrow im really gonna try and do what i used to do to him. and i made a list of like everything to do so i dont get stuck but anymore tips how i flirt with him while Eden is there. i want him to like ask me out before Christams break or something. him, me and eden are int that class together. i really wanna flirt with him but sometimes i cant get myself to so i kinda need help. thanks to eveyone who helps!!!!!!!
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dont let that girl intimidate you! yeah i know whutchu mean, and tryin to flirt in front of someone you know wants to take the same chance you do can make you feel a bitt funny..but if you think he likes you and you like him, you shouldnt let anyone get in the middle of it! juss go for it and forget the rest! if you spend all your time worrying about "her", you`ll never have ur time to shine! =] hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
((good luck)) =]
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How can you tell if you like someone.. (link)
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most of the time,this is a hard question to ask ..its juss sorta in your heart..ask urself these questions..
-when you see him/her, talk to him/her, or hear his/her name, do u get nervous or butterflies in your stomach?
-do you try to talk to him/her alot?
-do you think you like him/her enough to have him/her as a crush
-do you feel comfortable around him/her
-do you like their qualities as a person (if you`ve talked to them before)
-do you stare alot?
-do you think about him/her alot?
**if you`ve answered yes to any of these questions..chances are you like them!! now for anyone who is reading this, this isnt some exact method..just questions that may be worthwile thinking aboutt
hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
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okay so everyday i see boyfreiends and girlfriends walking down the hall holding hands and hugging and it really makes me mad bc i dont have a boyfriend and boys in 7th grade are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO freakin' immature and we have a dance coming up and im hoping someone wil ask me but i think itwould be weird if i asked someone. but i really dont know who i like bc i never really got to know any of the guys in achool. (link)
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i think you should try to meet some of the guys @ ur school..and yeah lets face it..lol guysz kan be really immature theze daysz..itsz juss how they r..but beneath all those "immature" actionsz kan be a guy who can turn out to be a really good friend..or maybe even more! try to start a conversation with one of them, maybe laugh at one of their jokes and try to spark a convoz., or maybe try to figure out wat theyre into..maybe you guys have stuff in common..=]
hope i helped!!
sincerely,
chikita
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I need help.badly.Im a female age 15 from New Jersey and im in highschool.I knew this boy for about a year and a half.I've always liked him and still do.We have been best friends and still are.I need advice see this is why.We both have the same classes and we are always together.We make each other laugh and everything.One day we were walking home from school and we went to my friends pool party.It was really big.When i changed into my bathing suit he said that i looked nice and gave me a kiss in the cheek and then dronk his juice.well then when we went inside aftre the pool party cuz some people slept over we were going to play truth or dare.My best friend knew i liked him so she did it on purpose.she dared him to kiss me.i was shocked.obviously he was playing but when he gave me that kiss it felt like i was in heaven.He is the most popular and hottest guy in school and im the second most popular and hottest girl in school(says the yearbook)and sorry if it sounds conceited but im not).Now i feel shy to sit next to him or talk to him.what should i do.Now he looks at me like in a way he never looked at me before.He flirts with me and holds my hand and i dont know what to do.does he like me.does he not like me.should i flirt back should i not.What should i do.PLEASE HELP ME.I NEED ADVICE.ASAP. (link)
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if you like him, go for it!! =] yes it seems that he likes you alot..flirt back, see if it will work out between you two..take a chance =] hope i helped =]
sincerely,
chikita
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