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Member Since: July 23, 2004
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if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
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lieing is the worst possible thing to do in this situation, because when he finds out that you lied your of course made out to be the bad guy/girl and people just dont liek liars.....i think you should tell him exactly this "right no i really dont think i can handle a boyfreind : \
, i'm really busy with xxxx and xxxx and i really dont have time for one right now" or explain how you have a bad history with relationships and don't feel liek getting into another one....many options only question now is which one you think is the best thing to tell him


Hey im 16 yrs. old and lately i've been notcing white stuff coming out of my vagina, is that normal? and what is it? Thanks -Ashley (link)
is this just like during normal activities or is this like during a sexual activity or something along those lines......if these are just random emmisions the best thing to do is just ask your mom what to do tell her the situation....nothing at all will seem awkward to her because chances are she has had this same problem as she has been a women for quite sometime.....she will most likely take you to the gynocologist which is a doctor that specializes in vaginas and such.... he will examine it and just like a regular checkup he will tell you whatever problem if at all there is a problem you have......hope i helped anymore questions feel free to ask


I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it? (link)
aright here goes......from a guys point of view, all this guy wants is to try new things, and like all men he fantasizes about different sexual positions yada yada, the point is no matter where you are top, bottem, or whatever the most important thing is to just make sure your both comfortable....asking a guy if it feels ok during sex is perfectly normal...even if it seems awkward believe me if this guy is straight he wont mind the extra few seconds it takes to get cituated......my last point is that if you are uncomfortable with being on top or are just nervous about it the obvious solution is to just tell him you dont want to or tell him your not comfortable with it.....i personally recomend trying it because i think it increases pleasure for both, as the girl gets to do, and move about however she likes the guy is still getting the same sex just in a more sexy and fantasy like position hah......hope i helped


I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore! (link)
truthfully your worrying about this way too much....if this girl was ever your best friend don't worry about it all. If she was actually a best friend shes not going to just ditch you (permenantly that is) see the thing is when you meet knew people(in this case when your freind met her new friend) you are initially more interested in them becuase the way they talk act and feel are all new and interesting to you....but actually in this situation the best thing(in my opinion) to do would be to start hanging out with both of them....like say your best freind says "me and xxxxx are goin to the mall" just ask if she minds if you go too, and obviously if she is any kind of best friend she will say of course. This way you get to still hang out with your best friend but you might also make a new friend.......win win


can a certain type of condom make u lose your erection? me and my boyfriend were gonna do it and everytime he put on a condom, he lost his erection...do u think it may be this certain kind? (link)
to tell you the truth and to give you the real answer to this question from a guys point of view.....a foolproof way of avoiding this cituation is putting it on yourself....believe me just the foriegn feel of your hands putting it on will pump the blood through even if the damn thing is too small,and yea nerves tend to just disappear when your girlfriend puts on the condom for you.....those are my thoughts at least


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yea one more thing you listen to awsome bands too...ya gotta give "a static lullaby" a listne they're good too




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