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hey there is this guy and he is in my grade but a year older and he is really nice and hot but there is always girls around him but i want to ask him to the prom....
-how should i do it?
-do I have any chance voer the other girls?
-and should i ask him at all?
thanx..... Laura (link)
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First of all a girl ALWAYS has a chance over all the other girls, you just don't know until you ask. Now if he's nice like you say than don't be nervous about asking him out because if god forbid he says no he'll probably be really nice about it. So yes, you have a chance, yes you should ask him, heres how you do it: walk up to him confidently. don't slouch and make sure you're hair, make-up and smile is just the way u like it. When you walk up to him say the usual hey-what's up etc. etc. Than ask if he's excited for prom. If he doesn't say anything bout a date in that response say "I don;t know if you're going with anyone but if you're not maybe we could go together." Remember-whatever his response is don't over react beacuase it's not attractive and is extremely childish. Good luck!
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well i like this boy. and we were talking about who we like and he asked me who i liked, and im like someone, why? and he's like i know someone that likes you. and then he was giving hints of who he likes. 1. he's good friends with them. [we're best friends.] 2. they're in our math class, [i'm in it] 3. its not my two best friends who are also in our math class. [its either me, or one other person] i think its me, but i dont want to say it cause idk if its true. what should i do? (link)
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Now this a situation that can end happily like all those fairy tales or miserably. I f you want to look cool calm and collected not obsessed and desperate follow my instructions! First of if he doesn't bring it up, then you don't bring it up. If you're dying ot know suggest a game of truth or dare. The question is bound to come up. When it does don't get overexcited. If he refuses to tell don't pester him. The holidays are coming so get him a meaningful gift about your friendship. It can go along with an inside joke, be a mix cd of his fave songs, or a batch of his fave brownies. Include a note that says: "You're the best guy friend a girl could have!" After he reads it say: I was hoping you might be the best boyfriend a girl could have too!
p.s-mistletoe never hurt anyone lol!
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ok im in 7th grade and I really like an 8th grader.He looks at me in the halls and stuff but he doesnt say hi in person
nd we talk on AIM alot but im not sure if he likes me. Yesterday I said no-one likes me and he said I LIKE YOU but then i seaid I MEAN LIKE LIKE then he signed off.
what does all of that mean? (link)
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Wow. The only way I could tell you exactly what this means would be if I had the magical powers of figuring out the weird things guys do. No girl has that power so we just have to try and look for clues and hints that guys drop. He could possibly mean he just likes you plain and simple as a friend. When he signed off, that either means he got nervous and didn't want to tell you anything or he didn't want to hurt your feelings. Since you said you guys really don't talk in person do this: When you see him in the hall or in the cafeteria tell him he really made you feel better. Try and keep a normal friendship up. Once you hang oout more in public try asking him out! Good luck, hope I helped!
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in health class we were talking about descison making and these guys in my class were talking about grinding and then the teacher got into it and said, "So you don't care if the girl's smart, you just care if she's hot?" and then my crush said heck yes. he grinds with a lot of girls and idk if i should like him if all he wants from me is to grind. what should i do? (link)
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Ahh the jerkish remarks of the teenaged male. We can't blame them completely for their sexual minds part of that is their testosterone talking. So don't totally forget about this guy. Think about how he was with girls when they weren't grinding. Did he pick up things she dropped, or did he drop things so she would bend down.... If your instinct tells you this guy is a bad decision then dont date him but if he seems okay and just like all other guys go on liking him. Hope I helped. IM me if u want metgirl517
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i'm 75 lbs.
and i'm 12 years old.
is that healthy?
all my friends joke about me being too skinny,
cause im the skinniest out of all of them.
i eat regularly, but i dont really eat junk food.
am i heathly? (link)
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First of all I love you!!! I'm 13 and way 78 pounds and my friends say the same thing. You are probably healthy, although that depends on your height. You probably have a really high metabolism or if you're involved in lots of activities that use energy like dancing or sprts you burn off lots of fat. Because I don't know your height i suggest you google BMI(Body Mass Index) It will use your height and weight to decide if your the right weight. If your really concerned about being under weight talk to your doctor! IM me if you want!-metgirl517
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i like this person, but he's going out with another girl. i want him to like me, but i know he's happy with her. we're really close friends, but i want to be more. what should i do?
girl
age 14 (link)
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If you really care about this guy you'll let him be. This may sound like really bad and annoying advice, but it's true. If you know he's happy don't do anything to ruin his relationship because he won't come running to you he'll be really angry at you. Because your in middle-high school the odds are in your favor that they'll probably break up. If/when they do comfort him. I suggest bake him cookies and watch a really funny movie(but not the BREAK UP!) Give him time to feel better before asking him out. Who knows? He might ask you before you as him. Good luck and IM me if you have anymore ????: metgirl517@aol.com
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im 13 and i'm a girl. i really like this boy, but he never likes me. i mean, he's told me 3 times that he's liked me before, but just never asked me out. i really like him, but idk. he's broken me down a lot, but he's always been there for me when i needed him most. he gives me hugs sometimes when im sad, and he makes me laugh, but he also makes me cry. what should i do? (link)
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This is a tough one. I've been in your situation before and frankly it can suck.But never fear! I've gotten out of theses situations. He sounds like a really amazing friend being there for you when you need him and all so preserve that. If you guys stay really close friends and it sounds like you are he'll eventually see the great girl right in front of him. For now do things you would do with all your other friends get him holdiay/birthday presents celebrate achivements hang out! The more quality time the better. I hope I helped and IM me any time you want. metgirl517
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I really like this guy in my grade.We're not friends, but i think we should be best friends before i ask him out.How do i becime friends with him?
Female
About 13 (link)
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Hi! First of all thanks for asking me. Now to answer your question. It's smart of you to want to become friends befor taking the big plunge. If you want to become friends talk to him a few times and figure out what kind of things he likes. Then once you know the things you have in common build a conversation on that. If you have enough in common you'll probably end up at similar events and places anyway, but knowing what he likes can help u figure out where to go with him. If you feel good and want to ask him out, do so specifically. Say where and when you want to go so if he's busy he can reschedule! If you have any more questions IM me : metgirl517
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